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FullCircle -> RE: One Night Stands (10/14/2007 9:44:57 AM)

Yeah I was being facetious. I’ve tried using smiley faces but they don’t help.




Level -> RE: One Night Stands (10/14/2007 9:49:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: FullCircle

Yeah I was being facetious. I’ve tried using smiley faces but they don’t help.


That's okay, I understand you.




Aileen68 -> RE: One Night Stands (10/14/2007 9:56:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

"Oh please".. you should have mentioned it.  (or do you forget that too in the heat of hot monkey sex?)  Careless, child.. very careless.  Try again.


Do you always refer to 40 year olds as children?  If grown adults don't know about safe sex then that's not my problem.  I'll take hot monkey sex any day.  You sound bitter and angry. 




NorthernGent -> RE: One Night Stands (10/14/2007 9:59:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

Oh Northern Gent, my girlish heart is all aflutter now, ya big smoothy.[8D]



See, that's the problem when I let my guard down....my gentle side shows itself and women get the wrong idea.




NorthernGent -> RE: One Night Stands (10/14/2007 10:00:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: divi

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

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ORIGINAL: Sunao

never had a one night stand but it seems like it'd be really interesting. I really wouldn't know how to throw up that idea to a total stranger though.


Try....."I'll pick you up at 7, don't say a fuckin' word from the moment you get in my car, I'll take you to a quiet spot, gag you, slap you around and fuck you into a coma".

If she's reasonable, she'll say "any chance we can make it sooner than 7?"

If she's not, well, the obstructive types have a habit of being self-absorbed and non-cooperative.


wondering if he is one of my one night stands... didn't catch your name lol


Highly unlikely, divi, you'd remember me........for a kick off, I'd be the only one in a mask and wearing a pair of leather gloves.




FullCircle -> RE: One Night Stands (10/14/2007 10:09:11 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Level
That's okay, I understand you.


Thanks Level you are one of the few that does.

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68
Do you always refer to 40 year olds as children?  If grown adults don't know about safe sex then that's not my problem.  I'll take hot monkey sex any day.  You sound bitter and angry. 


It’s because you look 21 Aileen, look at my tongue it’s so brown! I know all the monkey positions by the way. I’ve read the monkey sex handbook. Humm should I have said that or will it put people off?




dawntreader -> RE: One Night Stands (10/14/2007 10:16:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: InkedMaster

Hell I even have a pic of my one night stand...
http://www.ethanallen.com/jsp/univers_prod.jsp?imageName=375436 



[sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif]
THAT is funny!!
And yes, i blazenly admit to one nighters. Some of the mornings after were like "wtf did i do that for?"  and "damn, i am such a slut!" But most have been a helluva lot of fun [;)]




Aileen68 -> RE: One Night Stands (10/14/2007 10:16:36 AM)

Ha...well I too am a fan of kissing ass, figuratively and more importantly on this site, literally. 
*Folks...If you are going to kiss ass, PLEASE MAKE SURE TO USE PROTECTION OF SOME SORT AND SOME MOUTHWASH AFTERWARDS*





FullCircle -> RE: One Night Stands (10/14/2007 10:33:25 AM)

People stop kissing one another outside of marriage unless you want god to give you the flu!




Maya2001 -> RE: One Night Stands (10/14/2007 10:35:09 AM)

It is funny how is is viewed acceptable and good for males but for females it is viewed very negatively and demeaning.and that sex should only be part of a meaningful relationship.

I went thru periods after a vary abusive marriage where I had no interest in seeking a long term relationship, if any thing the ocassional one night stands and casual play partners became part of the healing process and helped to teach me abuse did not have to part of the relationship , it also taught me I am not a victim that when involved in this type of relationship i am in a power position , it is not being forced on me or allowing them to take me but an equal at the time and in control if I want to continue and see the person I can if I don't  I can use them to help satisfy my own sexual needs,   so it  helped to build my self esteem,  some were very hot and exciting others rather dull and boring  It is no longer the type of relationship I seek now but i have no regrets  as it added to my library of experiences and help me learn and grow and try new things as I did not have to worry about the commitment baggage which I knew I was not ready for.    I think the most important part for a women that decides to give it a try is not to view as being used because that is how you wil feel about yourself afterward but to view being an equal partner or even the user inorder to get something out of the experience.  And as someone else said , it can be liberating, for me it has, I would not be here today if it had not been for those relationships as it helped open my mind to learning new experiences






domiguy -> RE: One Night Stands (10/14/2007 10:56:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: FullCircle

People stop kissing one another outside of marriage unless you want god to give you the flu!


Tired and grouchy....Please forgive me...My usual, highly debated, sense of humor has apparently alluded me today....My apologies.




FullCircle -> RE: One Night Stands (10/14/2007 11:00:27 AM)

Shit happens. They say.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: One Night Stands (10/14/2007 3:46:34 PM)

I've had one night stands which were much better sex than some of my long term relationships.  :)

Best and most memorable was a guy I met in Ireland when I went up to Dubline on my way to mainland Europe.  We both got put into the same hostel room- he was a hot California guy.  Oddly enough I was just coming back from a failed date with a kinky guy I met online and he was just settling in.  We talked for hours, went to a movie, he asked if he could kiss me in the elevator going back, we practically lunged to eachother and by the time we reached our room door, decided to get a real hotel room down the block.  That actually turned into a two day stand.




LotusSong -> RE: One Night Stands (10/14/2007 6:52:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

"Oh please".. you should have mentioned it.  (or do you forget that too in the heat of hot monkey sex?)  Careless, child.. very careless.  Try again.


Do you always refer to 40 year olds as children?  If grown adults don't know about safe sex then that's not my problem.  I'll take hot monkey sex any day.  You sound bitter and angry. 


Bitter and angry?  Not at all not at all.  I didn't even look at your profile to see your age before I replied to your post.  I've been married for 34 years plus I have had a slave for  past 11.  I guess I believe in commitment.  People are not disposable toys.
 
Sorry, but you come across as like a hooker looking for business.  I would have never guessed you were a whole 40!




SugarMyChurro -> RE: One Night Stands (10/14/2007 7:19:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: FullCircle
Actually sex with a stranger can be liberating because you don’t have to worry about the effect things could have on a relationship. So you are happy to try things you’d otherwise think twice about.


I would never think twice about anything. I would be honest in all of my sexual relationships. When you lie about or conceal your truths like that you fail primarily in regards to yourself.

Your statement has "failure with intimacy" written all over it...





FatDomDaddy -> RE: One Night Stands (10/14/2007 8:00:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong
Bitter and angry?  Not at all not at all.  I didn't even look at your profile to see your age before I replied to your post.  I've been married for 34 years plus I have had a slave for  past 11.  I guess I believe in commitment.  People are not disposable toys.


What a load of nonsense!

Ya know what... some people ARE disposable toys by CHOICE.

Did you ever think of that?




dcnovice -> RE: One Night Stands (10/14/2007 8:01:12 PM)

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Bitter and angry?  Not at all not at all.


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you come across as like a hooker looking for business


Hmmm.




GoddessMine -> RE: One Night Stands (10/14/2007 8:41:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

Bitter and angry?  Not at all not at all.  I didn't even look at your profile to see your age before I replied to your post.  I've been married for 34 years plus I have had a slave for  past 11.  I guess I believe in commitment.  People are not disposable toys.
 
Sorry, but you come across as like a hooker looking for business.  I would have never guessed you were a whole 40!


Dayum. Bitch got claws!

Love,
GM




Lumus -> RE: One Night Stands (10/14/2007 8:45:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I'm a big advocate for one night stands.  I think everyone should have at least one in their lifetime.  There's just something about getting primal with a stranger.  I find it to be fucking hot.  Soooo....have you ever and did you enjoy it?


Banter of the thread aside for a moment...

I had at least one - in fact, only one.  It sucked, horribly, and there's a reason.  It's not intimacy.  It's that frankly, I'm a very twisted individual who knows what he likes, and the odds of finding someone who likes the things I do are not as good as you might think.  Raw sex sucks if it's not what you want...now *there* is a male statement for you! [:D]

I get off up here *taps his temple*.  He...*points down* is just along for the ride.




MissMagnolia -> RE: One Night Stands (10/14/2007 9:12:55 PM)

Fucking hell, the venoms a bit thick around here!! I didn't realise we all had to be in a committed relationship/married to have sex. I feel like such a tramp now.[:(]

Done the one nighters, some good, some crap, I don't like how I feel afterwards.

Aileen, you gorgeous thing, I hate you. If you're 40, I look 193. [:D]




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