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laurell3 -> RE: male submission (10/29/2007 12:55:38 PM)

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lateralist1 -> RE: male submission (10/29/2007 2:51:40 PM)

Oh dear you are definietly not my type liks2plzlf  lol.
How could I ever trust you?
Just ttoo many candy bars out there.
Why aren't you fat by the way?



lateralist1 -> RE: male submission (10/29/2007 2:52:50 PM)

Thankyou very much indeed laurell3



MsBearlee -> RE: male submission (10/29/2007 3:01:59 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

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I find that those whom might consider me weak or a wimp just need an ass kickin.

But I'll probably ask for permission first, just so I get something out of it too. 



OMG... no wonder I get such a kick outta you!
 
<smiles broadly>
Beverly



lateralist1 -> RE: male submission (10/29/2007 3:05:32 PM)

I have no idea how I would teach my offspring if I had any probably the same as anything else when they see or hear something that makes them curious and they comment on it. That's why TV and BDSM shops are great.
What is normal by the way?
I must admit though it has taken me a lot to come to terms with who I am. And I am still searching to answer that question totally.
Lifestyle people have been a great help in this.
Maybe we can help you CdnExplorer.



CdnExplorer -> RE: male submission (10/29/2007 6:58:11 PM)

Indeed, what IS normal? Whatever it is, it's not something I've ever been heh. Being kinky like we are can be hard at times. I've come to accept who I am, but still there are many times where it would simply be so much easier to be vanilla. But of course, where is the fun in that?



bipolarber -> RE: male submission (10/29/2007 7:51:06 PM)

In rsponse to the OP's questions: It's a strength. No, I hardly think of myself as a wimp.

Women are the center of my universe. I humble myself before them, their nurturing ability, their miracle of being able to give life. I respect, honor and protect them wherever possible.

Are men weak when they stand up and refuse to be a part of the mainstream "macho" crap, because they know the truth? Is one weak when they weather the insults of fools who buy into that male power fanstay bullshit? Are they weak because they support others? Are they wimps because they give of themselves, for another's pleasure and well being?

I think not.
Submissive. Male. Proud.



liks2plzlf -> RE: male submission (10/29/2007 10:56:18 PM)

Thanks Ms Laurell3. If you have a horse stable, perhaps I might be able to clean it for you. I have asked for that information numerous times, and your the first to answer. I am very appreciative.  



liks2plzlf -> RE: male submission (10/29/2007 11:01:10 PM)

I would gladly give up the candy for a chance to serve. I probably am not fat because I was a  mailman. If you can't trust the mailman, who can you trust?



lateralist1 -> RE: male submission (10/30/2007 12:40:10 PM)

Our mailmen have just been on strike lol. Quite rightly though so I have forgiven them.
I do understand the male subs feelings for all women but you do have to choose just one at sometime.
The sweet shop is fine for a while but it really will give you toothache as you get older.



liks2plzlf -> RE: male submission (10/30/2007 10:28:52 PM)

So candy is dandy, but sex won't rot your teeth. Heard that before.  Wow! Your mailmen can go on strike! Not legal here in the states. Hope they got a good contract.I really only want one Domina to control or maybe own me.



lateralist1 -> RE: male submission (10/31/2007 10:32:44 AM)

I'm glad your prepared to commit to one woman liks2plzlf.
I doubt that the mailmen won anything by going on strike.
In fact they probably lost a lot of business to the rest of the private sector.I think it was a bit like Custers last stand.However they do still have the right. Rights or freedoms are being erroded at an amazing rate though.



fergus -> RE: male submission (10/31/2007 10:36:12 AM)

Definately a strength ;)

fergus



lateralist1 -> RE: male submission (11/1/2007 2:58:03 AM)

Thankyou Fergus. I like your profile. We seem to think alike. Yes I want a partner who enjoys BDSM but not one who only wants BDSM. There are a lot more things in life. I see submission as a strength. But what I mean by submission doesn't seem to taly with what most male subs see as submission. Just like in vanilla life I expect my male partner to put my needs before his own.I expect him to chose to do so because he wants to. If he doesn't want to then why is he with me?



diaperboy99 -> RE: male submission (11/1/2007 4:48:38 AM)

I am a gay male slave and my satisfaction from submitting to a Master comes from the feeling of humiliation of having to please Him without consideration for my own feelings, wants and needs. The more He uses me and the less He considers me, the more I am fulfilled. The more He degrades me, the more I feel I am in my rightful place.



lateralist1 -> RE: male submission (11/1/2007 8:37:00 AM)

And that diaperboy is exactly what I just do not understand.
Why would anyone want to be humiliated?
Unless of course  it is to grow stronger.
I have become a lot stronger since I have been a Domme and 'out'.
Humiliation just slides of my back now and I can humiliate the horrible people in the world if I get a chance.
However what a lot of men want from this lifestyle would humiliate me. Maybe that's what it's about for some men. Encouraging women to become as base as they are.



fergus -> RE: male submission (11/1/2007 9:06:20 AM)

I understand Diaperboy's desires in this, but for me - I like that sort of thing in the context of a scene.  Real life does creep in.

I am always a believer of approaching each other with communication and dignity - regardless of the roles we choose.

Just because someone is a sub, or likes humiliation does not mean that they are not a dignified human being.  The real trick is fidning tha balance with another person in which they DO care about you as a person, and are still able to humilate you (of that is what you want) because it is fullfilling for both.

fergus



PhDslave -> RE: male submission (11/1/2007 9:22:12 AM)

What Shawn1066 said applies to me as well.



lateralist1 -> RE: male submission (11/1/2007 11:20:24 AM)

Ok I do accept that some people's kink is to be humiliated.
And some people really do need to be humiliated because they have an overdeveloped ego.
Lots of people would say that about me lol.
However I am still at a loss to know why anyone would actually seek this.
Unless of course they feel so unworthy that they feel it is the only thing that they have to give a partner. And if that were really true then why would I want them?
I understand that if you are and know you are an overbearing opinionated person you would like to find someone who can control this aspect of you. I just wouldn't want to try it's too damned hard. As I keep saying the jails are full of people who can't be controlled. Control for me is quite simply about teaching a partner how to please me. But we do have to want each other first. For me it has to be an equal wanting. I really do not want someone who doesn't think I rock lol. Or to settle for someone I don't think rocks. Just so we can both get our rocks off. I think that's why so many relationships are short lived in the lifestyle because people don't take the time to get to know one another properly. Enjoying lots of different partners is fine when you are young but as you get older other things matter more.
Now I'm a nice dominant sadist who enjoys sex with my partners.
So I need a nice submissive masochist.
Not someone who wants to be humiliated.
However f I find that he is getting out of hand then a good dose of humiliation might be a good way to bring him back in line.
Lets face it disciplining him isn't going to do it now is it.



Shawn1066 -> RE: male submission (11/1/2007 11:44:01 AM)

Discipline should work fine...just not discipline that might feed his masochism.  So yes, humiliation may work fine as a kind of discipline, I'd say.  One can always be creative.



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