KCalli -> RE: Not a 'true' Dom\sub because your a switch. (8/11/2009 4:23:15 AM)
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ORIGINAL: PeterEG God do I hate the term "True Dom" or "True sub" I am about 60/40 Dom/sub and the ones who call them self "True" are the ones who have no idea about what this life style is about. For them it's all about taking or giving control and not power exchange. If you want to be bullied or be a bully and make people do what you want or the other way around. That's fine, enjoy your self but that doesn't make you "True". For me it is an exchange that has been agreed on . For me the exchange can go either way. I must say AMEN to that one. In my case (and newly discovered, I might say). As it was explained and shown to me, I submit myself entirely to my Dom, yet, there is a part of me, who is primal and I find myself hungering for a tasty little female sub. In that role I am dominant, totally. The energy given to me by her is flows through me to my Dom. A good thing, and I have found balance and contentment. In also serving my other side, I am more able to fully submit and give totally to my Dom.
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