I whole heartedly agree with BotanicalMiss.
I also consider Myself a switch, but I don't go and seek
Dominants. If it's ment to happen, it will happen, and no way else.
I'm stated as a Dominant, and switching with My sub is a No no..
Been there done that.. didn't like it.
The other thing I get with switches, and try to train them is
that they are the most difficultest of them all.
When they submit they can be great, but for example I love
My subs to be in chastity, and then when the switch feels like it
It will go off and do thier own thing, in which ever role..
so I can never get far, untill now, this is My experiance.
They did tend to top from the bottom allot too..
So I'll have to think very hard, and 3 times before
I would ever take on another switch.
Because of what My experiances are.
So why not write Yourself as a Dominant,
and tell the once whom You want to let them know You're a switch?
Also because it seems that loads don't take you seriously.
Maybe that's an option.
I wish You enough & a Merry Xmas
Warm Greetingz
GoddezzT`