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RE: Ruined orgasms - 11/27/2007 10:51:36 PM

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Thanks for sharing-- that's powerful description of both the physical and psychological aspects of this technique. I can see why it's a practice in which many of our community engage.

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RE: Ruined orgasms - 11/27/2007 11:08:19 PM

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orgasm and cumming are not welded to each other - one can learn to orgasm without cumming too - it's fun to mix it up

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RE: Ruined orgasms - 11/28/2007 10:34:16 PM

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You got me with this one-- I've always equated the two, at least for men. What's the difference, and how do you acheive one without the other?

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RE: Ruined orgasms - 11/29/2007 5:22:18 AM

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It seems that "come" has been redefined. It used to be defined as slang for orgasm. I don't know how you can have an orgasm without orgasm.

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RE: Ruined orgasms - 11/29/2007 10:46:43 AM

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I think she's saying that "coming" is not the same as "ejaculating." This is why I don't dig the use of "cum(ming)" for anything related to orgasm. In my little world there's "come/coming" meaning orgasm and "cum" meaning ejaculate. Why that latter bit ever got used as a verb I do not know.

*Anyway* I have known men who can have an orgasm without producing ejaculate, just as one can produce ejaculate without having an orgasm. It's broadly subjective to how one goes about labelling what it is they're doing/experiencing.

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RE: Ruined orgasms - 11/29/2007 8:30:07 PM

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Kind of like the dry heaves, I suppose.

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RE: Ruined orgasms - 12/5/2007 7:31:37 PM

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Here is a link to a Domme that has an interesting technique on how she uses the male orgasm to enslave men. She has quite a manifesto on Female Domination of the male and how men cannot resist and will agree to submission once she has them in hand . Her work is entitled Sexual Power for Women by Georgeann Cross. I ran across this posting many years ago and always enjoy rereading her document. http://www.francescaspizza.com/index.html

I hope all of you enjoy it as much as I do. I'd love to know your thoughts on her style.

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RE: Francesca's Pizza - 12/6/2007 1:18:50 AM

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crxmale wrote: http://www.francescaspizza.com/index.html
I hope all of you enjoy it as much as I do. I'd love to know your thoughts on her style.

In chapter 1, the author explains how she got a man to agree to be her `love slave' under duress. In chapter 2, she explains how she and a group of five friends, while in their mid-teens, sexually assaulted a boy after he watched them skinny dipping and expresses the belief that the event is now the victim's favourite sexual fantasy. At that point, I stopped reading.

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