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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/28/2007 10:56:33 PM

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I BOW AT YOUR FEET .IBOW AT YOUR FEET.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/29/2007 12:17:14 AM

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mistressjes,

I can't believe you think that.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/29/2007 2:12:56 AM

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I don't have sex with My sub. (I'm so tempted to put in some kind of joke referencing Bill Clinton here.) However, I'm very big on the teasing, control, service, power aspect of it that many of the other Dommes have mentioned. I don't specifically call it all of those things, but I'm not especially hearing any complaints, either.

Doesn't sound all that mean at all actually, lol... Especially as you are getting no complaints. As opposed to the OP, I've had plenty of men I could absolutely not consider, because like you, they believe in serving in all ways up to a-la-Clinton-style, and I of course demand more, if he is able.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/29/2007 7:15:01 AM

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I'm voting "well-timed dance number".

Rumpus - another sooo cute pict. I second your motion..err...vote, and add an ammendment that the dance include darch as well....he he. I would love to see that! And to think being in Atlanta those two boys could meet here (in the middle) to rehearse....he he he

DV? you game??? LOL (Ohhh and a really nice new pic for you as well - a different look entirely and so intriguing!)

Ok, to answer the post, I am in line with Fulfigrmdm on this. I got an appetite so my boy has to be able to pleasure me sexually and intimately to be a good match. Course I only get sexual in a traditional sense if the emotional relationship is present. As for "the rules" I see the strategy of such but I enjoy receiving a fella's submission with less gaming...but teasing is fun for me denial is denial for me more than perhaps for him cause the teasing of him makes me crazy horny.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/29/2007 9:00:15 AM

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I am not 100% averse to having sex with submissives, because that would invoke that dreaded "never say never" clause. I just haven't met many submissive males that made me horny for THEM. I am sure it is possible, and that there are a few out there. If I find one, I may or may not unchain him from the bed. Maybe a long enough chain to reach the bathroom and the kitchen.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/29/2007 3:15:16 PM

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Shawn, I think that may be the most hilarious reply I've read all day. Thanks for the laugh :D

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/29/2007 3:30:30 PM

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I BOW AT YOUR FEET .IBOW AT YOUR FEET.

Um....did you really think that you can submit to teh intarnets?

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/29/2007 6:26:05 PM

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My question to this would be why would a slave/sub think they are good enough to have sex with someone who is far more superior to them?

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/29/2007 6:31:30 PM

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Sex is a privilege, if it has been discussed as a possibility, NOT a right. One should never assume that they will receive sex, just for being submissive. If sex is important to you, find a domme that also enjoys sexual relationships with her subs. I personally could not be in a D/s relationship where it was cut and dried that NO sexual activity was ever going to happen. But that hardly means that I expect it. It is my Mistress' right to choose if, and when, I will be rewarded with sexual acts.
Stop your whining, and learn to actually serve. Forum wanking is not attractive.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/29/2007 10:18:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer

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ORIGINAL: dogboydoggie

I BOW AT YOUR FEET .IBOW AT YOUR FEET.

Um....did you really think that you can submit to teh intarnets?

It's official. I'm in love.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/29/2007 10:41:39 PM

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Attempting to submit to teh intarnets is an epic fail!

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/29/2007 11:29:42 PM

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*Snerks*

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 6:36:12 AM

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OP, in many cases, its probably because the domme is more in love with her self than she is with men and she gets more satisfaction looking in the mirror. But than again, when has the female species ever cared about what men want.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 6:41:49 AM

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"the female species" ... oh lordy, are we starting on that again?

There are many females who care about the males of their own species and what those males want - however, the slugs, pigs, and jackasses masquerading as human? nah, don't care about those males (or those females, honestly).

Can anyone say "bitter rejectee"?

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 6:43:28 AM

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Can anyone say, chauvinist bigot?

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 6:47:22 AM

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self labling, I see ...

The whole "female species" thing is just silly. If we were a separate species, then there would be no continuation of the species ... and without fail, the only people who use the "female species/male species" are those who are bitter about being rejected and/or just general haters of the opposite gender (which might just explain why they continue to be rejected). And yes, I'm just as snarky to those who claim that males are a separate species in such a bitter, cynical and overly generalized manner as you just used "female species".

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 6:56:20 AM

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self labling, I see ...

The whole "female species" thing is just silly. If we were a separate species, then there would be no continuation of the species ... and without fail, the only people who use the "female species/male species" are those who are bitter about being rejected and/or just general haters of the opposite gender (which might just explain why they continue to be rejected). And yes, I'm just as snarky to those who claim that males are a separate species in such a bitter, cynical and overly generalized manner as you just used "female species".

ya ya what ever, I think being rejected 99 percent of the time validates bitterness. Its really a miracle that most men still like women from after years of rejection. Women are bitter all the time as men always have to prove them selfs that they are not after women to only use them. Kinda like guilty until proven innocent. Yet a womans bitterness is always more validated and they make the rules and are on top of the game. But than again, a lot of todays women are shameless hypocrites, what else is new.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 7:02:31 AM

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I don't see women being any more bitter than men ... perhaps more cynical, but since you think that being rejected 99% of the time validates being bitter, perhaps being used as a life support system for a vagina 99% of the time validates some cynicism. I have my moments of bitterness and cynicism, but for the most part, I think I'm fairly well adjusted ... I make no excuses for those who aren't, but I also don't wish to be lumped in with them.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 8:54:47 AM

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