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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 2:43:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: dogboydoggie

so many mistress dont want sex with there male slaves . whey are mistress so mean to the male slave



Well this slave hasn't read the entire thread, and I am gay,. but in my opinion, a slave has no right to anything including sex. If a Master or Mistress wants sex He/She is perfectly at liberty to use the slave in any way they wish. Or if He/She wishes or to go elsewhere for sex, that is their right. Most slaves are not worthy of vanilla sex, period. For me, if my Master wished to used me in any particular way that would be His right, and my privilege, nothing more.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 2:45:32 PM   
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Thank you for weighing in from the other side, Shawn.

On that note, I'm leaving this thread. The reality is that when one is firmly ensconced in their opinions, little will change it, and I certainly don't wish to be judged, or need to justify my relationships. I realize I was heading down that path, when my original purpose was simply to add a perspective.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 2:47:33 PM   
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Bottomboy, not trying to be snarky or rude but why don't you become dominant than you can call the shots and get what you want - sex.  You can be a dominant who bottoms.  i have a feeling that male subs in general aren't focused on sex as much as serving.  You're entitled to what you want, you just have to figure a way of getting it that won't end up in frustration and bitterness. 

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 2:55:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MsLilac

That’s the second post from a man on here with an entitlement complex. What is it with these men? Sheesh. You’d have us women believe that we are suppose to role over and spread our legs every time your cocks get hard!


quote:

ORIGINAL: bottomboy81


ya ya what ever, I think being rejected 99 percent of the time validates bitterness. Its really a miracle that most men still like women from after years of rejection. Women are bitter all the time as men always have to prove them selfs that they are not after women to only use them. Kinda like guilty until proven innocent. Yet a womans bitterness is always more validated and they make the rules and are on top of the game. But than again, a lot of todays women are shameless hypocrites, what else is new.


bottomboy-

Your diatribe has to be one of the most ridiculous things I have seen written. I don’t mean this in a sarcastic way, but seriously, my suggestion is you learn to get over your petulance, and open your eyes a little. You may enjoy life and relationships more (and have better luck) if you stop tarnishing a whole gender with unfounded social commentary.

What have you done to make the kind of woman you seek want you?



Thanks for the advice but its completely false. It is validated to be bitter when you have been rejected 99 percent of the time. It's just like not trusting dogs when 99 percent of the time you came across one, it bit you. What I don't understand is that its perfectly acceptable for women to think men are guilty until proven innocent as we always have to prove our selfs that we are not only wanting one thing. Which I think is a higher level of bitterness than just being bitter for being rejected.

Or all the women out there that have the mentality that there are not many decent men or there are no decent men. You see these women every day, they are everywhere. It wouldn't be hard to come across one on this site or even this thread.

It seems more validated and socially acceptable for a woman to be bitter but it should be the other way around as women have it a lot easier than men. Men having it the hardest, we get judged worse than women when we are bitter but its no surprise for women having double standards. They are full of them and are 100 percent shameless about it. Which is also defined as entitlement mentality

It's women who have the entitlement mentality more than anything these days. The princess entitlement mentality is an social acceptance. Many women expect chivalry and some traditional values to remain (that only benefit them) and then think men are entitled to nothing. Even that these women are expecting men to do these things, he doesn't deserve anything in return. Thats sadly how a lot of women think these days. They make entitlements for them selves and see a man as a fool if he refuses to follow them but when a man thinks he has entitlements, he is an idiot.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 2:55:55 PM   
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"Typically," female dommes are mostly about controlling their slaves' wallets.




Not sure of the kind of circles you move in, but in my circles, it doesn’t even amount to “typically”.

"I can't count the number of 'female doms' I have seen whose profiles say "you will not get sex, you are worthless, you will tribute me at every turn and treat me like a princess"

You need to get out in the real world. Those are the flashy semi-pro 'financial' Domme profiles you are looking at, hardly something you can base your assertions on.

As for the rest of your post, it was just to ridiculous to comment on.

I think this thread is about to descend even further chaos, didn't think it was possible lol.



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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 2:56:22 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: bottomboy81

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ORIGINAL: bottomboy81

It makes me wonder, do the dommes feel the need to have an orgasm? If their sub is not good enough for it, do they just wait until bed time and play with their vibrators? It must be better than the human touch for them.


I can only speak for myself, but as I said, I do have one boy that I sleep with, and let me tell you, it's frequent. Just because I wish to play with, care for, and 'own' more than one person doesn't mean I have to sleep with all of them.

And no, it's not about my slave's wallet. My warren doesn't sleep with me, but we spend quality time together, in the playroom and out. We do errands, have dinner, and I even kick his ass on the Wii from time to time. Don't tell me I don't care for him just because he doesn't share my bed.


If you are not caring about their needs or wants, you are not caring about them all together. You are basically using them and draining what you can out of them.


Have you never had normal relationships with females?  Female family, female friends, female co-workers, etc who you enjoyed time with but didn't fuck?

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 3:04:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: bottomboy81

I can have sex anytime I want so, why would I wanna have sex with a sub/slave?


So you just use the subs for other interest and then get sex from vanilla people? Interesting...


bottomboy81....  From your posts, I am getting the impression that what you seek and need is a one on one relationship with a Domme where you are everything to her.  Playmate, lover, friend, companion, slave/sub... everything.  What you need to realize is there are Dommes out here who are also looking for that kind of relationship.  Some of us have no desire to have multiple slaves.  Some of us only want to own one.  One who can be all of the above things to us.  It is a very difficult connection and chemistry to find.  Being angry or bitter towards the Dommes who want multiple slaves in their lives, but don't have sexual relationships with more than one of them gets you nowhere. 
 
I can't begin to count the number of emails I get from men who claim they want to be put in chastity.... permanent chastity... and don't want sex with their Mistress.  I view it as a total waste of a good thing.  <grin>  Just because sex is a crucial element of the relationship to you doesn't mean it is to all men.
 
As far as the Dommes you are bitter towards?  It is simple.  They are not what you are looking for, and you are not what they seek either.  So concentrate your efforts towards those who share your desires and needs.  I can understand some of your frustration.  Believe me, it gets frustrating from both sides.  But, I hope you can rise above the bitterness and put your efforts towards finding that special one on one relationship, just as I hope someday to find the same thing.  I wish you well in that search.  But, in the meantime, don't waste your energy condeming those who choose to live their lives differently.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 3:17:02 PM   
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I can't help but notice that you failed to answer this simple question that MsLilac asked:

What have you done to make the kind of woman you seek want you?


Short question, but one with huge impact.  Think about it.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 3:18:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MsLilac

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ORIGINAL: Smith117




"Typically," female dommes are mostly about controlling their slaves' wallets.





Not sure of the kind of circles you move in, but in my circles, it doesn’t even amount to “typically”.

"I can't count the number of 'female doms' I have seen whose profiles say "you will not get sex, you are worthless, you will tribute me at every turn and treat me like a princess"

You need to get out in the real world. Those are the flashy semi-pro 'financial' Domme profiles you are looking at, hardly something you can base your assertions on.

As for the rest of your post, it was just to ridiculous to comment on.

I think this thread is about to descend even further chaos, didn't think it was possible lol.




Yay, my first flame. So....shall I flame back? Naaah. I'll recover gracefully.

Firstly, I never spoke for your cicles, I simply stated from my experience.

Secondly, you have no idea what profiles I'm looking at. I've seen ones that clearly say "pro domme" but MOST of the ones I mentioned indicated the woman was looking for a relationship....yet with only money and good treatment of her as the perks.

The rest of my post was not ridiculous, unless of course you find some of it pertains to you. You see, far too many men know where I'm coming from. In fact, Tom Leykis based his radio 'empire' on telling men how to avoid women like this. So it's not uncommon at all.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 3:19:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: laurell3

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ORIGINAL: sjacket

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ORIGINAL: MistressSue07

My question to this would be why would a slave/sub think they are good enough to have sex with someone who is far more superior to them?


I have never met anyone who was superior to me (let alone far more superior)  unless you are speaking about employment positions.  As far as one being superior because of gender, race, or physical appearence- no, ain't gonna happen.  A Dominant may have my respect and admiration, but none are superior just because they are dominant. 

Really I'm not trying to be contrary...  this thread just caught me in a mood.  I wish the best of luck to all in their searches.


Agreed.  Self-important statements like that seem to miss the entire point of what I believe is a healthy d/s relationship.  No one ever is superior to another human being, although...the OP does invite criticism....I'm guessing he's wanking over the humiliation personally.


I love stirring the pot
I will explain the reason behind my statment here. I have a Primary Submissive who amongst everything else is my personal sex toy, I feel he is the only one deserving of that intimate relationship. I am a Pro Domme, if my other subs/slaves wish to have sex they are free to do so elsewhere. If they expect sex from me then they have sought out the wrong Domme. It is clearly stated on my website, on my profile here, and everywhere else that I do not want nor need subs/slaves for sex, and that it is not used as a reward. I do allow them to take matters into their own hands as I massage their prostates. For our times together I even have been known to arrange someone to be there to "relieve" them... mm

As for sounding self-important, yes in that statment I most certainly did I get too many requests DAILY/HOURLY for sex so perhaps I have gotten bitter toward the same question over and over again when it is PLAINLY stated NO SEX! What I do for my work is essentially all about me and my subs/slaves are quite aware of that fact.


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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 3:23:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: bottomboy81

OP, in many cases, its probably because the domme is more in love with her self than she is with men and she gets more satisfaction looking in the mirror. But than again, when has the female species ever cared about what men want.


Then be a subbie to gay men.  That seems to be what will make you happier. 


< Message edited by MistressPav -- 11/30/2007 3:26:10 PM >


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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 3:28:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressPav

quote:

ORIGINAL: bottomboy81

OP, in many cases, its probably because the domme is more in love with her self than she is with men and she gets more satisfaction looking in the mirror. But than again, when has the female species ever cared about what men want.


Then be a subbie to gay men.  That seems to be what will make you happier. 



It's another "females or couples only" domme.

This is a shining example of female chauvinism ladies and gentlemen.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 3:28:55 PM   
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Mate, why have sex with your mistress?? There are so many other chicks out there for that.. lol



Suuure there are.  Go looking for them, but just be back home before the street lights turn on, k?


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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 3:31:19 PM   
MistressPav


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ORIGINAL: bottomboy81

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ORIGINAL: MistressPav

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ORIGINAL: bottomboy81

OP, in many cases, its probably because the domme is more in love with her self than she is with men and she gets more satisfaction looking in the mirror. But than again, when has the female species ever cared about what men want.


Then be a subbie to gay men.  That seems to be what will make you happier. 



It's another "females or couples only" domme.

This is a shining example of female chauvinism ladies and gentlemen.



No, honey, I've GOT my man, and no other man in this world could even come close.  He's the man I worship.  I only hope for you that you find a woman who loves YOU like I love my man.    Oh, and I hope she's bisexual so you are allowed to enjoy her female friends.
Go jack off...you sound very bitter.


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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 3:31:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: bottomboy81

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ORIGINAL: MsLilac

That’s the second post from a man on here with an entitlement complex. What is it with these men? Sheesh. You’d have us women believe that we are suppose to role over and spread our legs every time your cocks get hard!


quote:

ORIGINAL: bottomboy81


ya ya what ever, I think being rejected 99 percent of the time validates bitterness. Its really a miracle that most men still like women from after years of rejection. Women are bitter all the time as men always have to prove them selfs that they are not after women to only use them. Kinda like guilty until proven innocent. Yet a womans bitterness is always more validated and they make the rules and are on top of the game. But than again, a lot of todays women are shameless hypocrites, what else is new.


bottomboy-

Your diatribe has to be one of the most ridiculous things I have seen written. I don’t mean this in a sarcastic way, but seriously, my suggestion is you learn to get over your petulance, and open your eyes a little. You may enjoy life and relationships more (and have better luck) if you stop tarnishing a whole gender with unfounded social commentary.

What have you done to make the kind of woman you seek want you?



Thanks for the advice but its completely false. It is validated to be bitter when you have been rejected 99 percent of the time. It's just like not trusting dogs when 99 percent of the time you came across one, it bit you. What I don't understand is that its perfectly acceptable for women to think men are guilty until proven innocent as we always have to prove our selfs that we are not only wanting one thing. Which I think is a higher level of bitterness than just being bitter for being rejected.

Or all the women out there that have the mentality that there are not many decent men or there are no decent men. You see these women every day, they are everywhere. It wouldn't be hard to come across one on this site or even this thread.

It seems more validated and socially acceptable for a woman to be bitter but it should be the other way around as women have it a lot easier than men. Men having it the hardest, we get judged worse than women when we are bitter but its no surprise for women having double standards. They are full of them and are 100 percent shameless about it. Which is also defined as entitlement mentality

It's women who have the entitlement mentality more than anything these days. The princess entitlement mentality is an social acceptance. Many women expect chivalry and some traditional values to remain (that only benefit them) and then think men are entitled to nothing. Even that these women are expecting men to do these things, he doesn't deserve anything in return. Thats sadly how a lot of women think these days. They make entitlements for them selves and see a man as a fool if he refuses to follow them but when a man thinks he has entitlements, he is an idiot.


Now, I could sit here, and counteract everyone of your accusations, with reverse anecdotes regarding the male gender. But there is no point, and frankly I don’t have the time, or the inclination to get into that, it is petty and futile. All men and women are individuals, I have had bad experiences with men, I certainly don’t tarnish them with the same brush, or assume that is what the majority of men are like.

Now, I hate to go about preaching about making sweeping generalisations, but I assume you understand why making sweeping generalising (particularly unfounded ones) never works? I hate to get personal here, and I don’t mean it to offend, but are you really surprised you are rejected 99% of the time when you make offensive, sweeping generalisations, and feel all women are like this, and show resentment to them, that seems to borderline misogyny? The fact that you seem to be rejected by the type of women you describe, says an awful lot about the type of women you seem to be attracted to.

No, it is not valid to lump all women into broad, carelessly thought out categories, just because you have been rejected by 99% of the women you approach. It would be more appropriate to stop shifting the ‘blame’ onto the objects of your desire, stop resenting them, then ask yourself what it is you are doing wrong. Though, obviously, that is not nearly as convenient.

As a side note, you also forget, a lot of men like women with the Princess complex, and treating them as such, and actively seek it. Obviously this is not for you.

This thread is just getting too silly, I’m out of here.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 3:41:02 PM   
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This is my first post in ask a Mistress section. After reading this thread i have a question - for those who don't have sex with their male subs, do they allow them to find sex elsewhere or are the subs expected to remain faithful. i suppose the dynamics would differ depending on the people involved - just curious.


Because I am poly and because I strongly believe that my DS or Ms relationship are between consenting adults, I would consider my limiting my sub/slave's sexuality outside of our scene for any other reason other than health issues to be completely unfair.

However, that said, I also do not require a sub or slave to seek sex beyond him/herself either.

I figure once he/she is outside of my direct supervision, they must be able to make adult decisions.

While that possibility is there for Fox he does not have sexual contact with anyone else -- perhaps he will in the future -- primarily because he feels that would be a drain on the focus he must give me as his owner. That choice is quite pleasing to me but it is not an expectation of mine.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 3:43:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MsLilac

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ORIGINAL: bottomboy81

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ORIGINAL: MsLilac

That’s the second post from a man on here with an entitlement complex. What is it with these men? Sheesh. You’d have us women believe that we are suppose to role over and spread our legs every time your cocks get hard!


quote:

ORIGINAL: bottomboy81


ya ya what ever, I think being rejected 99 percent of the time validates bitterness. Its really a miracle that most men still like women from after years of rejection. Women are bitter all the time as men always have to prove them selfs that they are not after women to only use them. Kinda like guilty until proven innocent. Yet a womans bitterness is always more validated and they make the rules and are on top of the game. But than again, a lot of todays women are shameless hypocrites, what else is new.


bottomboy-

Your diatribe has to be one of the most ridiculous things I have seen written. I don’t mean this in a sarcastic way, but seriously, my suggestion is you learn to get over your petulance, and open your eyes a little. You may enjoy life and relationships more (and have better luck) if you stop tarnishing a whole gender with unfounded social commentary.

What have you done to make the kind of woman you seek want you?



Thanks for the advice but its completely false. It is validated to be bitter when you have been rejected 99 percent of the time. It's just like not trusting dogs when 99 percent of the time you came across one, it bit you. What I don't understand is that its perfectly acceptable for women to think men are guilty until proven innocent as we always have to prove our selfs that we are not only wanting one thing. Which I think is a higher level of bitterness than just being bitter for being rejected.

Or all the women out there that have the mentality that there are not many decent men or there are no decent men. You see these women every day, they are everywhere. It wouldn't be hard to come across one on this site or even this thread.

It seems more validated and socially acceptable for a woman to be bitter but it should be the other way around as women have it a lot easier than men. Men having it the hardest, we get judged worse than women when we are bitter but its no surprise for women having double standards. They are full of them and are 100 percent shameless about it. Which is also defined as entitlement mentality

It's women who have the entitlement mentality more than anything these days. The princess entitlement mentality is an social acceptance. Many women expect chivalry and some traditional values to remain (that only benefit them) and then think men are entitled to nothing. Even that these women are expecting men to do these things, he doesn't deserve anything in return. Thats sadly how a lot of women think these days. They make entitlements for them selves and see a man as a fool if he refuses to follow them but when a man thinks he has entitlements, he is an idiot.


Now, I could sit here, and counteract everyone of your accusations, with reverse anecdotes regarding the male gender. But there is no point, and frankly I don’t have the time, or the inclination to get into that, it is petty and futile. All men and women are individuals, I have had bad experiences with men, I certainly don’t tarnish them with the same brush, or assume that is what the majority of men are like.

Now, I hate to go about preaching about making sweeping generalisations, but I assume you understand why making sweeping generalising (particularly unfounded ones) never works? I hate to get personal here, and I don’t mean it to offend, but are you really surprised you are rejected 99% of the time when you make offensive, sweeping generalisations, and feel all women are like this, and show resentment to them, that seems to borderline misogyny? The fact that you seem to be rejected by the type of women you describe, says an awful lot about the type of women you seem to be attracted to.

No, it is not valid to lump all women into broad, carelessly thought out categories, just because you have been rejected by 99% of the women you approach. It would be more appropriate to stop shifting the ‘blame’ onto the objects of your desire, stop resenting them, then ask yourself what it is you are doing wrong. Though, obviously, that is not nearly as convenient.

As a side note, you also forget, a lot of men like women with the Princess complex, and treating them as such, and actively seek it. Obviously this is not for you.

This thread is just getting too silly, I’m out of here.


This classic shaming tactic is always reflected on men when they are being bitter. When you really think about it, what was the cause of the person getting bitter the first place? But the defense some women come up with is that the bitter person is getting rejected because they have always been bitter since they were born. So much for logic.

But anyway you are saying that I am generalising and you claim that most women don't do these things? Well unfortunately their actions don't apply that way, thats the way I see it, you are entitled to think different.

A lot of men who are desperate or really want the woman's interest big time may provide women with these things willingly. But the problem is that a lot of women demand it or expect it. 

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 3:47:05 PM   
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Back to the topic at hand, the simplest answer to why a mistress would be so mean is because she's not interested in your dick, only your wallet. Move on.



No, actually some of us are interested in SM or bondage or service. Not money or sex.

I owned a wonderful man for 18 months whom I never touched sexually and who never touched me sexually. He was a great escort and servant. He was an incredible, I have not found his equal yet, masochist.

It was a magical dynamic that sadly didn't last but it also didn't end badly. Had I been very wealthy so he would not have had his own job I would have gladly kept him and he probably would have stay to just be a houseboy and a whippingboy for me. The community he moved to got an amazing addition to their local community and I am very proud of all he has accomplished there.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 3:48:43 PM   
thetammyjo


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It makes me wonder, do the dommes feel the need to have an orgasm? If their sub is not good enough for it, do they just wait until bed time and play with their vibrators? It must be better than the human touch for them.


I can only speak for myself, but as I said, I do have one boy that I sleep with, and let me tell you, it's frequent. Just because I wish to play with, care for, and 'own' more than one person doesn't mean I have to sleep with all of them.

And no, it's not about my slave's wallet. My warren doesn't sleep with me, but we spend quality time together, in the playroom and out. We do errands, have dinner, and I even kick his ass on the Wii from time to time. Don't tell me I don't care for him just because he doesn't share my bed.


If you are not caring about their needs or wants, you are not caring about them all together. You are basically using them and draining what you can out of them.


How exactly do you know what her warren needs or wants?

What an incredibly sexist statement to make about your own sex!

Men are far more than just a penis and a set of balls.

< Message edited by thetammyjo -- 11/30/2007 3:52:21 PM >


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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/30/2007 3:55:33 PM   
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smith117 says:   "Typically," female dommes are mostly about controlling their slaves' wallets.
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If a male sub is THAT stupid, he DESERVES to get ripped off financially.





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