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mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/27/2007 9:03:39 PM

dogboydoggie

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so many mistress dont want sex with there male slaves . whey are mistress so mean to the male slave

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/27/2007 9:12:29 PM

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Many slave male like too fake penis fun. Penis fun is like apples. Some Mistress' don't like apples.

So, no apples. See what I mean?

That is why mistress are mean two male slave.

*sighs*

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/27/2007 9:42:21 PM

ChainsandFreedom

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im a sub male not a mistress, but...
maybe its because said mistress's are turned on sexually by one thing, and turned on D/s'ually by something contradictory?

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/27/2007 10:34:45 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Shawn1066

Many slave male like too fake penis fun. Penis fun is like apples. Some Mistress' don't like apples.

So, no apples. See what I mean?

That is why mistress are mean two male slave.

*sighs*

-_-

lol Shawn, nice.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/27/2007 10:40:08 PM

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oh please grow up. They're not mean if they don't wish to have sex.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/27/2007 10:49:42 PM

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Why should a male slave that doesnt deserve sex, and doesnt behave, be allowed to have it?
Being involved with a mistress doesnt gaurnatee you sex. It isnt mean, you should really know what she will and wont be interested in before you get involved. If you agreed, then its what you wanted, too.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/27/2007 10:51:37 PM

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one word --- anticipation

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/27/2007 10:53:19 PM

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so many mistress dont want sex with there male slaves . whey are mistress so mean to the male slave

If both parties are upfront and honest about what is expected, accepted, etc., there is no way it's mean to follow through with, "no sex". If you just want kinky sex, then don't present yourself as a slave -- just find an equally kinky sex partner and have your way with one another. I have nothing against sex or sex with a submissive, but it is my prerogative to decide who I will share myself with in varying degrees of intimacy. I don't think anyone would disagree with me when I say that some scenes are incredibly intimate and intense, and the sex that would follow may or may not be the same degree of intensity or intimacy.

And, lest you think you are getting the short end of the dildo, there is a great deal of energy expended by any dominant in scene. They are giving you their best, their all to make a scene worthy of your gift of submission. You come here saying, in essence, that her energy and planning isn't enough for you. It seems to me you may need to rethink your position or your ability to really serve a Mistress.

Just my 2 cents, no ... 1 cent.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/28/2007 2:28:34 AM

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quote:

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so many mistress dont want sex with there male slaves . whey are mistress so mean to the male slave

So many huh? Wow, you must have been refused, a lot.

If you are just looking for kinky hook ups, then be upfront about it and find someone with compatible expectations.

To quote you “I am into what ever mistress wants”. Obviously not so. My suggestion is stay out of the fantasy world, and think about how this applies to you in real life.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/28/2007 3:10:11 AM

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I'm going to be mean but...if sub/slave is not of worthy endowment then sub/slave gets no sex from THIS Domme. And don't be a brat. If you serve well I'm sure your mistress is sure to reward you in some form or fashion. Be glad for that. Too many men just think with the penis. Boo. Who cares bout your penis? We can buy one in a store and be guaranteed an orgasm if we want it where as some men are two pump chumps and you're wondering why you even bothered to get undressed.

But I do agree with Divine...you do need to talk about it up front and see if that is even something the two of you would like in your relationship.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/28/2007 4:21:01 AM

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if im going to be naked and with a mistress some kind of sex is a must as far as im concerned ...thats where all the fun is

strapon sex ....being fisted ...orally serving her ..or just vanilla sex

ecspecially if im paying her for a session ..i might be a sub ..but hey im still a guy

no sex probable means i wont be back for a second session unless we really hit it off chemistry wise ..her loss not mine because she wont see my money for a next get together ..mal

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/28/2007 4:21:26 AM

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i think most slaves/subs are either have short dick or cant stay hard for long ... and mistresses are more interested to use them instead of having sex with them

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/28/2007 4:22:55 AM

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You will meet and interact with a lot of people in your life and not expect to have sex with them or assume they are mean because they won't. What makes a Mistress any different?

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/28/2007 4:24:06 AM

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Now, I'm not saying ALL of you boys....but SOME of you boys - and you know who you are....just can't be surprised that women (mistress or not) don't want to have sex with you.....

But seriously -

1.  If you put yourself out there as a "slave" rather than a "bottom" or a "sub" or just "curious about BDSM" - and your own profile says "i only do what mistress says - i want to obey mistress - i only want to meet her needs" - well then. If she doesn't want to have sex with you, suck it up and deal rather than whine about it.

You don't think her bullshit detector is going to be ringing when you say you only want what she wants and then cry that you're not getting exactly what you want?

2. You're actually free to seek a BDSM based relationship that includes sex, or even a sex-based relationship that includes BDSM, or whatever.   However, there's NO guarantee you'll find exactly what you want. You're 43 years old - that's a simple fact of life, vanilla, kinky or otherwise, that you should have figured out by now (Mick said it best - you can't always get what you want)

3.   Learn to spell and use correct English.    Really. It DOES matter.   Take the time to forumlate thoughts and opinions that do more than scream "THIS IS JUST FANTASY WANKING MATERIAL FOR ME", which is where you're at now.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/28/2007 4:47:28 AM

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Probably for the same reason some male Doms don't have sex with their femsubs, because it is about control. Many subs enjoy tease/denial/chastity but apparently that isn't your cup of tea so you will have to find a Mistress who does enjoy sex with her subs. Keep in mind though SHE determines when and if this happens, you don't, that doesn't make her mean that makes her the Dominant.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/28/2007 4:51:00 AM

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quote:

Many slave male like too fake penis fun. Penis fun is like apples. Some Mistress' don't like apples.

So, no apples. See what I mean?

That is why mistress are mean two male slave.

*sighs*

Shawn, it's not nice to ambush us early in the morning like that. I nearly spit coffee over my keyboard!

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/28/2007 5:06:18 AM

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You get what you negotiate.

If sexual contact or certain sexual activities are important to you, then you need to negotiate for that and not get into any dynamic that will not give you what is important to you.

Why is this so difficult for people to figure out?

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/28/2007 5:28:56 AM

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Shawn,

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Many slave male like too fake penis fun. Penis fun is like apples. Some Mistress' don't like apples.

So, no apples. See what I mean?

That is why mistress are mean two male slave.

*sighs*

You missed the part about punctuation and capitalization. Improper capitalization = NO SEX. Or maybe it's the other way around. Perhaps having sex bumps the psyche into "grammar mode". Ah, whatever. Either way, you're obviously gettin' some. :-)

Side note to DV: That's one cute boy ya got there. Smart and funny too. A damn fine catch if I might say so.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/28/2007 5:43:58 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: dogboydoggie

so many mistress dont want sex with there male slaves . whey are mistress so mean to the male slave

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Many slave male like too fake penis fun. Penis fun is like apples. Some Mistress' don't like apples.

So, no apples. See what I mean?

That is why mistress are mean two male slave.

*sighs*

Male subs that do not know how to spell and use the English language properly, do not deserve to have sex with their Mistress.

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RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex - 11/28/2007 6:21:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: Shawn1066

Many slave male like too fake penis fun. Penis fun is like apples. Some Mistress' don't like apples.

So, no apples. See what I mean?

That is why mistress are mean two male slave.

*sighs*

-_-

That is one of the best things I have ever seen you write, LOL, I feel out of My chair laughing

*gets up off floor*

BTW,,,OP,,,if you are one of those boys that thinks Ds is all about sex, then good luck on that Mistress search,,,,,in 5 years, you should be a senior member here, STILL looking eh? hahahahahaa

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