CutieMouse
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ORIGINAL: TwiztdErotic what is it, exactly, that you're concerned about? it's not as if she's some raving lunatic running around with drool coming out of her mouth while babbling incoherently. sure, she may be bipolar..she may freak when put in situations where she has no control..but she is capable of doing things without hurting herself or anyone else. Perhaps you're right and I'm just not seeing how it would impact her. But, to say that neither one of us should be able to do anything we enjoy because she needs to help herself right now is just a little bit hard to grasp. are you going to say that we can't go to an amusement park or check out a new movie, too? Dude... I lived with a Borderline Personality Disorder + Bi-polar for almost 20 years. There are reasons why most Bi-polars need to be medicated. There are reasons why most therapists limit BPD clients to 1 or 2 at a time. It's called really freaking delicate brain chemistry and inability to input/digest/act upon information, in a healthy and functioning manner. There is more to life than "will she hurt me? will she hurt herself?" - like learning how to balance one's illness and become a functioning member of society, who doesn't freak out when placed in situations when one isn't in control. quote:
honestly, if any of you were faced with giving up the lifestyle, wouldn't you try to find every other alternative beforehand? really, I don't see how anyone can blame me for trying..put yourself in my shoes..give up the lifestyle? really? that shit's not going to be fun. Guess what? Life ain't always fun, and most of the time is isn't fair.
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