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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 1:58:20 PM   
mnottertail


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I see you already have the top of the head off Mrs. Liotta---

It would be fun to have a movie marathon tho.

Ron

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 1:59:08 PM   
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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 1:59:24 PM   
Sinergy


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Why would you let pixels on a screen insult you?



[tongueincheek]

Let us use logic to determine the answer.

A slave has no control over their lives  (work with me, please)

Peyton Quinn states that either you are in control of yourself, or somebody else is.

OP is controlled by pixels on their screen.

Therefore, OP is a slave, not a submissive.

Q.E.D.

[/tongueincheek]

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 1:59:58 PM   
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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 2:00:02 PM   
Jeffff


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Click from the searching side of the house on new users, you will show up there, having joined on the tenth of this month........

So, as they say...

on your neese, bithct!!!!!!!!!!

(it slows down after a couple of weeks, you poor new guys get the fuck beat outta you and don't even have a red ass to show for it....unfortunately, you might also miss mr. wrong because of the onslaught).

Laugh and drink heavily thru the new year, that should about take care of it.  

LOL,
Ron


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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 2:01:24 PM   
RCdc


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ORIGINAL: womyn

please no hostilities. I OBVIOUSLY have never been a slave. I am trying to learn the ropes (excuse the pun) so to speak, but I feel uncomfortable  (and a little uneasy) when I am pushed into it. But the in the future I'll follow that advice about just ignoring some of those emails. I am not here to cause any trouble, nor am I here to say ALL doms (mes) are pushy. I am here to get more input about the M/S relationship.


You came in hostile.  Nothing is obvious apart from your rudeness to slaves.  Slaves do not expect to get ordered about by strangers.  Slaves do not get treated lesser people unless they consent to it - pretty much like submissives.  So bemoaning the lack of respect by 'socalled dominants' when you haven't a clue anyway really doesn;t assist your cause.  Why would you want input about an Ms only relationship if your not a slave?  Yes I sound hostile and harsh, but your attitude sucked IMO.  But it's only MO - your milage may vary.
 
But I really do loathe bad wine that leaves a foul taste in my mouth.
 
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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 2:05:13 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		To the OP......you might as well lighten up....cept for me...and maybe Ron....everyone else here is fake


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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 2:07:17 PM   
RCdc


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Status: offline 		Pffft.... and there was me thinking I had a crush on you Jeffff - now you turned it into .stalkerobsession.
 
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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 2:07:28 PM   
EvilGenie


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Status: offline 		How shallow your profile is. It needs some work so as not to be pitied. Yes you did make yourself clear in the OP and very clear in your profile. If I were a non haggard, perfectly built, young looking man I'd probably be sending you those emails. The profile is so shallow as to state, here I am if you reasonably fit this profile's words, come and get it! I look very young for my age though feel no need to announce that in my profile.

I still see no apology to those who identify as slave. Obviously due to you, as young looking ''shave off 5-7 pounds'' subbie, just could not imagine stooping so low as to know what slave is or means. I suggest you do some reading, then come back and apologise.

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 2:08:43 PM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear womyn, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
Unfortunately, Internet and sites do not have shields where good people are allowed in and the bad are kept out.  If it helps any, I had some "Mistress" who apparently has spammed me, telling me to kneel, demand more pictures NOW!  Well!  [Laughs] Anybody reading my profile would see I am a Dominant and been around a bit.  I reported this 'cough' 33 year old California want-to-be Dominant over me to Collarme.com as spam.
 
That said, you look like a beautiful young lady.  May I suggest that you adopt the same rules for dating vanilla as you do within BDSM, M/s, D/s and or S&M.
 
I would also suggest looking into your local BDSM Support and Education groups and do your seeking where you can see the person, feel their hand in yours and watch, ask questions, get support and choose who you wish to associate with, who inspires you and willing to help you discover your journey in submission.
 
I would let those who come onto these types of sites to get you upset.  Some still live in a fantasy where submission equals to stupid.  It is not.  They just keep trying as to get lucky.  These poor souls are just not willing to give up on the shock value, the self imposed entitlements and think titles will mean everybody bows and willingly doormats to their whims.
We all are subjected to those who don't think beyond kinky sex, the control and or fantasy.
 
Just follow your gut instincts and report those who seem to just be fishing/phishing to Collarme.com. 
 
Please do not fall into temptation in believing, that if you don't obey or this or that; you aren't a true/real submissive.  Nobody who has been in the scene a while will ever make such a rushed decision with a new person in the scene.
 
Just some thoughts.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 2:09:34 PM   
MadRabbit


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Status: offline 		I think we need a new section on these forums where everyone can post their whiny rants about how dominants are all so obnoxious, there is no real slaves out there anymore, how all the submissive women aren't really submissive, how annoying it is for the slaves and subs to post in the "Ask a Master" section, how everyone is picking on them because they are young, how everyone is ignoring them because they are old, how male dominants just want sex, how female dominants just want money, how pro female dominants are just silly whores, how nobody uses the real true Old Guard definitions of the labels that they thought up one night on the can, how crappy Collarme.com is, how crappy the people on Collarme.com are for being snarky, how all the fake submissives are posing as meta-mega-ultra-slaves, how everyone on Collarme.com is a fake, how all the dominants are wannabes, how much it sucks to be fat, how much it sucks to be skinny, and how hot dogs come in packages of 6 and hotdog buns come in packages of 8.

Then, at the very least, I won't have to waste time clicking on the threads in the hopes of something interesting to read.

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 2:09:38 PM   
Jeffff


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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

Pffft.... and there was me thinking I had a crush on you Jeffff - now you turned it into .stalkerobsession.
 
the.dark.

 
oops......ok....me, thr dark....and maybe Ron,....:)
 
Jeff
 

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 2:10:32 PM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		Womyn:

I'm not hot.  I'm short for a white guy (only 5'8"), I'm barely height/weight proportionate (180 lbs, some of which is muscle) and I'm not even a REAL DOM, because I've got a date next week with a lady who put "Dominant" in her profile, but has submissive interests as well.

However, I just had a date with someone who is 42 -- almost exactly your age -- and she is a professional personal trainer and former bodybuilder.  She's taller than me in heels and her face is fantastic.  Nowhere in her profile did she talk about hotness or realness.  She talked about the importance of making a personal connection, and her interest in long term.  That was why I wrote to her.

Most men would say she is "hotter" than you.

I saw your profile a few days ago, and decided not to write to you, because of what sexyred1 and others on this thread have said.  You sound as though you think you are the GoddessQueenOfAllExperience and it's a turn-off for me.  There are some things I'm good at.  Other people are way, way better than I am.  I'm looking for someone I can grow and develop with, not someone who wants me to be perfect yesterday.

I expect I'm not your type, so you're not too broken up that I chose not to write you.  Even so, you might consider a little profile edit unless you're only interest in hearing from Captain Shallow and his Merry Band of Wankers.

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 2:17:26 PM   
batshalom


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Status: offline 		~chuckling at Mad Rabbit and RedMagic~

This has turned out to be not such a run-of-the-mill read after all. And Lady Hugs, your most kind and thought-out advice is up to your usual high standard. You are beautiful.

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 2:18:02 PM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear womyn,

Do please Google search:  BDSM Groups Arizona

I would stay away from Escort listings.

Butchmanns Academy is in Arizona is also a good site to look into. 
Butchmans SM Academy · Master Taino Family · Safer SM · Castle Realm · Castle Realm BDSM Check List · Vancouver Women in Leather · Dark Vancouver ...
www.geocities.com/ocean_shells2000/LifestyleLink... - 85k - Similar pages
http://www.geocities.com/ocean_shells2000/LifestyleLinks.html

Another good place to research is www.iron-rose.com library.

Just some thoughts.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 2:20:59 PM   
Jeffff


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ORIGINAL: LadyHugs

Dear womyn,

Do please Google search:  BDSM Groups Arizona

I would stay away from Escort listings.



Escort services?....so.your saying I could get PAID..to beat women?  Would that make me cheap and tawdry?

Jeff

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 2:26:13 PM   
EvilGenie


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Status: offline 		Yes it would Jeff but not to worry. You'll always be cheap and tawdry to those of us who enjoy your posts.

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 2:27:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

We should all get together and have a movie night.


God, I go to do some real life stuff and the thread goes funny without me.

Yes, that would rock out if we had a collarme movie night. What would the first one be?

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 2:29:36 PM   
sexyred1


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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

I think we need a new section on these forums where everyone can post their whiny rants about how dominants are all so obnoxious, there is no real slaves out there anymore, how all the submissive women aren't really submissive, how annoying it is for the slaves and subs to post in the "Ask a Master" section, how everyone is picking on them because they are young, how everyone is ignoring them because they are old, how male dominants just want sex, how female dominants just want money, how pro female dominants are just silly whores, how nobody uses the real true Old Guard definitions of the labels that they thought up one night on the can, how crappy Collarme.com is, how crappy the people on Collarme.com are for being snarky, how all the fake submissives are posing as meta-mega-ultra-slaves, how everyone on Collarme.com is a fake, how all the dominants are wannabes, how much it sucks to be fat, how much it sucks to be skinny, and how hot dogs come in packages of 6 and hotdog buns come in packages of 8.

Then, at the very least, I won't have to waste time clicking on the threads in the hopes of something interesting to read.


damn you! I just got used to being a meta-subblier type and now you go off on a rant...a girl cannot win around here. (goes to sulk... )

P.S. MR, we were waiting for you in the pseudo intellectual Knowledge is Power section and you never showed. Now how many hamburger buns are in a pack?

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 2:31:19 PM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear Jeffff,
 
I believe so sir, you can be paid for beating women.  Hear of Professional Dominants?  Its not common but, there had been cases where men were paid to TOP women clients.
 
Now, as far as being 'cheap' or tawdry -- I would have to request your price list sir.
But, I wouldn't be personally in the market for a male Dom to pay to TOP me.  I do have offers in the Washington, DC metropolitan area however, I think they aren't interested in TOPping me--I really think they just want to fondle/handle/savor my collection of floggers, canes, single tails, paddles and such.  [Smiles]  So, I let them fondle, handle, savor my collection as I watch them enjoy the quality of tools I have and never have to Bottom to do so. [Grins].
 
Respectfully submitted with quite a bit of humor,
Lady Hugs
 
 

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