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scifisub42 -> RE: Does anyone really meet on here? (4/1/2008 3:58:27 AM)
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(responding to the first page of messages and the OP)
Sometimes,
The problem is your signal to noise ratio here is not good....Meaning that there's a lot of chaff to separate the few good kernels of wheat from.
I usually ask that people meet me at a munch, and even if their profile says they are a 'master' with 10years of experience, they cannot bring themselves to come to a public meeting where they would actually meet other like-minded people. I've had people back out during the same chat where I've agreed to meet them, at a location they've specified (in public). They then attempted to change the location to a less public one (it's not as far for you to drive-bah)
A lot of people on collarme are just playing games, bored housewives, husbands looking for some wank material while the wife isn't looking, etc. Other people looking for a quick sex hookup where they can justify being a prick to the other person (I"m a "master/mistress"!)
That being said, there ARE also 'real' people, who go to munches or other lifestyle related events, actually have real experience, and are actually looking for other people in the lifestyle to share their kinks with, or even have a relationship with. I often find out that these people (if they are local) are people I already know..
My suggestion, is if you really want to meet 'real' people, do some searches and find a munch near you, and try going to it, instead. Perhaps you could invite nearby Collarme members to meet you there, as well. There are still 'problem children' at munches, but by going to a public meeting, you've automatically screened out a lot of 'noise' .
scifi
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