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RE: Would You Give it to Her if She Asked? - 1/23/2008 8:00:30 PM

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From this D's popint of view, yes your request would be granted for mosy of the reasons cited here, but I would throw in just a little bit of my own original action! Grins it a Dom thing!

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RE: Would You Give it to Her if She Asked? - 1/23/2008 10:39:01 PM

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I don't even have to read the blogs.
For both of us:
1. Yes
2. No

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RE: Would You Give it to Her if She Asked? - 1/26/2008 3:16:56 AM

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Let's say that instead of this being an emotional problem it was a physical one. For those of you who would refuse to help, would you also refuse if the sub were diabetic, came in the door shaking and going into shock, would you refuse to get her a piece of candy and put it in her mouth? Because cutting is an emotional disorder the way diabetis is a physical one. Refusing to help with illness is just wrong.

I wonder if Frank would walk out the door in that case, knowing she might die as a result of her daring to top from the bottom by needing him to feed her the candy.

Try again with another foolish thought. I already know about diabetes because someone in the family has them.

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RE: Would You Give it to Her if She Asked? - 1/27/2008 9:47:43 AM

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Greetings
To the OP without reading the entire list of responses. Yes. If I was up to it, after a work day it may be I am not, at least until I have had some time to recoup energy.

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RE: Would You Give it to Her if She Asked? - 1/27/2008 9:58:39 AM

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The worst he can say is no....

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RE: Would You Give it to Her if She Asked? - 1/27/2008 2:24:25 PM

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When you have someone who is naturally a people pleaser and focused almost solely on pleasing you, sometimes just getting them to ask for things and not be afraid to take some personal enjoyment in the relationships is a battle in itself.

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RE: Would You Give it to Her if She Asked? - 1/27/2008 4:14:20 PM

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Why not ask...good grief.

Is everyones MINDSET thats its always about the master...I should hope not!

Oh..great post jaguar...Thx

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RE: Would You Give it to Her if She Asked? - 1/29/2008 7:27:00 AM

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This is Darcy.

the.dark asks on occasion for things, both physical, mental and material, and in each case I will consider her request, for she would never request anything without a good reason, and in the vast majority of cases I will grant her request.

Sometimes it will be as innocent as wanting to visit a particular store, other times whether she may go down on me while I am resting or otherwise occupied. On the whole, what makes her happy, makes me happy, and so makes us happy.

As has been mentioned several times in this thread, it never hurts to ask (unless being hurt is the request

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RE: Would You Give it to Her if She Asked? - 1/29/2008 10:51:23 AM

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quote:

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Let's say that instead of this being an emotional problem it was a physical one. For those of you who would refuse to help, would you also refuse if the sub were diabetic, came in the door shaking and going into shock, would you refuse to get her a piece of candy and put it in her mouth? Because cutting is an emotional disorder the way diabetis is a physical one. Refusing to help with illness is just wrong.

I wonder if Frank would walk out the door in that case, knowing she might die as a result of her daring to top from the bottom by needing him to feed her the candy.

Try again with another foolish thought. I already know about diabetes because someone in the family has them.

Then lose that narrow mind and recognize that emotional disorders are just as deadly as physical ones. Because so far, you aren't raising anyone's opinion of you.

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RE: Would You Give it to Her if She Asked? - 1/29/2008 11:40:51 AM

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Thanks for all the great responses everyone.

The core of this question, and the reason why I asked is because to me, our D/s relationship has always been light-hearted and fun. When I say this, I mean that to us, it's all about the "Joy of Sex" and when we play, we do it because we're in the mood to have some fun. This was the first time I asked for physical pain so that I could use it as a tool to release emotional pain. We did have sex after, but when I initially asked for the caning, sex was the furthest thing from my mind. I had no idea that when I finished releasing the pain, I would feel like having sex. I really imagined myself getting caned to the point that I was a crying mess, and then being held and cuddled. I was shocked to find myself at the end of the caning wanting to switch right into pleasing him sexually and being pleased sexually myself. It was almost like I HAD to have sex after this huge emotional release to reassure myself that I was still alive and human, even after feeling so broken and helpless.

Has anyone else ever felt like this?

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RE: Would You Give it to Her if She Asked? - 1/29/2008 11:52:37 AM

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<FR>
Do understand, gorgeous. Sometimes good ol' rompin' sex just seems like the fitting dessert to the wonderful meal of pain. Sometimes it makes a better aftercare than cuddling and softness. And most of the time you can't really tell going in what would work best coming out. The fact that it worked out so well for you says a lot about the closeness you and the Cap'n have.

< Message edited by littlebitxxx -- 1/29/2008 11:53:02 AM >

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RE: Would You Give it to Her if She Asked? - 1/29/2008 2:16:52 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

quote:

ORIGINAL: FrankAr

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Let's say that instead of this being an emotional problem it was a physical one. For those of you who would refuse to help, would you also refuse if the sub were diabetic, came in the door shaking and going into shock, would you refuse to get her a piece of candy and put it in her mouth? Because cutting is an emotional disorder the way diabetis is a physical one. Refusing to help with illness is just wrong.

I wonder if Frank would walk out the door in that case, knowing she might die as a result of her daring to top from the bottom by needing him to feed her the candy.

Try again with another foolish thought. I already know about diabetes because someone in the family has them.

Then lose that narrow mind and recognize that emotional disorders are just as deadly as physical ones. Because so far, you aren't raising anyone's opinion of you.

You get shot down on your thought with flames. Why should I care about what people think of me, they take me for whom I am, not for what others want me for.

Have a nice life, be well.

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