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Do you care if your slave is a whore? - 1/19/2008 7:20:57 PM

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Recently at work we were killing time and a question came out about the number of lovers a person had before meeting them. Basically , the question involved how many sex partners can one have before you might consider them easy .

Can the same question be asked of those who consider them sub or slave? While sex is not always a desire of domination, would there be a number or a concern to anyone if their dom or sub had say 5 owners or 20 partners before you came into the picture. If there is a number, what is that number and does it matter whether your a dom or sub at all ? Many are encouraged out here to have previous experence , but is there a limit to the quanity of experiences you want the other to have before being involved ?
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RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? - 1/19/2008 7:25:52 PM

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No, Valyraen doesn't care. My number of partners sexual is about triple that of Valyraen's. A lot more if you want to count giving/receiving oral sex. Personally, I don't care how many partners someone has had as long as they test clean and I trust them to be honest with me. And they don't consider someone a whore unless they've actually exchanged money for sex. Little turns me off like "I want someone with experience but not too much because then they are a slut".

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RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? - 1/19/2008 7:29:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: openmindedslave

Basically , the question involved how many sex partners can one have before you might consider them easy .

It's not a matter of hard numbers, it's a matter of ratios.

Take the number of people that you did not know their name beforehand, and add one half of a point for those in which you did not ask their name afterwards, and divide that by the total number and multiply by 100. If that number is higher than your age, you're a whore.

In the title you said "whore", but in your question you said "easy". Going back to the numbers from your first calculations, take the number in which you neither asked their name beforehand nor afterwards, multiply that by the age in which you first had sexual intercourse. If the number has three digits to the left of the decimal point, then you are easy.

So, you can be a whore AND be easy too, but just because you are a whore does NOT mean you are easy.

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RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? - 1/19/2008 7:31:11 PM

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Wow *blinks* what a title to a subject.. LOL

Frankly how they purport themselves now, and the status of all health tests would determine how I would feel about them being my submissive or not.

Many people now adays are less pure then the "ideal" mate we would like to think of...

My girl was *ahem* quite popular back in the day. The fact is she has an open option has had it for 6 years.. and has never used it. When we got together We both started to be tested together every 6 months.

Having some magical number (37?) is just silly if you ask me. As if they have watched Clerks too many times. LOL
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=94wGndbOIPk

I am going on the record here stating that oral sex does not count! LOL

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Practicaly a virgin if lesbian and oral sex does not count damn it!

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RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? - 1/19/2008 7:32:21 PM

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As long as she is my whore from here on out for me and only me, I really don't give a damn.

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RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? - 1/19/2008 7:34:04 PM

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I am going on the record here stating that oral sex does not count! LOL

That's good. Otherwise I wouldn't have a friggin' clue what my number is.

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RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? - 1/19/2008 7:39:22 PM

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I don't think having a certain number of sexual partners has anything to do with being a whore.

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RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? - 1/19/2008 7:45:57 PM

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I am going on the record here stating that oral sex does not count! LOL

That's good. Otherwise I wouldn't have a friggin' clue what my number is.

I am with good ol Billy boy when he said Oral is not nessasaringly sex.. Nope.. Not sex... *chuckles*
Damn that Seinfield and his "Any time a nipple makes an appearance it's sex" BS.

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RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? - 1/19/2008 7:46:53 PM

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My real secondary wuestion would be can a person who says they played alot or been collared before many times, ...would someone like that concern you for longterm involvement if they had many experiences before your involvement

And thank you so much for correcting me when using the word slut or easy instead of using whore

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RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? - 1/19/2008 7:48:01 PM

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Yes, there is a number that makes her a whore. 4 with a log of 9 to the square root of 2 plus and xy derivative over the cotangent divided by the number of pennies you have in your pocket.

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RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? - 1/19/2008 7:51:15 PM

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As long as she is my whore from here on out for me and only me, I really don't give a damn.

See...IMHO this is a very good way to look at it.

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RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? - 1/19/2008 7:53:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd

Damn that Seinfield and his "Any time a nipple makes an appearance it's sex" BS.

Gwyn,
*Polishing off her halo and putting it back up on her head*

I don't even want to know the number of times nipples have made appearences...

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RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? - 1/19/2008 7:55:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: openmindedslave

My real secondary wuestion would be can a person who says they played alot or been collared before many times, ...would someone like that concern you for longterm involvement if they had many experiences before your involvement

And thank you so much for correcting me when using the word slut or easy instead of using whore

Valyraen doesn't care how much I've played/scened either nor does he care about the fact that I was engaged once upon a time. He understands why it was called off. Collaring means a lot of different things to different people so I'd just talk to them about what it meant to them at the time.

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RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? - 1/19/2008 7:58:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: openmindedslave

My real secondary wuestion would be can a person who says they played alot or been collared before many times, ...would someone like that concern you for longterm involvement if they had many experiences before your involvement

And thank you so much for correcting me when using the word slut or easy instead of using whore

The number of sexual partners would be irrelevant to me but the number of times they had collared/accepted a collar may have some influence. If it was "many" times as you suggested, I would wonder how seriously they took such commitments. Guess it also depends on what you consider to be "many". Is 3 many.....or 33?

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RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? - 1/19/2008 8:12:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd
I am with good ol Billy boy when he said Oral is not nessasaringly sex.. Nope.. Not sex... *chuckles*
Damn that Seinfield and his "Any time a nipple makes an appearance it's sex" BS.

Gwyn,
*Polishing off her halo and putting it back up on her head*

seinfield is a goober.

i say if someone popped a nut, its sex. but solo sex doesnt count.

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RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? - 1/19/2008 8:13:49 PM

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i say if someone popped a nut, its sex. but solo sex doesnt count.

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Does that include dry humping?

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RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? - 1/19/2008 8:22:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: openmindedslave

My real secondary wuestion would be can a person who says they played alot or been collared before many times, ...would someone like that concern you for longterm involvement if they had many experiences before your involvement

And thank you so much for correcting me when using the word slut or easy instead of using whore

In my opinion by the time a person gets to a certain age words like "easy" "slut" and "whore" to describe someone's previous sexual experiences would seem extremely juvenile to me. So my question for you is why you are focused on such things? Are you worried that your partners will think you a mimbo? Or are you overly concerned about the women you are involved with and their sexual experiences?

Seriously, I have not a care about how many people my Daddy has slept with, and he has never asked me about the number I have had. He has not even expressed any remote interest in my prior sexual experiences, and most of the time he doesn't want to hear about these things.

I have never been collared, and if a dom had lots of collared subs in their past it might give me pause, depending on what he thought collaring meant.

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RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? - 1/19/2008 8:31:55 PM

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Well first define whore.

He didn't care. He wanted to know about all of them and I gladly told him. Now I am his whore, so what does it all matter?

I don't care how many he has had before me. It never dawned on me to ask. My care, when first talking to him, was about the manner in which he would dominate me.

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RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? - 1/19/2008 8:42:50 PM

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Hummm... no, I can't say it matters how many partners they've been with. I was with plenty before we met up.

The counter question: Would it matter to your slave if their Dom was an insecure, judgemental bastard?

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RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? - 1/19/2008 8:43:03 PM

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Geeze...and here I have always loved being a whore.

Never thought it was a bad thing.

Don't figure.

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