kyraofMists
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ORIGINAL: slavetaboo I'm not in a relationship at this time. I was speaking from experience. Again I agree with you except for your first fragmented sentence. I'm not sure I understood your point there. Realisitcally it's not possible to always provide all the information from now to eternity in advance which can impact an owners decision. I'm not certain discretion means a slave is retaining control. Some things are just polite, you know? It's possible we're saying similar things in different ways. Yeah, I forgot a couple words in that first sentence... "I think if he could, he would have a direct feed into our thoughts where he could tune in whenever he wanted." Let me rephrase to better communicate my thoughts... Having all the information that is available at the time helps him make the best decisions possible. If I am thinking that I am not in the mood, then the information is available and personally making the decision not to share it is retaining authority within my relationship. As an example, if he wants to take me downstairs to the dungeon to play and in my opinion, I am not in the appropriate frame of mind for it, then I am required to ask permission to give him this information. He will then make the decision on what course of action to take. If I make the decision to withhold this information, then he does not have all the information that is available to make the decision he thinks is best. In my relationship, if information is intentionally withheld from him then it is retaining authority and being disobedient. Using discretion does not translate to "don't tell him" in our relationship. Using discretion means that the information is presented in a manner that he finds appropriate. Hopefully, that is clearer. This is how it works in our relationship. Other people do what works for them. Knight's Kyra
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"Passion... it lies in all of us. Sleeping, waiting, and though unbidden, it will stir, open its jaws, and howl. It speaks to us, guides us... passion rules us all. And we obey..." ~Angelus
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