lilrey
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Joined: 8/8/2005 Status: offline
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mindwarp, I feel like the problem that occurred here was in your wording. Your thought was that by making it your personal feelings, it negated that your statement was telling people in a BDSM topic about a form of play, that it had no place in BDSM. It would be like me saying, In my opinion no one should use dildos because it's appalling (not my true opinion, they are fun ^_^ ). You should probably approach your statement in a fashion of "I can't stand humiliation; it's just not my thing." That would fit with your, to each their own philosophy after you had already said something that sounded judgmental. It was wording, and that's all you have in text to express yourself. My advice is to be careful and remember you can be unclear or misinterpreted, take it or not but good luck regardless. ^-^
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