RedMagic1
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Joined: 5/10/2007 Status: offline
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Yeah, Geoff, it's not age but maturity. I should have been less curt with how I phrased my question, but if women are saying, "You're a great guy, just a little.... young," that's a codeword for "immature." I honestly don't care anymore what women say their age limits are. If I find someone interesting, I write her. I'm 39, and I've dated one woman who said her minimum age was 40, hard limit; and a few who said 35 was the absolute max. I just tell her why I'm interested in her, and why I think it's worthwhile for us to meet. People make exceptions to their rules if you come across as interesting and for real. When I asked you what you do besides tell dumb jokes and bang your head, it wasn't a rhetorical question. Flesh out your profile with who you ARE, not just what you do for fun. Look at the sigs of other young people who have posted on this thread: helplessmaiden quotes a play that won 4 Tony Awards (like Oscars for the theater), and rubberpet talks about his deep passion and love. Your sig just ain't in the same maturity category. Or take a look at the profiles of Honsoku or MadRabbit, who are both about your age. You'll see a difference. What are your hopes, dreams and aspirations? What do you want to do with your life?
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