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Cdub2U -> RE: The kiss after ejaculation (2/6/2008 2:34:28 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: imber

i am sorry, but i have to ask something, and since Y/you are all talking about sperm...... How can a sub get past the throwing up phase when she tastes sperm?



When first discussing swollowing with one of my sub's she told me that the only time she tried to swollow she went into the same throwing up mode. 

Well, she has never thrown up and she prides herself on being able to swollow my seed and take all of my dick.

I think is has a lot to do with one's sub wanting to please her Dom.

Cw





Thorns82 -> RE: The kiss after ejaculation (2/6/2008 2:52:09 PM)

I don't think it has anything to do with wanting to please someone...a physical reaction is a physical reaction.  Something that makes BJ's more pleasent for me is trimmed pubic hair!  Guys started asking girls to do this years ago...I think it's time we caught up =P

I've never heard of having a problem with the way semen smells...are you SURE it's semen, and not something else in that area?  Maybe you only notice it after he comes because you're more relaxed?

If you're going down on him and you have a problem swallowing afterwards, drinking something afterwards might help.  I would suggest Sprite, or juice.  Two of the worst things you can drink if you have an upset stomach:  Milk and water.  The more you do it, the more you should get used to it...How many times have you tried it?  Same thing with the gag reflex, practice, practice, practice.  No one (should) expect you to be a master at deep throating your first time out.




daddyncherry -> RE: The kiss after ejaculation (2/6/2008 3:37:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Thorns82

I don't think it has anything to do with wanting to please someone...a physical reaction is a physical reaction.  Something that makes BJ's more pleasent for me is trimmed pubic hair!  Guys started asking girls to do this years ago...I think it's time we caught up =P

I've never heard of having a problem with the way semen smells...are you SURE it's semen, and not something else in that area?  Maybe you only notice it after he comes because you're more relaxed?

If you're going down on him and you have a problem swallowing afterwards, drinking something afterwards might help.  I would suggest Sprite, or juice.  Two of the worst things you can drink if you have an upset stomach:  Milk and water.  The more you do it, the more you should get used to it...How many times have you tried it?  Same thing with the gag reflex, practice, practice, practice.  No one (should) expect you to be a master at deep throating your first time out.



Well semen does have a very distinct smell of "sex", no doubt about it...i don't find it bad, rather pleasant, but then i just love anything having to do with sex with my Daddy and i am not too terribly squeamish




christine1 -> RE: The kiss after ejaculation (2/6/2008 3:45:14 PM)

i've never been with a dominant that would kiss me after he came in my mouth or if my mouth was on certain parts of his body...i always thought it was an opportunity lost...maybe the next one i'm with will feel differently, i can hope!




shorty21 -> RE: The kiss after ejaculation (2/6/2008 3:48:25 PM)

The throwing up phase is best avoided by swallowing as quickly as possible and relaxing your stomach and throat

took me a while too..lol...as far as kissing after ejaculation..my Daddy does it everytime




LilMinxy1 -> RE: The kiss after ejaculation (2/6/2008 4:12:44 PM)

is the site down again?




thornhappy -> RE: The kiss after ejaculation (2/6/2008 4:34:14 PM)

It's back....fer now.

thornhappy, who never ever ate the lima beans!




junecleaver -> RE: The kiss after ejaculation (2/6/2008 7:02:38 PM)

I was actually surprised when my Dominant did not hestiate to kiss me after the first time I gave him a blowjob.




sunshinemiss -> RE: The kiss after ejaculation (2/6/2008 10:28:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

I just want to know if you wash your hands afterwards.


yep... take a golden shower every time... *grins




Taintedblood -> RE: The kiss after ejaculation (2/7/2008 12:28:29 AM)

i think i would be disapointed if i didn't get a kiss after however, that is unlikely to happen as i get it licked off wherever it has landed too...

i'm recently getting over a fear of semen (sp) landing on me i used to be terrified of it going anywhere on my skin




renboi -> RE: The kiss after ejaculation (2/7/2008 1:04:02 AM)

When I am blowing a guy who I know is very bitter, or who doesn't taste good (or in your case, any ejaculate that makes you gag), I keep a can of 7-up or Sprite near at hand.  It is clear, thin, and the carbonation does a great job of getting it out of your mouth, off your tongue, and down your throat.  I have found that the thicker substances, like chocolate syrup, tend to make me want to gag even more (no offense to my esteemed predecessors' posts).  And as for your posts, Rod:  Yes, a tiny bit of your own feces DOES pose a health risk.  There are bacteria that live in your feces that are not meant for oral ingestion, and ARE harmful if swallowed (google Fecal Coliform, then get back to me).




beltainefaerie -> RE: The kiss after ejaculation (2/7/2008 2:58:12 AM)

Master rarely kisses me anyway, and I don't think he ever has after I've gone down on him.  My husband does sometimes.  We kiss a lot anyway.  I've noticed he doesn't often kiss me right after, but I don't think he is conscious of avoiding it.  I tease my companion, because she won't kiss me after I've been of recent use to Master, but I actually do get that as they aren't sexually involved.




Dnomyar -> RE: The kiss after ejaculation (2/7/2008 5:23:04 AM)

christine try putting some honey on your lips. What a sad bunch of people. You guys should use cherry perserves when going down on your subs. Because thats probably the only time your going to know if they really have one.




mnottertail -> RE: The kiss after ejaculation (2/7/2008 5:42:36 AM)

She likes strawberry jam when she tosses my salad. 




vampiresscammy -> RE: The kiss after ejaculation (2/7/2008 7:00:03 AM)

imber - express to your dom how much swallowing is bothering you physically and explain your desire to work your body through this to pelase both of you, ask him to please not be offended if you need to spit it out after he ejaculates in your mouth, and work on holding it in your mouth longer each time, try to get used to consitancy and taste and all that, in the meantime ask dom to try drinking more water or tea to help make the taste not so strong, or I hear fruit helps make it taste better, have him eat more fruit

as to the op - if any guy, dom or not refuses to kiss me after i've gone down on them, first i would find this out in the discussion stage adn we'd never make it to actualyl doing it stage, I'm very oral, if my lover can't reciprocate, then they are not going to be my lover, and for the one time it happened before I discovered to ask these things before clothes came off, yeah, well, that didn't last too long after and it WAS a difning factor to me, if my lover has an issue with how my mouth tastes, then they shouldnt be asking me to put it there or they should rethink how clean that part of their body is, but thats just my not so humble opinion




antipode -> RE: The kiss after ejaculation (2/7/2008 9:08:55 AM)

It doesn't bother me,  but at the same time I can see why some wouldn't want to give themselves a blowjob. It takes all kinds... Having said that, I give deep meaningful kisses when I want to give deep meaningful kisses, not at some arbitrary point in the proceedings, so I am not with you there.




girlygurl -> RE: The kiss after ejaculation (2/7/2008 10:38:29 AM)


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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

I've been along time on the path and it continues to amaze me that so many D's take the position that a deep meaniful kiss after discharging their seed into their submissives mouth is something to be avoided.

If this is you, why? ever happen to you submissives? If so how did it make you feel?

CP




Have I mentioned how fortunate I am to have such a wonderful Sir [:D] It's His fluid, why would he be freaked out about it? hee hee Actually, I have known men that got weird about kissing after oral but I for on think it's sexy, hot, intimate.... I could go on and on.... [8D]

girly




girlygurl -> RE: The kiss after ejaculation (2/7/2008 10:43:30 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LilMinxy1

When my partner ate a lot of unhealthy food or drank a lot of alcohol, or didnt consume enough water it was a terribly bitter yucky taste. 
Once I said something he would drink more water.
Pinapple juice works wonders! [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m10.gif[/image]
I believe it was celery that works well too.  (strange I know, but try it)
Some men just naturally have stronger, less pleasant taste I hear.  Some taste like candy.  Lucky suckers!!


OK LM call me a lucky sucker then. [:D] I tell Sir all the time that his cum is sweet hee hee I'm pretty lucky I guess.... I love having Him in my mouth and it would really suck (pun intended) if He didn't taste or smell good.

girly (lucky lucky girl)




ruthiexxxx -> RE: The kiss after ejaculation (2/7/2008 10:57:59 AM)

i love to swallow my Dom's cum....but maybe they all taste different.  i'm too new to this to know




Wildfleurs -> RE: The kiss after ejaculation (2/7/2008 11:05:28 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

I've been along time on the path and it continues to amaze me that so many D's take the position that a deep meaniful kiss after discharging their seed into their submissives mouth is something to be avoided.

If this is you, why? ever happen to you submissives? If so how did it make you feel?

CP


I haven't made my way through the entire thread but I don't understand why my owner would want to have a deep meaningful kiss after he's cum in my mouth.  I think over the years he's occasionally kissed me after I've given him a blow job, but it wasn't a blow job to completion nor was it what I'd consider a deep kiss.  I just don't understand why he would or should want to taste his own ejaculate (given he's straight as a board).

C~




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