Dmon
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Joined: 12/27/2007 Status: offline
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If you can enjoy being a Dom or a sub, you are a Switch. Some switches have more submissive tendencies, some more Dom tendencies. A switch enjoys doing what the name implies... Switching. It might be every other day, or it might be once a year, but they recognize their ablity to take up either role and enjoy it, depending on the situation. Compatability? Yeah we kind of fall short there. Though if you have more submissive tendencies, chances are you will attrack Doms a bit more, and vice versa. I play middle of the road which really sucks for me. I don't want control over anyone but myself until it's time to play. So the Dommes.. expecting atleast a bit of difference from a man interested in them, resent it when I disagree. (They end up really resenting it, if they come at me with a condicending tone... it just inspires me to dig my heels in harder and stand firm. Which happens more than I'd like it to.) At the same time, I"m not demanding of any subs because I feel no right or want to control them until/unless I've got them tied up in front of me. Well that usually gives them the impression that I'm not dominant enough. (In which case, I usually say "Get you in front of me and watch what a little slut I make you become.) A switch will generally get along best with a switch, because they will understand this more than either D's or S's. They know that on any given night things could change. You'll also find that most switches who run very close to the middle, will want a 95 percent vannilla relationship. They save role for play. I think for switches, it's not about the title. It's not about the Dominance, or the submission. It's really about the fun of the hole experiance. It's about being having D and s tendencies in you, and embracing one or the other (sometimes in the same night), because you enjoy them.
< Message edited by Dmon -- 2/8/2008 3:56:29 PM >
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