LadyAngelika -> RE: Tributes??? (9/18/2005 10:32:57 AM)
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ORIGINAL: MsSonnetMarwood But once again, if a Domme is being upfront that she requires tribute, then she's doing you a favor by allowing you to decide then and there if that's what you want or not. Just like if a sub is upfront about being married/having a girlfriend/not looking for a relationhip but just play...it allows me to decide if I want to deal with them or not without wasting my time. Sonnet, You present the rational perspective. If someone is being upfront and honest about their needs/desires, people should be appreciative of their honesty. When I’m approached by a married man, my response to them is always polite. I tell them that for personal reasons I will not get involved with a married man (the reality is I get emotionally attached and then it hurts too much) and I wish them luck in finding what it is that they are seeking. I usually get thanked for not judging them. If someone contacts me for no-strings and I’m in a no-strings mood and there is attraction, then cool. If not, I tell them I’m not in a no-strings mood. Again, I get thanked for being honest and upfront without being a bitch about it. Unfortunately, for many, if it doesn't fit into their comfort zone, it's wrong. Funny how WIITWD doesn't fit into a whole lot of people's comfort zone and these are probably some of the first to say "don't judge me for my desires". Irony never ceases to amaze me! - LA
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