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Would You, Could You ... Did You? - 2/20/2008 6:09:40 PM

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Apologies in advance for makin' nasty with the words of Dr. Suess.

There are so many "new" Doms here who find it surprising that submissive women don't appreciate being called vile names at "Hello." It seems so absurd to me that I wonder if it's a real life phenomenon. If it is, I do not understand the mindset of thinking that would be okay. But then I look at female dominants, and they seem to do pretty much whatever they please. (I'm thinkin' of jumping over to the dark side; I hear tell they have cookies - just kiddin'!)

Is there an energy that comes out of the gate (in BDSM terms) that makes unexperienced male Doms think that newly introduced females will respond to that kind of thing (read: testosterone overload or something)?

Or is it online crap that you would never see in a r/l exchange. I've been to a few parties and such and never seen it. The most forward thing that happened to me was a male in drag who was hosting a party I attended offered me his hand to kiss. I shook it like a Mormon missionary.

In the beginning, did you think that was a good approach? Have you ever used it successfully in a first time encounter?

*Edited to add the word "hand" which was most important for the sentence.

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RE: Would You, Could You ... Did You? - 2/20/2008 6:24:50 PM

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Its not just Doms. A Domme wrote and called me COW.

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RE: Would You, Could You ... Did You? - 2/20/2008 6:31:31 PM

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Courtesy.... where has it gone... :-(..

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RE: Would You, Could You ... Did You? - 2/20/2008 6:32:23 PM

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I would not do it with a dom,
I would not do it with his mom
I would not do it in a cage
I would not do it on a stage
I will NOT be a slut for you
(except if Master tells me to)

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RE: Would You, Could You ... Did You? - 2/20/2008 6:35:21 PM

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ROFL!

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RE: Would You, Could You ... Did You? - 2/20/2008 6:39:17 PM

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AGAIN! UGH!

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RE: Would You, Could You ... Did You? - 2/20/2008 6:43:45 PM

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AGAIN! UGH!

UGH about what I wrote about, or some part of it, or UGH about me?
I'm a girl who prefers too many words to too few (generally speaking).

And, I don't understand the "AGAIN" either. A link would be good if you are referring to another post.

Tracy <- ever the librarian but never worked as one

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RE: Would You, Could You ... Did You? - 2/20/2008 6:47:10 PM

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This same thing comes up every few weeks, over and over again.

Mike

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RE: Would You, Could You ... Did You? - 2/20/2008 6:51:49 PM

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Oh, so you meant this:

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RE: Would You, Could You ... Did You? - 2/20/2008 6:53:04 PM

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I would not do it with a dom,
I would not do it with his mom
I would not do it in a cage
I would not do it on a stage
I will NOT be a slut for you
(except if Master tells me to)

hey, where were you when I was looking for people to rhyme on my Sam I am thread?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1561849/mpage_1/tm.htm

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RE: Would You, Could You ... Did You? - 2/20/2008 6:58:04 PM

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hey, where were you when I was looking for people to rhyme on my Sam I am thread?

Engaged in less worthy activities ... lol. I never saw it. I'd never miss a Suess thread. Rhyming was my very first kink, even when I had to make up words. Suess taught me that my kink was okay.

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RE: Would You, Could You ... Did You? - 2/20/2008 7:01:06 PM

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Yeah, I don't know where I was either.
Prolly something silly like...school, or...
serving HoneyMaster, or....
taking care of the ums.
You know, the usual...

~Christina

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RE: Would You, Could You ... Did You? - 2/20/2008 7:29:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Yeah, I don't know where I was either.
Prolly something silly like...school, or...
serving HoneyMaster, or....
taking care of the ums.
You know, the usual...

R/L can be such an inconvenience.

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RE: Would You, Could You ... Did You? - 2/20/2008 7:36:05 PM

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Nah, it's because of porn. They've had zero r/l experience so they base their understanding on the porn they've seen. And they forget that porn is made that way because it appeals to the men who buy it. Women on average don't buy it, so it isn't designed to appeal to women. Target audience stuff, Madison Avenue, marketing.

Of course if they don't wise up, they won't get any r/l experience.

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RE: Would You, Could You ... Did You? - 2/20/2008 7:39:31 PM

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In the beginning, did you think that was a good approach? Have you ever used it successfully in a first time encounter?

I have never considered that to be a good approach. If I use vile epithets to describe a woman, it is because she has loaded vile thoughts into my brain housing group.

Some may feel that degrading language towards submissives is part of being "dominant, but to me it just seems an exercise in bad taste. I value my slave, and I want her to know that.

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RE: Would You, Could You ... Did You? - 2/20/2008 8:08:28 PM

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They wouldn't do it if it didn't get some measure of success- trust me for every dorky dom out there with a bad line, there's a dorky sub just drooling to fall for it.

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RE: Would You, Could You ... Did You? - 2/20/2008 8:23:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: TracyTaken

But then I look at female dominants, and they seem to do pretty much whatever they please. (I'm thinkin' of jumping over to the dark side; I hear tell they have cookies - just kiddin'!)

*blink* Erm, I don't know which Dommes you have had contact with, but I certainly wouldn't address anyone, male or female without using basic courtesy and respect, even replying to subs who are the ones using the nasty names to describe themselves, I've had many messages from those who call themselves, 'sluts, whores, fucktoys' etc, but thats never any sort of term I would use in my initial interaction.

BTW the cookies are good... fudge brownies too

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RE: Would You, Could You ... Did You? - 2/20/2008 8:42:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

They wouldn't do it if it didn't get some measure of success- trust me for every dorky dom out there with a bad line, there's a dorky sub just drooling to fall for it.

Heyyy!!!!...I get called a dork, by some people!!...~usually 20 year olds~..:0)...so lets find another nom de plume..how about...hummm.

..either dominately challenged or submissively challenged?.Too dorky???.Tempting

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RE: Would You, Could You ... Did You? - 2/20/2008 8:44:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

I would not do it with a dom,
I would not do it with his mom
I would not do it in a cage
I would not do it on a stage
I will NOT be a slut for you
(except if Master tells me to)

lmao

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RE: Would You, Could You ... Did You? - 2/21/2008 4:42:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

They wouldn't do it if it didn't get some measure of success- trust me for every dorky dom out there with a bad line, there's a dorky sub just drooling to fall for it.

That still doesn't explain why the unsuccessful ones just keep on trying, sending everyone their spam. I very much doubt they have access to success stories, unless they are fictional.

I chalk it up to the same kind of behaviour that has HNGs behaving like morons on every (free) web dating site, ever.

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