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I had to support Republican public policy positions over the course of a two hour long discussion with people who did not know the restrictions I was under.

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ORIGINAL: ayasha
What is humiliating to one person isn't to another - besides, it would not be humiliating if it pleased one's Master, would it? 

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I figured I'd add a post here just to be relevant and to share something nice (and to be a bit humiliating to my partner as well).  Today I sliced up a peach to eat on our way to the gym.  As we reached the last piece, we walked through a path that was partically obscured and there were no people around that I could see.  I turned, put the piece of the peach on my sneaker and made him kneel down to suck and eat it off of the shoe. 

It was very spontaneous, fun and humiliating for him.

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I figured I'd add a post here just to be relevant and to share something nice (and to be a bit humiliating to my partner as well).  Today I sliced up a peach to eat on our way to the gym.  As we reached the last piece, we walked through a path that was partically obscured and there were no people around that I could see.  I turned, put the piece of the peach on my sneaker and made him kneel down to suck and eat it off of the shoe. 

It was very spontaneous, fun and humiliating for him.

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Keep in mind, that what is acceptable in Norway is not neccessarily acceptable in the US. Showing breasts in public is not acceptable here. You may be forcing a parent to have a conversation with their child on your schedule instead of theirs.

My point is....it is not our place to decide what others are comfortable with. I think it shows a lack of respect to involve vanillas in your play without their consent or knowledge. You're telling them that you don't care if they're shocked or offended, just as long as you got what you needed.

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ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2

I had to beg for a piece of cake.

Humiliation isn't about the act, it's about the internal reactions.

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I had to support Republican public policy positions over the course of a two hour long discussion with people who did not know the restrictions I was under.

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ORIGINAL: FLButtSlut

Nella,

As a PARENT, if I took my TWELVE year old son to the movies (which incidentally, at 12, could occur later at night) and we walked by and saw some woman with her breasts hanging out, I can assure you that those people would be reported BY ME, the parent to the proper authorities. I have taught my son about nudity, sex and all the other things he needs to know at this point of his life. That is MY JOB as his parent. It is not the job of a dom/master or sub/slave to make the decision as to what MY child sees, should see, or should develop a "thick skin to make it in society" with.

I am a submissive in this lifestyle, but I am a parent 24/7, 365 days a year. Anyone who would publicly overstep the bounds of what I deem appropriate for my child had better be prepared for the consequences, because quite frankly, as it is my duty to see to his upbringing, I don't really care about what happens to someone foolish enough to violate the law for their own pleasure at the expense of others.

As Bobbi said, the general public is not consenting to the "play" or "punishment" that is taking place. So if the "players" still choose to do this, they should also be prepared to face the punishment that may come from violating the law. Lewd and lascivious behavior is enough to put you on the sex offender registry. Not worth the risk to me, but hey that's just my opinion.