darkinshadows
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Joined: 6/2/2004 From: UK Status: offline
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*taking a deep breath and offering her humble opinion...* I would just like to comment that I believe I do understand afmvdp's writings, and as a submissive, I have always felt that, yes, the heart and emotions ~ the love ~ are all important in D/s... as they are in any relationship... but so is the mind, the soul... the need inside... To me... my Master, the Person I eventualy serve AND submit to is also my God. He is my Rock, the One I would give completely over to... He pushes my limits and encourages my growth... He is the One who Knows my every thought even before I do... it isnt manipulation, it isnt a breaking of the spirit... but the taking down and building again... it isnt 'unhealthy'... its just part of the need and desire one has as an individual... it isnt for everyone... but for some... It is completion. But thats just my feelings...
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