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tribute - 3/13/2008 7:53:44 PM

theslave123

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why do so many so called misstress want tribute are they in it for the money or are they genuine in looking for a lifestyle no a hour then pay up this to me is just a buissness not for real.

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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 7:55:13 PM

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edited to add: Just so you know most dont say Ill do this for and hour than you pay me, they are used to deadbeats, and need the tribute up front(which for the record I see NOTHING wrong with)

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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 8:04:02 PM

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Simple answer. It is easy money from guys who have desires that are not the norm and cannot be fulfilled any other way. The sad fact is, it is indeed easy money. People hide their greed behind labels with names like: fetish or kink. Take note that I am not saying this of Pro-Dommes. I have a healthy respect for a genuine pro-domme. But I absolutely have problems with trying to meet someone for the first time for dinner or to get to know her and finding out that my value as a person is subjugated by the size of the check, gift or cash prize I bring with me. At that point, it goes beyong demeaning and into insulting to even consider that the only reason I am of interest to them is for what I can give them in monetary or compensatable gifts. Somehow at that point I feel like a guy who has to buy attention from a lady. That being the case, then that persons worth as a human being looking for a healthy relationship is questionable at best and suspect at worst.

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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 8:06:41 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: theslave123

why do so many so called misstress want tribute are they in it for the money or are they genuine in looking for a lifestyle no a hour then pay up this to me is just a buissness not for real.

They are called Pro Dommes...Now you owe me 10 bucks

Diane

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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 8:07:50 PM

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so its a buissness not a lifestyle having a slave surely means what it states deadbeats lossers so what as there back ground to do with it if its a slave you want this is my point its money not a lifestyle at all and this is why im starting to believe that 85per cent couldnt careless about the lifestyle its the cash you can never be a slave to some one whos goal is money from you your then only buying a service

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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 8:09:06 PM

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quote:

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why do so many so called misstress want tribute are they in it for the money or are they genuine in looking for a lifestyle no a hour then pay up this to me is just a buissness not for real.

I was wondering if you were going to place a period at the end of that train wreck or not; the suspense was killing me.

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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 8:11:02 PM

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I on the other hand do see something wrong with "tribute". I think charging for Domination is cheap and hollow, plus I am a buisness man and if I am paying for something its mine, I do with it what I want. I think D/s is beautiful and pro/tribute/compensation for time/whatever just seeks to make a ugly profit.

Yes I see a need for it, yes I understand there are a lot of men who want this, however that doesnt change my opinion.

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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 8:13:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: theslave123

why do so many so called misstress want tribute are they in it for the money or are they genuine in looking for a lifestyle no a hour then pay up this to me is just a buissness not for real.

http://www.dictionary.com

Now that that's out of the way, there is such a thing as prodommes who yes, ARE in it for the money, and probably the enjoyment that they get out of what they do.

There are also other dommes who are, as you consider them, "lifestylers."

You have apparently gotten your panties in a bunch over the former.

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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 8:54:16 PM

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I hate to get into definitions about lifestylers and prodommes, if you want D/s you are looking at a prodomme why?
S&M sure, whatever cranks your handle, to my belief, opinion orwhat have you D/s is the relationship dynamic, S&M is a kink the fetish the bondage the whipping the humiliation, and so much more obviously.....
Yes its a business, but its a a "lifestyle" business, to succeed in it you must be good at what you do, talented, ask any of the ladies who have been doing this for a few years or more.
I would rather learn the techniques, safety, protocols, from prodommes than from any other source, why? because they do it day after day, session after session, person after person. They have a great understanding of what drives people to their desires and how to use them to their best advantage, both as a wonderful experience for the "customer"(I use that as just a non gender term) and enjoyable for the Pro. That is not to say that non pro's have nothing to teach or share......(disclaimer)

Finding the right lady may be an issue, I am not saying there arent a lot of scams out there, but a goood prodomme probably see s and takes part in the S&M "lifestyle" more than most couples out there. How are they not a part of the BDSM lifestyle??
oh and Im not a pro, I neither seek a tribute of any kind, because Im not looking. You have the power to find what you do and what you dont want, dont expect a forum or the ladies here, to do the job for you.
I apologise in advance for typos and grammar, im dosed up on myquil tonite and not really responsible for my fingers.
Lucy

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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 8:56:11 PM

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why do so many so called misstress want tribute are they in it for the money or are they genuine in looking for a lifestyle no a hour then pay up this to me is just a buissness not for real.

The simple answer is "Because they can".

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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 8:56:56 PM

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have you noticed no pro dommes have replied to this if its the money they want then they are buissness women and nothing wrong in being a buissness women but a misstress they will or never can be and people should stop thinking they are a slave when they pay they are not its just buissness thats all a transaction and if you pay a buissness women for her servive how in this world are you her slave

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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 9:25:49 PM

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Personally, I don't like the idea of tribute...especially as a entry fee for a first meeting. Just my opinion. Expecting a submissive to be a gentleman and paying for dinner or something? Perfectly fine, as long as you make it clear beforehand, and be flexible about it. Expecting him to treat you, a total stranger, like a rock star is no different then him expecting you to treat him like the sex toy you've always wanted.

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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 9:32:16 PM

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Im a Pro Domme and a lifestylist love both and have real time 24/7 slaves

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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 9:34:51 PM

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From SIR. Is a marriage sincere without an engagement ring? Maybe I am wrong but daughter and dowry are about one and the same. The right to successfully reproduce is given only to those willing to sacrifice. That means self sacrifice first. If you cant recognize it, I can guarantee you have never been there. If you are to embarrassed to pay tribute
Try Homage
Homage deems you give more respect and discipline to yourself before you ask to be in the presence of those you may claim to trust with your life. This will insure you will be respected long after the act has taken place and insure at least a repeat of the journey. If you expect to go further than dig deeper so the integrity of the environment stays secure. If you want to master an art with out paying the teacher you have stolen from him. Only children deserve something for nothing and to sacrifice for a child only invests in your future. So! Unless you are a child every relationship you have will cost you! Respect those who know their worth or be treated as one who is worthless.

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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 9:48:34 PM

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Some men enjoy paying a ProDomme for her services, it is as easy as that. Why people feel the need to bash the ProDomme's and their clientele I will never understand. It is a business in which there is a demand for. You go to the dentist to get a filling you pay, you go to a ProDomme to get CBT and flogged you pay. It really is that easy.

Some men enjoy being in a relationship with a lifestyle Domme in which he doesn't pay a hourly fee. It can be just a D/s relationship, it can also be a loving relationship. It just depends upon the people involved.

My 2 cents.

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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 10:08:25 PM

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If a sub/slave is into ProDommes, and obviously many are, that's their choice. To each their own.

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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 10:20:29 PM

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I was wondering if you were going to place a period at the end of that train wreck or not; the suspense was killing me.

i wasn't expecting much out of this thread, but that made me snarf. Thx

Personally, when i hear "tribute", i think live goats with their throats cut, screaming and bleeding upon the altar, pinning their frantic hooves with my arms while desperately reaching out with every sense i hold for some sign that my tribute has been accepted... give me a Goddess worthy of the name, or hawk your shoddy wares in the market amongst the beggars and the bards!

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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 10:43:37 PM

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Personally, when i hear "tribute", i think live goats with their throats cut, screaming and bleeding upon the altar, pinning their frantic hooves with my arms while desperately reaching out with every sense i hold for some sign that my tribute has been accepted... give me a Goddess worthy of the name, or hawk your shoddy wares in the market amongst the beggars and the bards!

Now that's a tribute!

I think people are also confusing the "pro dommes" for the "money dommes." There's a specific kink involving pushy women online taking money from men who like to be dominated in that way.

I dislike the use of the word. Tribute sounds nice and honoring - like a room full of roses or a poem or something. I say, just call it a "deposit"

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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 10:58:43 PM

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I'm a Pro Domme AND a lifestyle one..............I love what I do............and I very much care for all of my subs.....................put that in yer pipe and smoke it! *smirks*

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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 11:30:40 PM

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Oh, I thought it was pronounced try booty.

Here I thought that's all ya'll wanted to do.

So embarrassed, ignore those cards and letters.

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