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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/15/2009 9:03:45 AM   
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. Panic and fear have set in and I might just be having an emotional break down.
Imp...did you think that you are feeling this way because you are going back to let go, to put things to rest? Perhaps what you are feeling is guilt over the betrayal of moving on?

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/15/2009 9:05:11 AM   
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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/15/2009 10:06:36 AM   
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quote:

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. Panic and fear have set in and I might just be having an emotional break down.
Imp...did you think that you are feeling this way because you are going back to let go, to put things to rest? Perhaps what you are feeling is guilt over the betrayal of moving on?



I'd really like to put things to rest. I think that myself and the other person involved have both moved on. Maybe that person more than myself. BUt they have always been good at that sort of thing usually I am too, but in this situation not so much. I'd like to have one more conversation to put things to rest. Things ended extremely bad. I was so wrapped up in my own grief and anger that I couldn't deal with much else (that person didn't understand nor did I try to communicate that at that time) and that other person involved pushed me into having a conversation I just wasn't ready to have. It was almost too much. I jsut about crashed and burned. I gave up everything I had been working for and on and I jsut packed my stuff and left. It's now been a year and a half since we have spoken and while our relationship or friendship I don't think can be repaired we do have the loss of a child in common that should be discussed at least I think. Maybe I feel guilty for leaving, maybe things would be different if I stayed. But I couldn't face seeing that person everyday as it was a constant reminder. One of the last times we spoke that person said "I don't want either one of us to have closure because that means it's the end and I don't want this to end." Except that we haven't spoken in a year and a half, that person is seeing someone else, and we live 1200 miles away from one another. So I guess I don't understand what the problem would be at this point in time. I'm going back to see friends. I don't know if I will run into that person or not. I did send an email asking that person to think about having a conversation for closure's sake (by phone). I don't think I will hear back, but that person also doesn't know that I will be in town either. So there is a little sense of apprehension about possibly seeing that person again.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/15/2009 10:37:49 AM   
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I hate it that I've got anesthesias in my neck and I feel like somebody's sitting on my throat

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/15/2009 10:59:50 AM   
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...my sore throat hit back again and I can't find my lovely tablets I used last time to finish it off...damn why can't I find them  Am sure one of my cats has played with the box they are in...phew...maybe I should start to leave the heating on now for a change...might be better for my health...or even starting to wear a jacket or coat outside  Gosh I hate the colder season

Apart from that I hate some cool air in my private life at present...but well...once that air is gone I will know more where I stand...

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/15/2009 1:40:08 PM   
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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/15/2009 2:12:27 PM   
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I hate that my body doesn't want to move



and that Holly's comment made me really sit and think hard.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/15/2009 5:44:34 PM   
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HUGSES again, Imp!  I wish I could do something more useful than offer virtual beamage...

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/15/2009 7:25:24 PM   
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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/15/2009 7:55:31 PM   
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HUGSES again, Imp!  I wish I could do something more useful than offer virtual beamage...



Thanks Lady H it is greatly appreciated. Even tho virtual it brings me back to reality and a step back from losing my mind completely.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/15/2009 10:40:52 PM   
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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/16/2009 7:03:17 AM   
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 Alot of hate right now. Anyone wanna volunteer for a whipping?


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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/16/2009 9:57:30 AM   
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I hate that he dumbass boss said there will be another pay cut.  .50 to $1.

He'd better plan on cutting my rent and car payment too.


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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/16/2009 9:59:21 AM   
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Dear Gawd, Greedy!! 
Wtf, next he'll make this a volunteer position?

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/16/2009 9:59:56 AM   
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I hate being really really confused.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/16/2009 10:03:38 AM   
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Welcome to my world, Imp.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/16/2009 10:05:38 AM   
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I sowwy potty if we are going through anything close to the same thing my heart goes out to you. And even if we aren't it still goes out to you.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/16/2009 10:11:39 AM   
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I doubt it, Imp. I'm naturally confused about everything

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}  I'm sorry you're going thru such a hard time right now.
You're a strong, intelligent beautiful young woman and I know everything will work out for you. Maybe not right away (how boring life would be if it didn't make us pull our hair out every so often), but it will.  Until then, I'm always available for you on the other side if you care to vent.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/16/2009 10:21:34 AM   
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:) Thanks



I hate that everything today is making me weepy. Maybe I should just crawl into bed and hide under the covers. Except I can find my bed because it's covered with shoes.


Imp who must pull it all together to go meet my personal trainer.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/16/2009 10:32:30 AM   
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Have a nice workout! You should feel a bit better afterwards, at least it always worked for me.

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