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BlackPhx -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/28/2008 8:46:43 AM)

Or chamomile or peppermint tea for the wee loudone as well..soothing to the tummy.

poenkitten

and yes angel you get to keep a wee tad of smug..If they only didn't cost so much







KMsAngel -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/28/2008 8:50:55 AM)

yeah. i got it on a student discount, but had to get the screen, keyboard, etc as well. unfortunately my old pc kb and such didn't work. it was STILL cheaper than a pc laptop though.




wandersalone -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/28/2008 9:12:07 AM)

thinking of all the people who are feeling unwell...including miniature people.

I hate when I feel as if I have done/said something wrong when I haven't......and I hate that the sinking feeling I would get in the pit of my stomach twenty years ago when in an abusive relationship came back to me when it happened.

edited to clarify 




GreedyTop -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/28/2008 9:13:06 AM)

*hugs to all that need them*




BlackPhx -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/28/2008 9:16:32 AM)

You got a dang good deal then cause the Macs I have seen and their corresponding laptops have been astronomical in price. You can get a good PC Laptop for 400$ and the same goes for desktops depending on features you want. The PC's even come with monitors, kb, mice and printers in many cases.

and wanders..you have done nothing wrong even if you told someone to go jump in  a lake.

poenkitten




wandersalone -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/28/2008 9:17:01 AM)

sneaks back in to hug the greedy one just because [:)]




wandersalone -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/28/2008 9:20:00 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackPhx

and wanders..you have done nothing wrong even if you told someone to go jump in  a lake.

poenkitten


smiles..... you are such a treasure poenkitten, I hope you know how much your care and concern for all of us means.
Mind you, I could (and do) think that about everyone here




GreedyTop -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/28/2008 9:24:25 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: wandersalone

sneaks back in to hug the greedy one just because [:)]


*purrrrrs*




christine1 -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/28/2008 9:32:30 AM)

i hate that i can't find my baby powder.  i always keep it in the same spot and now it's gone, i've torn my bedroom up looking for it.  wierd how we get set in our ways about certain things lol...makes me feel old!




BlackPhx -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/28/2008 11:08:56 AM)

Ok it was either empty christine and you tossed it..or it is in the bathroom left there from the other morning when you were n a hurry.

thanks Wander...

poenkitten




Daddysredhead -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/28/2008 11:16:11 AM)

*hugs to all who are feeling sad, ill, out of sorts, etc.*

Wanders, I know what you are talking about and it stinks.  I've had that retro-boomerang emotional deja-vu thing happen before and it can really through me for a loop.  Take care, sweet lady, and know that sometimes these feelings just kind of come out of left field, but we don't have to accept them, esp. when we've done nothing wrong.



I hate that I need to take some time this afternoon to write down some things that I prefer not to, in an attempt to understand why I react to some situations the way I do.  After talking to Thing 1's counselors for the past several weeks on my own, it seems that my "Monster" as I call it has served a purpose throughout my life.  This anger/rage reaction has protected me in many situations, but it's also caused collateral damage along the way.  I see certain patterns in Thing 1 that show he is developing his own "Monster" and I don't want him to grow up feeling he has to rely on it to stay "safe." 

I hate that acknowledging terrible things have happened to me in my life makes me feel weak and stupid.

I hate that I don't believe I need the same kind of "slack" that I offer to others who are going through a tough time.

I hate that I feel the need to minimize bad things so people won't feel sorry for me because I feel like there are so many people who are worse off than me.

I hate that I have wondered all my life why I feel this way, and just this week, may have uncovered some reasons why and I hate them because I feel guilty for attributing some of these feelings to the person I do.

I also hate that everyone tells me I say "I'm sorry" too much and I know it's true.  I apologize for everything, even shit that has nothing to do with me.

I hate that this post makes me seem like a whiney, pitiful worm, and not the strong woman I always want to be and be seen as.

I hate that being vulnerable is so damn risky, but I love that I feel "safer" putting this out here than I do telling pretty much anyone in my everyday life.




GreedyTop -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/28/2008 11:29:18 AM)

I hate that Red is being way too hard on herself.. (I'll be home after 7 if ya wanna call... *HUGS*)




Daddysredhead -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/28/2008 11:47:31 AM)

*hugs my sweet GT back*

You know, I just don't see it as being all that hard on me.  I think I'm programmed to be a certain way with myself, and right or wrong, those are the standards I've set for myself.  I just don't want Thing 1 doing this to himself.  I know that I'm setting an example and I need to be careful, therefore, I'm willing to dissect part of the crap I've had stored away for a long time.  I don't feel bad for myself, I just don't like the prospect of doing all this "digging."

More hugs and squishes to all...

~ Red, the "archeologist"  [8|]




auroraborealis -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/28/2008 12:16:15 PM)

*many many hugs*

I was just talking to someone this morning about how things in our past.. ~ abusive realtions.. feeling unloved as a child.. being hurt by many.. all effect how our sub concious takes things.. and sometimes it triggers instant reactions that go totaly against the logic of the situation.

So many of us have been programmed to feel certain ways.. usualy it is bad self defeating behavors.. but when we reconize that when someone says or does XYZ.. and we react negatively in our own heads to it even though that is not how it was ment.. or it is just a practial thing that needs to be done... that the realization is key to changing our subconcious mind about how we will react to it again.. over and over.

It is sooo hard. Rewiring your sub con. is never easy that is for sure.. hell.. many will take decades and still never reign in those ideas and feelings. But realizing the behaviors and words are what triggers it.. it a *huge* step.

I wish you luck in it hon. *many hugs again*

Gwyn




LadyHibiscus -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/28/2008 12:36:27 PM)

*hugs RED*

Look at what you accomplish EVERY SINGLE DAY!!    You are ASTOUNDING!!You are fully entitled to vent at will, you know we will listen and understand!

Also, I recommend that someone give you a blow job.  I read on another thread that they are the solution to pretty much everything![8D]




Daddysredhead -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/28/2008 12:47:51 PM)

*hugs Gwyn and LadyH, too* 

Thank you, gals.  All of you are so special to me.  Thank you for being kind and understanding and loving.  It means the world to me. 

I read that a blow job will cure all that ails me, too.  I just need to find someone to give me one.  [8D]





PeterJay -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/28/2008 1:34:32 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: christine1

i hate that i can't find my baby powder.  i always keep it in the same spot and now it's gone, i've torn my bedroom up looking for it.  wierd how we get set in our ways about certain things lol...makes me feel old!

Your baby powder is probably with gabrielleslave's TV remote. No one has found that either.




auroraborealis -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/28/2008 1:55:47 PM)

*hugs you back*

So that's what my problem is! No one has given me a BJ in ages... well damn it.

Last time I got a BJ was on Valentines Day. No wonder I am cranky...

I *should* be cranky!

Gwyn




Daddysredhead -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/28/2008 2:11:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: auroraborealis

*hugs you back*

So that's what my problem is! No one has given me a BJ in ages... well damn it.

Last time I got a BJ was on Valentines Day. No wonder I am cranky...

I *should* be cranky!

Gwyn


I hate it when Gwyn doesn't get a sufficient number of BJ's.  *nods*




OneDom69 -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/28/2008 2:14:19 PM)

I hate it that the day has flown by so quickly.....and not enough time in the day to spend with someone




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