YourhandMyAss
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Joined: 6/25/2006 From: Sacramento Status: offline
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Kyttyn, One time at his trailer, when he lived in a trailer, I was stretching my legs out by putting them up in the air, and there's a low over hang over the bed, with a bare light bulb on it, my foot hit the light bulb over the bed, and shattered lightbulb all over the bed andI got a tiny cut on the side of my foot. As to should I tell him I am sexually unsatisfied, not a message board, He knows I am unhappy with the state of our love life, We've had this talk many, many times. Saying it again won't do anything but start a fight and cause hurt feelings all around, and make things tense and unhappy. Specially since some of the things that are making me unhappy with our sex life I don't think can be helped, with out special means or something like expensive pills or some shit he can't afford. Part of it is also he's chronically depressed, and has a long history of mental illness, and he can't afford medication for it and he refuses to go on any kind of state aid program, because it's an offense to his ego. He says no offense, but aid programs are for people who can't help themselves, IE can't work or have disabilities, and he's fully capable of working, so it's an insult to his ego and pride to suggest aid programs. and his depression and mental condition, it drives his sex drive way way down, and his toxic family is pulling their usual low blows and he's depressed and worried about the shit they're pulling, But at the same time he says it's wrong to disown them, so he'll continue being around them, plus he says he works with one of the problems, so what good would disowning them do since he works with them.' I may get to the point where him applying for some kind of program, Even just therapy, will be a requirement to keep the relationship going. quote:
ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx YHMA? Dont you think it better to say this to him, than us? I hate it when I get a fit of horomonal rage because someone used all the teabags, and didnt tell me, so I get pissed and somehow a light bulb ends up breaking and spraying all over the floor. Oops...
< Message edited by YourhandMyAss -- 1/14/2009 9:46:11 AM >
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