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RE: Transforming nice women into humiliated and demeane... - 4/20/2008 4:04:36 PM

daddysliloneds

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some of us nice girls enjoyed being transformed into a bitch, whore, cumslut and still do to this day! and believe me when i tell you, my transformation had nothing to do with past abuse on my side of the fence, nor from my sadist abusing me! i was and am still not a victim and i'm still a nice girl!

i'm glad to know that you at least acknowledge you have issues, but don't be painting your broad brush all over my landscape for fucks sake!

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RE: Transforming nice women into humiliated and demeane... - 4/20/2008 7:02:26 PM

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... An excellent article you should read is Qualities of a Successful Dominant By Polly Peachum ; Just do a Google search for the title and you will find it.

Master K, Thanks for this article. It led me to a site that has other helpful articles too! ~oblige

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RE: Transforming nice women into humiliated and demeane... - 4/20/2008 7:40:37 PM

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Not every woman is a nice woman. And not every woman who enjoys not very nice treatment is a victim.

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RE: Transforming nice women into humiliated and demeane... - 4/25/2008 9:55:34 PM

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Very interesting thread.

Darkvictory is correct, time is all you have; Use it well.

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RE: Transforming nice women into humiliated and demeane... - 4/26/2008 9:12:14 AM

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I am not clear on the concept of "breaking one down". Would someone please enlighten me? It may well be something that my Sir did, but i was unaware of. And if that is true , then did it work?

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RE: Transforming nice women into humiliated and demeane... - 4/26/2008 9:31:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: DarkVictory

While on the surface, your humor is to be appreciated, I think it hides a darker truth. It sounds like your Owner/Master/Dom(me)/Top(pe) is abusive and manipulative. You've internalized this abuse, and seek to make it 'okay' or 'special' in some way. This is just more evidence of his abuse of you. While I don't know you, I'd strongly recommend proffessional help. Your submission is a precious gift, one to be cherished, not to be abused or spat upon in this way. You're young, you have your whole life in front of you. Don't waste the delicate flower that you are upon this rock of evil.

While your psycho analysis is appreciated, I don't think that you are really a Freud/Jung wannabe...

The darker truth is apparent between your words...

Your clearly a purple alien with polka dots and green tentacles named Jeff

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RE: Transforming nice women into humiliated and demeane... - 4/26/2008 10:09:41 PM

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I have to wonder that if your dad abused you, are you a sub because of that abuse? Or did that experience lead you to where you found you needed to be. I't kind of like if a girl get's raped but then she comes to like rape fantasies. Did you end up taking a path you would have taken anyway or was your path altered? I myself don't like people who claim to be masters who have not even mastered themselves.

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RE: Transforming nice women into humiliated and demeane... - 4/27/2008 5:52:28 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

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ORIGINAL: DarkVictory

While on the surface, your humor is to be appreciated, I think it hides a darker truth. It sounds like your Owner/Master/Dom(me)/Top(pe) is abusive and manipulative. You've internalized this abuse, and seek to make it 'okay' or 'special' in some way. This is just more evidence of his abuse of you. While I don't know you, I'd strongly recommend proffessional help. Your submission is a precious gift, one to be cherished, not to be abused or spat upon in this way. You're young, you have your whole life in front of you. Don't waste the delicate flower that you are upon this rock of evil.

While your psycho analysis is appreciated, I don't think that you are really a Freud/Jung wannabe...

The darker truth is apparent between your words...

Your clearly a purple alien with polka dots and green tentacles named Jeff

says nothing ...but quietly continues to knit Dark Victory His "Rock of Evil" jumper

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RE: Transforming nice women into humiliated and demeane... - 4/29/2008 8:44:33 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

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ORIGINAL: DarkVictory

While on the surface, your humor is to be appreciated, I think it hides a darker truth. It sounds like your Owner/Master/Dom(me)/Top(pe) is abusive and manipulative. You've internalized this abuse, and seek to make it 'okay' or 'special' in some way. This is just more evidence of his abuse of you. While I don't know you, I'd strongly recommend proffessional help. Your submission is a precious gift, one to be cherished, not to be abused or spat upon in this way. You're young, you have your whole life in front of you. Don't waste the delicate flower that you are upon this rock of evil.

While your psycho analysis is appreciated, I don't think that you are really a Freud/Jung wannabe...

The darker truth is apparent between your words...

Your clearly a purple alien with polka dots and green tentacles named Jeff

How's that hook taste? good?

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RE: Transforming nice women into humiliated and demeane... - 4/29/2008 8:46:33 PM

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so that's where Jefff went!

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