chgodomcouple
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Joined: 10/24/2005 Status: offline
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Well, we had a dungeon party last night to break in the brand new dungeon that I, and a few close friends, worked our butts off to build. Only 8 people showed up. We usually have 20-30 people hanging out in the dungeon when we have a party. A dozen people who told me they'd be here cancelled out at the last minute, and a whole lot of people just didn't bother to RSVP at all. No biggie. Five years ago, when Master and I had our very first dungeon party, only 4 people showed up of the 50 or so who had been invited, and only stayed a couple hours. I was devastated, and spent a great deal of the following day in tears. But last night I really did not care that it wasn't a huge bash. It was quiet, intimate, and very non-threatening to the one newbie submissive who came alone. Had it been bigger, she may been intimidated. Had it been bigger, it probably would not have been as relaxed as it was, and the people who DID come had a really good time. Anyway... everyone's comments here, especially K's and ShadeDiva's, have helped me tremendously. It's just nice to know that someone else out there feels as I do, and understands what it means to feel like you're on the outside looking in... even in a group you started. I think people are simply unsettled by someone whom they cannot pigeonhole, and they don't know how to relate to them, so they don't even bother trying.[/color] Talking about Dungeons.... my friend got married so a week before we trew him and his wife a huge party about 200 people .. open bar, 3 floors, live band, and teh whole 10yards.. and the dungeon fully equiped... which me and this dom Tina decided to take over..... Thomas watched since he knows that i need to have my dom fun some way, how i cant apply it to him...... so being a switch with an understandable Master can have its advantages A.S.
< Message edited by chgodomcouple -- 10/28/2005 7:43:30 PM >
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