crouchingtigress
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Joined: 3/19/2006 From: Maui Status: offline
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Gosh i have to laugh, just last week i was told for the umpteenth time that i was way to nice and cute to be a Domme.... it makes me giggle. I personally love being a switch, i came in as a domme, then found my slave side, and during those years i was excruciatingly self unidentified as a slave. And i could not get my head around switches, they confused me and they scared me...to me they did not take the life style seriously.....and some how it was in my head that if you did not take the lifestyle seriously then you were doing it wrong. Now i look back and feel sorry for folks who feel this way, how limiting their lives are, how painfully trapped they must feel at times. Being a slave was very serious, very soap-boxy, very martyry for me...and as i look back i can see that i was so identified with my role, that i lost the whole point,... that this thing we do is fun....i see this everyday on the boards....people taking this thing so seriously, but if you notice they are really lonely people for the most part, even the ones with several slaves... I think as switches, we know a secret, i know i should not be telling the whole world but hopefully no one but us will read it....i think we realize in a way different from non-switches... That this journey is really about growth, exploration, joy of adventure, truth of being, and intimacy. That we are vibrant, multi faceted creatures....that have these increadible things called human bodies...and that they are really fun to play with.... That BDSM is only a tool for evolving as a whole person...a tool for exploring intimacy,. a tool not a pedigree....not a birthright. Switches dont like labels, more often then not they dont say 'i am a switch' they say 'i am me'.....that to me is the most telling thing about us, if you ask me, and so then it makes sense that we dont fit in, because we are not trying to....if there was a group of Amy's, and they all identified as Amy's, dressed like me, laughed at my stupid jokes ect, i still prolly would not hang out with them except at parties, because i still like just doing my own thing... PS you and Kaptin will always fit in...in my my tub...
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Service slut, durable plaything, and ponypenquincatdogpig, to Lee Harrington This is him "Its none of my buisness what other people think of me."
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