bignipples2share
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Joined: 4/19/2004 Status: offline
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Remember, until there even became such a thing as 'the lifestyle' these hardcore doms and subs were also outcasts, not fitting into the vanilla world. I've heard and seen many switches who aren't forthcoming, so they don't become outcasts. Wouldn't it be wonderful to see how many switches there really are. Maybe when they do, more people who top from the bottom will start coming forward and those that enjoy them. I wish they'd hurry though, I'm getting old here just waiting. LOL I find it amusing when someone with Master in their name IM's me and after chatting for awhile, begins to call me Ma'am or Mistress. I actuallly choose not to get into calling, or being called master, or having to capitalize the D in dom. I don't care who else is into this, it's just not something I will ever be adding to my list of things to do. This seems to be some sort of sin in the eyes of many. That's okay though, they aren't the people I ever intend to share my bed with, so why should they even care. You would think that because they were once considered misfits they would be more understanding, but of course, they don't think like that. Some of them rationalize that they've been in this culture for generations. I say, so what! They were STILL not mainstream and considered outcasts. To me, it's just racism without color..oh wait, there is color, it's a black and white world for them, no shades of grey!
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