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RE: Preference of color - 4/11/2008 12:43:42 AM

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What is wrong with only wanting to date someone of a particular race maybe that's all they're attracted to? Maybe they've had bad experiences? Maybe she's like me and enjoys a redneck man, How many rednecks you that aren't white? Personal preference dude, No reason to get your panties in a bunch

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RE: Preference of color - 4/11/2008 1:22:39 AM

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Based on the way that you talk, what branch of the military were you in, and for how long?

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RE: Preference of color - 4/11/2008 1:29:03 AM

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I don't have any problem with someone presenting their preferences in their profile like this. It weeds out those who wouldn't work for him and does him and whoever doesn't meet his personal requirements a favor.
Personally, I think everyone is predisposed to being more attracted to those of their own race. That doesn't mean there aren't exceptions, or that its a racist issue. Animals tend to do the same thing. It's simple preservation. If this weren't the case, after a long period of time, there would eventually be a homenized human species of no particular race, just a mixture of everything. I think nature likes diversity. I know I *love* pale skin, bordering on porcelain. Thats just me though, and even though thats true, there are women of other races and skin tones that I have found to be very attractive.
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RE: Preference of color - 4/11/2008 1:31:16 AM

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I PERSONALY DON';T BELIEVE IN MIXING OF THE RACES BUT THAT THE REDNECK IN ME,HOWEVER I BELIEVE WHATS RIGHT FOR YOU IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO....BOUNTY

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RE: Preference of color - 4/11/2008 1:57:20 AM

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I'm going to jump on the bandwagon that favors that people can choose partners based on whatever fool criteria that they see fit to use. Our brains/bodies know what they want, and that's that.

Myself, I think beauty comes in all colors, shapes and sizes. Yes, I have my own preferences but its nothing to do with skin colors per se. I mean, in truth we are all of us differing shades of brown. What's the real difference?

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I PERSONALY DON';T BELIEVE IN MIXING OF THE RACES BUT THAT THE REDNECK IN ME,HOWEVER I BELIEVE WHATS RIGHT FOR YOU IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO....BOUNTY

Races, eh? Do people still believe in that nonsense about there being different races? They're not just idiotic social constructs?

It's not a fact that we are all of us almost exactly the same genetic material; that we are all so closely related as to make differences largely immaterial???

Yeah, and about that whole mixing of the races thing...just wow.

I like talking about ethnic variations because those kinds of cultural differences are the spice of life (quite literally) and I really enjoy those distinctions between people, but the other stuff is just whacked.

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RE: Preference of color - 4/11/2008 2:06:23 AM

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I am not in the vaguest racist. I prefer white males, under 40 and very tall, preferably dark haired. That's MY choice.

I did once have a black slave from America email me, asking me to consider him. I very politely declined, as A. He was in another country (small detail, I know

) and B. He was in another country.

His reply was quite abusive and he ranted for quite a while about white women who are scared of black males, slaves or Doms. Go figure.

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RE: Preference of color - 4/11/2008 2:30:33 AM

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Men are like a buffet... i prefer the tall, lean ones -- except when they are short and muscular. The dark ones with the chocolatey brown eyes are so fine but so are the blonde, pale ones with the icy blue eyes.

i like 'em buff with the muscles bulging out all over, but the geeks with their intellectual humor and sharp brains drive me mad! Young, shy and innocent appeal to me (by young i mean in their twenties) but i adore a strong, older man who knows what He is doing. Scrawny and thin, heavy and soft, it's all good.

Blonde hair, crimson, brunette, curly, thin, balding (woo hoo!), a shiny pate... how could a girl choose? And don't get me started on facial hair, or the lack of it.

Limiting yourself to one type... is a bit like going to one of those buffet restaurants and sticking to the salad island.

In the end, it's what is animating the flesh that matters and the most important sexual organ is between their ears, not their legs.

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RE: Preference of color - 4/11/2008 2:35:30 AM

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Limiting yourself to one type... is a bit like going to one of those buffet restaurants and sticking to the salad island.

Again, that's YOUR choice, not mine.

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RE: Preference of color - 4/11/2008 2:45:00 AM

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Yup, you are right, it is... *smile* and i wouldn't dream of dictating preferences to someone else. i was just stating my preferences (or lack thereof) not saying what anyone else should want.

Have a good one!

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RE: Preference of color - 4/11/2008 3:20:32 AM

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Races, eh? Do people still believe in that nonsense about there being different races? They're not just idiotic social constructs?

there is no problem with discussing "races" ( we grew up seperate for millions of years) but how you approach it.

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RE: Preference of color - 4/11/2008 3:25:34 AM

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Thank Y/you all for Y/your feedback!

With all due respect, I don’t think like that and I think she needs some discipline, so she can pass that level of shallowness. she has to learn NOT to judge BDSM Masters by the shell They come in.

Yup and im sure that you wouldnt specify a type and never use appearance for anything *dubious looks at profile picutres* If from your Op as you say it should be based on experiance then how would anyone get anywhere becuase no one would ever get the experiance and from some of your posts your lack is rather evident. I wouldnt want to be with someone who i didnt find attractive, I may not specify on my profile what I find attractive but maybe more fool me because at least this woman wont be getting lots of mails from people she isnt interested in. Is it really that you dont like how shallow she is? or is it simply that the specification went against you?

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RE: Preference of color - 4/11/2008 3:46:41 AM

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With all due respect, I don’t think like that and I think she needs some discipline, so she can pass that level of shallowness. she has to learn NOT to judge BDSM Masters by the shell They come in.

Get over yourself. So something about you doesn't match the girls preffrences... in stating it she has just saved you time.

We see gripes of just this nature from short people claiming some girl is being shallow because she looks for someone taller than her. From guys My age gripeing about some 20 year old who states she isn't looking for anyone over 30. Colour is just another prefference and here you are griping about it.

It isn't that the person is shallow, it is more that those griping simply don't like being excluded because they of course are the exception to the rule according to their own ego that is and if the girl would get over the stated exclusion then she would realise just what she is missing..... sheesh, whatever the exclusion get over the fact that she has a right to make it, you are NOT special... at least not to her!

You list as straight and are only looking for women. Are you being shallow? Should you be disciplined but a nice butch bear to show you how special He is and why He is an exception to your shallow gender bias?

I think not.....

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RE: Preference of color - 4/11/2008 4:35:32 AM

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You list as straight and are only looking for women. Are you being shallow? Should you be disciplined but a nice butch bear to show you how special He is and why He is an exception to your shallow gender bias?

I think not.....

I think so.

That bit about how she needs to be taught a lesson concerns me. It sounds like he's planning to track her down and nonconsensually abuse her. Very icky.

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RE: Preference of color - 4/11/2008 4:49:13 AM

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That bit about how she needs to be taught a lesson concerns me. It sounds like he's planning to track her down and nonconsensually abuse her. Very icky.

It was that bit that caused Me to post... I don't think he is saying he would act on anything.... but it certainly looked like his bruised ego at being 'excluded' and not thought of as 'special' was causing him to throw his teddy outta the pram!

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RE: Preference of color - 4/11/2008 5:12:50 AM

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RE: Preference of color - 4/11/2008 5:15:03 AM

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some prefer one race over the other meanwhile others don't.

i had no preference when searching however i tend to gravitate towards white men than black men. some might consider that as being racially discriminating on my part because personally i feel more comfortable around then. that's their opinion which doesn't effect me at all.

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RE: Preference of color - 4/11/2008 5:16:06 AM

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"Marines die, that's what we're here for. But the Marine Corps lives forever. And that means YOU live forever." [the mythical GySgt. Hartman, USMC; portrayed by GySgt. R. Lee Ermey, a Marine Corps Drill Instructor using his own choice of words in Full Metal Jacket, 1987]

*blink*

huh?

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RE: Preference of color - 4/11/2008 5:20:01 AM

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Personal preference, move on.

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RE: Preference of color - 4/11/2008 5:24:10 AM

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huh?

yea i read it three times and still dont get the relevence

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RE: Preference of color - 4/11/2008 5:26:34 AM

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I've thought about this overnight, and the only real advantage white skin has over black (that I can think of) is that with a sub, the whip and paddle marks tend to show up better on someone with "celtic princess" pigmentation. On the other hand, black skin looks sooooo sexy when ornemented in gold....

(These are just my opinons... every person's body type, race, religion, politics, eye and hair color brings something different to the table. Not good or bad... just deliciously different.)

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