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Joined: 11/3/2005 From: Kentucky Status: offline
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Those other people scared me away, and since I am of course, so so true, I did not admit that yes, there was a week or so when I said, yanno...let's just 'be' for a while. He wasn't thrilled, but He didn't want to throw me away because of it. At that particular point, if He had lifted a flogger to me, or attempted some of the usual games, I *knew* in my heart that it would not go well. And I was able to look at Him, and tell Him that for some reason, I'm really just not feeling it right now. Our relationship is more important than whether He flogs me, and whether I always submit to His will or not. And sometimes...we forget who we are...outside of those roles, and maybe...for some it's important to reconnect with that part of yourself...Idk... But honestly, I think you were honest with yourself and with him. As far as taking advice, listen to what is said and weigh it in your heart. If it resonates with you, you will feel it. If not, feel free to thank the person very much for their advice, and say nice things like 'hmm...that makes sense' and 'gosh, I never looked at it like that before'. It makes the person who is giving the advice feel good, and you don't have to take the advice, just appreciate it. (yes, I know you're going to read this and say "hmmm....that makes sense' and 'gosh, I never looked at it like that before'. at least that's what *I* would do!) *lol*
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~Christina A nice girl with a disturbing hobby My femdom findom blog: http://www.MistressAvarice.com
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