YourhandMyAss
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Joined: 6/25/2006 From: Sacramento Status: offline
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That very well could be, however I think, seeing that we have a total honesty policy we work very hard to stick to,*yes I know some people don't believe couples can have 100 percent honesty, that's beside the point though* that He really doesn't like my scent. And I've come to be ok with that. Fortunatly oral sex is not something I rreally want much or have much craving for. I've been on dep long before we met. He thought it could of been a yeast infection or some other nasty baddie that affects vagina's and since the doctor repeatedly gives the all clear, every time I've gone, the one culprit left he wondered about was depo. We had oral sex the very first time we met, over 3 years ago now, and he said it was wonderful and delicious, and then the next time and every time since then it was to bitter and musty for him and has been ever since. .quote:
ORIGINAL: DieSchadenfreude Ok, prepare for a long, long post from a condomfairy (a volunteer sex educator). 1) Why does your partner believe it's the depo provera's fault? Was he ever with you before you started that form of birth control? And did he like the scent then? Or was it at least more bearable? 2) It's good that you've got yourself checked out. I'm glad your taking matters into your own hands. 3) Diet is NOT proven to change women's taste/scent. It can affect the taste of men's semen though, but only usually if they seriously binge on a certain food constantly. 4) I hate to suggest this, BUT your partner may just be making excuses or lying simply because he does not enjoy fingering & oral sex in general. 5) One scientific hypothesis to explain your situation, is that simply you are not genetically compatible with your partner. Disliking your partner's scent (ie. the pheremone's they excrete) is usually a big hint that you will not be able to reproduce effeciently. It does NOT mean that you are not emotionally compatible, just that nature is 'against' your coupling and potential offspring. 6) THE BIG POINT OF THIS POST: Taking birth control/hormones of ANY sort does NOT change a woman's scent. Birth control simply changes the AMOUNT of hormones that fluctuate through the body. Therefore, the natural scent is NOT changed, however it may increase or decrease in intensity. Feel free to poke me and ask me more questions if you wish. Mistress Belle
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