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RE: What is wrong with me? - 7/1/2009 3:51:45 PM

RealGirl4One

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Maybe you had a bad experience with someone who lied to you before, I know that happens, I can personally attest to it. And after a few times of that you try to read between the lines and figure out who might or might not be honest and real. Could be.

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RE: What is wrong with me? - 7/3/2009 9:35:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: kitarina

im not trying to whine or make excuses. I just know that i get to talking to Someone, panic, and run away. I've tried meditation, dinner dates, etc. and every time i end up freaking out. Thank the Goddess for the invention of inhalers or i'd be passed out 90% of the time lmao.

Have you tried increasing your social confidence outside the context of relationships? Socialising in the context of a hobby, say. If you spend some social time with men without the pressure of a potential relationship, it may make it easier for you to start seeing them as people as opposed to some kind of 'other'.

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RE: What is wrong with me? - 7/3/2009 10:48:54 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RealGirl4One

Maybe you had a bad experience with someone who lied to you before, I know that happens, I can personally attest to it. And after a few times of that you try to read between the lines and figure out who might or might not be honest and real. Could be.

How are you getting to these threads that are months, if not years, old?

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RE: What is wrong with me? - 7/4/2009 10:42:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: kitarina

I know i am submissive. I always have been and always will be, but when i flip through profiles on here and start reading profiles, I immediately find myself afraid of every One i see. Dom or Domme i freeze up and shy away. So many frighten me and i dont know why. Am i just a whacko or something? i don't understand.

LoL, she's afraid of reading Dominant profiles. So where does she go? A forum FULL of Dominants.

Your logic. It fails.

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RE: What is wrong with me? - 7/7/2009 8:53:26 PM

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yeppers...get a friend to do prechecking for you...its not perfect..and at the same time maybe you need counseling to get over this..not all of the Dom's here are into abusive pain...

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RE: What is wrong with me? - 7/9/2009 11:50:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

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I immediately find myself afraid of every One i see.

we all scare people

muahahaha

BOO!!

I cant scare a fly.

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RE: What is wrong with me? - 7/10/2009 5:30:35 PM

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OP Try talking to the dom's you like on here via extensive emails first. Then ask any friends if they know them and what type of person they are before meeting them. If you insist on dinner fine but bring a friend or another couple along. Eventually you will learn that most are not out to abuse you as they can not keep you around if they do that. If you have not tried something they say they want you to try, ask them for a detailed explenation as to what it is and how it will occur.

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RE: What is wrong with me? - 7/10/2009 6:48:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: mstrj69

OP

OP no longer has an active profile on the site.

This thread was resurrected from over a year and a half ago.

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