RedMagic1
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Every time I have dated I have offered to pay for everything. I have never once had to. The lady has bought concert tickets, or after-dinner coffee -- maybe small, but something. I have dated both Dommes and subs since I decided to date only non-vanilla, and both have acted the same way about money. This is the 21st century. Lots of women make more than the men in their lives, and gas is expensive. It's a way of demonstrating you are hopeful -- and making more frequent meeting possible. Women (and men) who say, "I'm old-fashioned and the man should pay for everything," fail to understand that there are over 500 home foreclosures a day in California alone. Mating dance economics has become a team effort for most people, even if they have "professional" jobs (and most don't).
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Not with envy, not with a twisted heart, shall you feel superior, or go about boasting. Rather in goodness by action make true your song and your word. Thus you shall be highly regarded, and able to live in peace with all others. - 15th century Aztec
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