RavenMuse
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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt Great posting, RavenMuse! IMO- submission isn't given , it is exchanged for dominance (and the responsibilities that go with it). One could just as easily start some BS about "the gift of dominance", as Doms take much on their shoulders when they get into a relationship with a sub. Relationship being the operative word. RS- Love is certainly a gift, but one which is exchanged rather than given. Thanks. I know all to well the responcibilitys I take on when accepting the submission of a sub, let alone that of a slave... something I consider BEFORE doing so. It is an EXCHANGE, both have things they bring to the relationship. I find usualy those who consider their submission as a gift... what they actualy offer is superficial whilst they think the Dom/me is about to jump through hoops to get it... LOL... good luck with that, whatever they get, it ain't going to be Dominant! Which probably works, because IMO they aren't exactly submissive. I do disagree that 'love' is a gift... You ever been on the recieving end when You haven't had reciprical feelings? Again, it is an exchange!
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