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Your a Slave // how so? - 6/23/2008 5:48:32 PM   
CelticPrince


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There are alot of slaves here abouts over the last two yeas. I address not just the fems that refer to their "D's as Master; but rather the consist of your activities and beliefs toward Him/Her

In essence beyound saying "He/She owns me" What defines you as a slave?

CP
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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/23/2008 6:48:14 PM   
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'cause He says so, silly!

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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/23/2008 7:03:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

'cause He says so, silly!


Classic Christine!
I agree but it is still classic. -laughs-
 
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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/23/2008 7:16:14 PM   
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well, I wasn't gonna talk about how I do...erm...whatever it is I do for Him with out hardly ever talking back, or arguing, or raising my voice, or...erm...

yeah, well...'cause He said so, ok?

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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/23/2008 7:46:30 PM   
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Christine,
Why not talk about how you do that one trick....
or the one were you....
Oh wait do you like being wank material? -laughs-
 
The simple answer is/was what you said.

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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/23/2008 7:51:16 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

There are alot of slaves here abouts over the last two yeas. I address not just the fems that refer to their "D's as Master; but rather the consist of your activities and beliefs toward Him/Her

In essence beyound saying "He/She owns me" What defines you as a slave?

CP


i'm owned, but we don't define me as a slave...i am their pet.....

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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/23/2008 8:03:57 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetNika

Oh wait do you like being wank material? -laughs-



Well, duh!

*lol*

I *am* His pleasureslave though, the house chores are just a bonus! *g*

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RE: You're a Slave // how so? - 6/23/2008 8:06:12 PM   
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I am His property and just like miss blushy said......... because He said so! 


*hmmmm hope He doesn't have to pay property taxes on me!*

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RE: You're a Slave // how so? - 6/23/2008 9:03:21 PM   
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Hello to the OP -
I don't mean to be snippy here, but this is an old question... but the best answer I've ever seen was this:

If she's mine, she's a slave, if she's yours, she's a sub....

There is some arbitrary line that is noted as the difference between the two... but it is a different line for each person.

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RE: You're a Slave // how so? - 6/24/2008 12:00:25 AM   
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There can be no an abstract definition of slavery that works in the context of two consenting adults in the modern Western world. In such a context any such construct is situational in nature, any such labels, tags, handles whatevers are created and applied by the people within the context. In effect, nothing defines me as a slave, other than self created self imposed ideas.
Therefore any criteria which to me indicated and defined my status as a slave would not work on the next girl.

Sir answered it like this, and I am in agreement with Him
Softness is a slave because
1) she says she is, and means it.
2) she is willing to give her rights, including her right to be right
3) she is clear that her real limits are her Owners limits and that her limits are actually requests and not limits at all.

these things define me as a slave in the context of my relationship with Dark Victory .. they won't work if I was a slave to someone else

and also ... because He says I am ... cos .. yanno ... He is Da Big Man, His word is law

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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/24/2008 2:30:20 AM   
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my personal view on what makes a slave is like my personal view on the difference between submissive and slave.  Like the difference between letting someone drive my car, or turning over the title.

If i let someone drive my car, they are in total control of that car, how it is driven, where it is driven, etc.  But the car is still mine.  To me the difference is the difference between handing over the keys or handing over the title.  It's a matter of committment.



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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/24/2008 5:58:46 AM   
CelticPrince


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quote:

'cause He says so, silly


christina,

Damn, now why did I not think of that.

CP

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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/24/2008 6:04:01 AM   
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quote:

i'm owned, but we don't define me as a slave...i am their pet.....


lilsubl

Aha, A step away from the norm, but pet or slave by name, what makes you so?

CP

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RE: You're a Slave // how so? - 6/24/2008 6:06:34 AM   
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quote:

I am His property and just like miss blushy said......... because He said so!


*hmmmm hope He doesn't have to pay property taxes on me!*


Angel,

I suggest you check the city/town property records, he may be in arrears and then you may get sold!

CP

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RE: You're a Slave // how so? - 6/24/2008 6:13:12 AM   
CelticPrince


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quote:

Hello to the OP -
I don't mean to be snippy here, but this is an old question... but the best answer I've ever seen was this:

If she's mine, she's a slave, if she's yours, she's a sub....

There is some arbitrary line that is noted as the difference between the two... but it is a different line for each person.

best,
sunshine


sunshine,

These forums are a placee where the old becomes now. Just ask LA, the resident librarian. Each day CM takes in about 5 to 7 new members to partisipate on the boards..

Of course there is an individual difference for each relationship, but there is a commonality somewhere.

CP

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RE: You're a Slave // how so? - 6/24/2008 6:16:18 AM   
CelticPrince


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quote:

Sir answered it like this, and I am in agreement with Him
Softness is a slave because
1) she says she is, and means it.
2) she is willing to give her rights, including her right to be right
3) she is clear that her real limits are her Owners limits and that her limits are actually requests and not limits at all.

these things define me as a slave in the context of my relationship with Dark Victory .. they won't work if I was a slave to someone else

and also ... because He says I am ... cos .. yanno


softness,

Now there is a reflection that is well said and reflective of a mindset.
Thanks for your input.

CP

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RE: You're a Slave // how so? - 6/24/2008 6:29:18 AM   
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What softness said.


wish i had said it that way

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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/24/2008 8:21:01 AM   
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quote:

In essence beyound saying "He/She owns me" What defines you as a slave?


perspective.
 
this slave's and others' who would use that term to define "who she is", regardless of ownership status.

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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/24/2008 8:26:18 AM   
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I call Master, Master but i am a sub not a slave.

I am his sub because it is something we both wanted me to be.

Matt's littleone

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RE: You're a Slave // how so? - 6/24/2008 10:08:23 AM   
CelticPrince


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quote:

What softness said.


kiwi,

I do agree, concise and to the point!

CP

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