Madame4a
Posts: 2045
Joined: 2/4/2008 From: Washington, DC area Status: offline
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You live in an area with at least one, maybe more, active groups -- get offline... go to meetings, workshops, and events -- munches too.. meet FRIENDS and then, perhaps if you're damned lucky, you'll find someone that might work for you... the internet isn't the worst place to do this, but its not the greatest... quote:
ORIGINAL: CagedBird1980 Two part question: i am very new and i want to get into this lifestyle the right way. i feel it's something one shouldn't just jump into without knowing what it is first. The more i learn the more interested i become. i am ready to begin looking for a trainer. Is there any advise on where to look for a proper trainer or what to look for in a proper trainer? Also, i had begun a conversation online with a female Dom, supposedly. i began to get uncomfortable and expressed this to Her, she was completely rude about it. Demanding little things of me already like, no sex with anyone or shaving until she would be in town in over a month! Did i do the right thing by following my gut or are some Doms like that until they finally meet the sub in person? i really hope this doesn't sound as stupid as it does to me! lol
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You're crazy bitch But you f*ck so good, I'm on top of it When I dream, I'm doing you all night Scratches all down my back to keep me right on
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