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tsatske -> RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave (6/27/2008 12:02:58 PM)

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Yes please read the whole story before answering this.  There are some on here that are reading nd responding but haven't read a response I had posted about that slave/sub.  I am sure it will become clearer to them not to spek without knowing the whole story first.  GO BACK AND READ MY RESPONSE FROM YESTERDAY.  Then give advise.


Are you saying that you approached complete strangers that you had never met, without any indication from them that they were interested, and, and - THEY DIDN'T OBEY YOU?

Wow. who'da thought?



LadyRainfire -> RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave (6/27/2008 12:04:14 PM)

Excuse me, but back story or not, I did give a serious answer in the first paragraph of my response to you. In addition, there is a serious suggestion in the second one as well, to ask in the Gorean forums since you were specifying specfically male dominants.

[sm=dunno.gif]  I tried.....Could add more but the OP doesn't sound like he wants to listen.



RedMagic1 -> RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave (6/27/2008 12:19:39 PM)

I have no experience with online collars.  I just figured I should post because I had the proper physical equipment.



Lynnxz -> RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave (6/27/2008 12:20:22 PM)

*velcros a collar onto RedMagic*



kaylana -> RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave (6/27/2008 12:21:09 PM)

hello A/all,
i am the slave he is speaking off.. he does not own anyother girls and i am not owned in any shap or form by anyone... he is asking about this b/c ive agreed to start letting him have some controll over me. OL and in RL, yes we are meeting in 2 weeks and that will be the real test, but im in chats alot and i wouldnt mind an OL collar letting everyone knwo i was his. And for some people being collard online is a big thing... ive seen it... when people are real on line and are themselfs it can be a huge deal! so well i hope this si cleard a bit up, thank you for reading!



LadyRainfire -> RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave (6/27/2008 12:23:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

I have no experience with online collars.  I just figured I should post because I had the proper physical equipment.


Ummmmmm, maybe I should have Greedy or Tulip check the parts, RM? [:D]



Madame4a -> RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave (6/27/2008 12:23:23 PM)

oh thank god you showed up.. I am feeling MUCH better now... I'm sure the OP is too

[:D]


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

I have no experience with online collars.  I just figured I should post because I had the proper physical equipment.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave (6/27/2008 12:27:40 PM)

Well if you both want some pretty shiny thing to show how cool you are and give you a cyber thing to brag about in cyber land, then go for it.  Cyber approval and social connections seem to be pretty good for you both, so align your priorities to that.

Although I have to say the real test is after living together two years having your lameass roommate move out but leave his stuff around for a month necessitating a move for yourself as well with your mom halfway across the country needing emergency surgery the week before she was supposed to come visit happen in the same week you start a deeply intense exercise initiative along with your partner having major board meetings to prepare for.

A first visit?  That's a kinky vacation.  I'm not trying to suggest that offline is more "real" than online, I think the experiences and feelings you have are as real as anything- simply that what you perceive as "test" and trials and tribulations are on a completely DIFFERENT scale than what I deal with. 

So for you having an online ticker next to your profile is a big deal and will mean a lot, to me it is meaningless and shows you care more about looking cool and having a symbol more than actually putting a commitment to that symbol.



RedMagic1 -> RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave (6/27/2008 12:28:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyRainfire
Ummmmmm, maybe I should have Greedy or Tulip check the parts, RM? [:D]

Um, well, I'm such a fickle bitch.  I've got a scene in my head right now with me, Lynx and Madame4a.  And all I can say is, "Yum."



Lynnxz -> RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave (6/27/2008 12:29:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

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ORIGINAL: LadyRainfire
Ummmmmm, maybe I should have Greedy or Tulip check the parts, RM? [:D]

Um, well, I'm such a fickle bitch.  I've got a scene in my head right now with me, Lynx and Madame4a.  And all I can say is, "Yum."



[sm=angel.gif]



LadyRainfire -> RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave (6/27/2008 12:35:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

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ORIGINAL: LadyRainfire
Ummmmmm, maybe I should have Greedy or Tulip check the parts, RM? [:D]

Um, well, I'm such a fickle bitch.  I've got a scene in my head right now with me, Lynx and Madame4a.  And all I can say is, "Yum."



[sm=angel.gif]


Why do I have ICHC's "nom, nom, nom, nom, nom, nom, nom, nom, nom" going through my head?

/hijack



Madame4a -> RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave (6/27/2008 12:36:54 PM)

I'm in but do you know how to say this:

[sm=yesmistress.gif]

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyRainfire
Ummmmmm, maybe I should have Greedy or Tulip check the parts, RM? [:D]

Um, well, I'm such a fickle bitch.  I've got a scene in my head right now with me, Lynx and Madame4a.  And all I can say is, "Yum."




KatyLied -> RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave (6/27/2008 12:38:52 PM)

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when people are real on line


Okay that's a funny oxymoron.



Lynnxz -> RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave (6/27/2008 12:41:28 PM)

*Noms on Rain*



Daes -> RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave (6/27/2008 12:42:51 PM)

I'd give the guy a break.

Trying to move from online to rl creates a lot of confusion and misconception.

The online bdsm community tends to operate a differently as far as protocol and relationships go. Many are stuck in a fantasy world and trying to figure out How to work it into the Real world can be very confusing for someone who lacks experience but wants to gain such experience but has no one to go off of or give quality advice.

It's like breaking old habits and learning what you thought you knew from scratch alone.

Like I said, cut him some slack.



Leatherist -> RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave (6/27/2008 12:57:17 PM)

I think's it's a silly idea too.



RedMagic1 -> RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave (6/27/2008 12:57:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Madame4a

I'm in but do you know how to say this:

[sm=yesmistress.gif]


Mmmmmaybe.[;)]  You'll have to work on Lynx though.  She doesn't like me "that" way.  It's too bad, because she's one of the smartest posters on the message boards, so I'm smitten.



Leatherist -> RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave (6/27/2008 1:00:17 PM)

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ORIGINAL: pr5sa1

Yes please read the whole story before answering this.  There are some on here that are reading nd responding but haven't read a response I had posted about that slave/sub.  I am sure it will become clearer to them not to spek without knowing the whole story first.  GO BACK AND READ MY RESPONSE FROM YESTERDAY.  Then give advise.

Thank you.



Dude, stuff like this resides in "the fantasy realm".  Don't expect a lot of sympathy or slack from those of us who have had collared flesh under our hands for REAL.



LaTigresse -> RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave (6/27/2008 1:02:55 PM)

Mmmmmmmmm, no. I am not going to cut him any slack. 



LordODiscipline -> RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave (6/27/2008 1:04:10 PM)

Male dominant's point of view:
 
I agree with the female dominants and the female submissives:
 
This sitiation is screwed.
 
Try getting to know her a bit in real life - ensure she is not attached - do not go after this collaring like your sex life was depending on it; but go after it like your world mattered more than a piece of tail (which incidentally sounds like it is just bringing trouble your way).
 
Just a suggestion from a male dominant POV
 
~J

quote:

ORIGINAL: pr5sa1

Is there any male doms that can give me their point of view?

A fem Doms POV is really different, and while I thank them for there advice I am looking for a male masters response.

Thnk you.




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