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What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others whe... - 7/2/2008 5:31:27 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		: When we met I told him I was monogomous, and in a way I am, because I woudn't out an out fuck someone else when I have a SO, and I do not want others joining our relationships full time, their only rolew in our relationship would be fuck budies, not partners but I would enjoy and I am wired to enjoy playing with others, in ways that does not include fucking. Ie fingering an sex toys and such.  So would I be half way monogomous? How would you lable that?
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RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others... - 7/2/2008 5:34:30 PM   
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RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others... - 7/2/2008 5:37:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		That'd work, but swingers typically are out to have sex with others outside their relationship or swap partners, from what I understand.

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RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others... - 7/2/2008 5:39:13 PM   
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RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others... - 7/2/2008 5:42:56 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		holly, no need to slap a lable on per say, but It does help to have a word to explain what you are, of course I could just say I don't fuck others when in a relationship but I do seek to play outside my relationship lol.

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RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others... - 7/2/2008 5:42:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		no, swingers differentiate between soft swapping and hard swapping. (I think that's what they call it) A soft swap would include everything up to but not "intercourse".

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RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others... - 7/2/2008 5:51:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		this could also spark an interesting conversation an thought from others, if people let it, an that'd be good:)

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RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others... - 7/2/2008 7:57:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		For me it's still sex- so you'd simply be non monogamous.

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RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others... - 7/2/2008 8:07:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		What do I call someone who wont fuck? A wasted date LOL.

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RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others... - 7/2/2008 8:10:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		Im with LA, its still nonmonogamous. Sex is sex, even if it isnt penis penetration, fingering and toys are stil sex.
So, I'd call it, if a lable was needed, open relationship.


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RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others... - 7/2/2008 8:21:39 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		I don't consider it sex more like sex acts. yeah open relationship is good.

And I'd also clarify, if I was seeking again, that while I am sexually active with others I am NOT polly, and that there's a diffrence lol.
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Im with LA, its still nonmonogamous. Sex is sex, even if it isnt penis penetration, fingering and toys are stil sex.
So, I'd call it, if a lable was needed, open relationship.



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RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others... - 7/2/2008 8:26:48 PM   
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I say whatever arrangements you`re comfortable with is just fine,whatever they`d be or how you label them.

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RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others... - 7/2/2008 8:29:58 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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You have the most interesting posts.


I say whatever arrangements you`re comfortable with is just fine,whatever they`d be or how you label them.


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RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others... - 7/2/2008 8:52:20 PM   
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: When we met I told him I was monogomous, and in a way I am, because I woudn't out an out fuck someone else when I have a SO, and I do not want others joining our relationships full time, their only rolew in our relationship would be fuck budies, not partners but I would enjoy and I am wired to enjoy playing with others, in ways that does not include fucking. Ie fingering an sex toys and such.  So would I be half way monogomous? How would you lable that?


Around the swinger world that's called soft swapping, assuming its ok for your partner to do the same. I see it a lot with BDSM couples as well where the partners may do scenes with others but not have sex with anyone but their partner.

Worrying about what to call it seems pretty irrelevant except as a shorthand way to tell others what you're about.

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RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others... - 7/2/2008 8:55:59 PM   
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RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others... - 7/2/2008 9:19:04 PM   
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RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others... - 7/2/2008 9:43:32 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		or how about you say sexually non monogomous but emotionally you are monogomous? Or would that just confuse the whole issue. I guess I could just say I don't fuck people I'm not dating but I do play with others outside my relationship lol.

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RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others... - 7/2/2008 9:46:07 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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ORIGINAL: Bethnai

I have to do this. I can't help it and I know its not funny, but it is killing me.

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RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others... - 7/2/2008 9:50:57 PM   
Bethnai


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RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others... - 7/2/2008 10:24:30 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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