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ORIGINAL: boyforyouruse

So what I'm getting at is this. I don't for one feel these guys are really looking to submit to anyone. So why are they here? If they have NO interest in power exchange, as the very thought of a woman daring to give them an order is just SOOOOOoooo insulting, why make a profile as a submissive, and why come to a POWER EXCHANGE website? How did they ever think "this website seems like the kind of place to find what I'm looking for" when they post later how disgusted they are with everyone who responds, etc. What makes men so angry at their own desires, and act like a complete ass when someone calls them out on their anger issues?

.. (and why do they have to pollute our forums with it! :P)

Do they have an anger issue when they don't want to accept what you see as sound advice?  I don't really know.  It might be they're simply not ready to hear it until they've finished venting or have first received whatever it was they were looking for when they posted; whether it be validation, empathy or something else.

I'll also say that it's my sense there are just as many frustrated and angry dominant women here as there are genuinely submissive males.  It's been my observation that some women allow very little room for a man to be human when corresponding with them.  If he makes any kind of faux pas by making an incorrect assumption, saying the wrong thing, or misses something in their last message that was obviously implicit to the woman but not to him, then in their mind, he's a fake or a loser and not their idea of a "twue submissive"; he's just another disappointment for them to angrily tell how he's failed to prove himself and to hit the road.

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ORIGINAL: boyforyouruse
I think its more common to see on the message boards as I don't think these guys would be crude enough to say these things in real life, and its almost always posted from an empty profile with no pictures / information (Or possibly the moderators delete/warn them). I'm referring to posts from "submissive" males who seem VERY angry at women in general, but especially at a certain request that a dominant woman they've been speaking to requests them to do. They post some introductory message "It can't be right for a female dom to order me to do X!".

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave

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ORIGINAL: boyforyouruse

So what I'm getting at is this. I don't for one feel these guys are really looking to submit to anyone. So why are they here? If they have NO interest in power exchange, as the very thought of a woman daring to give them an order is just SOOOOOoooo insulting, why make a profile as a submissive, and why come to a POWER EXCHANGE website? How did they ever think "this website seems like the kind of place to find what I'm looking for" when they post later how disgusted they are with everyone who responds, etc. What makes men so angry at their own desires, and act like a complete ass when someone calls them out on their anger issues?

.. (and why do they have to pollute our forums with it! :P)

First, I'd like to say that when a submissive starts a discussion with a dominant woman, I don't believe he should feel obligated to act submissive toward her until they've both agreed there's going to be a power exchange between them.  I'd be very put off if a woman I approached expected my submission without our first establishing a connection and some kind of rapport.  Would I waste my time posting about it?  No.  However, some might need a place to vent or look for either empathy or validation, so I can see why they might choose to post about their disappointments or frustrations. 
 
Do they have an anger issue when they don't want to accept what you see as sound advice?  I don't really know.  It might be they're simply not ready to hear it until they've finished venting or have first received whatever it was they were looking for when they posted; whether it be validation, empathy or something else.
 
I'll also say that it's my sense there are just as many frustrated and angry dominant women here as there are genuinely submissive males.  It's been my observation that some women allow very little room for a man to be human when corresponding with them.  If he makes any kind of faux pas by making an incorrect assumption, saying the wrong thing, or misses something in their last message that was obviously implicit to the woman but not to him, then in their mind, he's a fake or a loser and not their idea of a "twue submissive"; he's just another disappointment for them to angrily tell how he's failed to prove himself and to hit the road.
 
If only everyone could remember, we're all human on both sides of the coin instead of the perfect people that only exist in the world of fantasies...
 
 - pixel

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ORIGINAL: shivermetimbers

Not that I condone the whining and angry posts some put up, but playing devil's  advocate here, perhaps it's the fact there isn't a Top/bottom designation for people to choose.  Some people aren't looking to submit, some aren't really looking to dominate.

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ORIGINAL: joyinslavery

I'm so glad I didn't miss anything.  These are, afterall, very important topics to be discussed.

Good to be back. 

Have fun.