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KnightofMists -> RE: Are slaves allowed opinions (11/13/2005 4:20:36 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Belladonna82
Greetings Master,Mistress and fellow slaves.....
Through out my postings with people on here and my r/t experiences people get angry that Master allows me opinions...yes Master always has the final say but my opinions are always kept in mind.Recently on anouther board someone said that i was not a slave for simple fact Master allows me certain freedoms...like a opinion( as long as before i voice it i talk to him about it) and the ability to put my two cents in the outside world conversations as long as done politely and with hard facts. Yet they say a slave is only a little person on her hands and knees all the time....i belive this to be wrong...anyones elses thought would be greatly welcomed.
Blessed be,
bella
ironically... much of the discussion on who should post on the various boards is very much related to what bella is asking.....
I think only a fool would consider that any particular person as no right of an opinion. Are slaves allowed and opinion... well they are people.... so of course they are allowed an opinion.
The question comes thou... it what manner do we or slaves (with regards to bella's OP) express this opinion. the How of it, the when of it, the where of it... the what of it and even maybe why are we expressing this opinion.
The slaves in general are controlled by the Masters... each time they express there opinion... not only does their specific opinion get evaluated by those that hear it... but the manner that it is expressed. We each have our own specific style of expression. Yes some like myself can express things in very saracastic and in your face style, Or I can just as easily express in a more accomadating manner for further conversation. Our manner of express can become deeply emotional and passionate to the point of irrational and inconsistency.... to a very logical and cold icy directness. All these mannerism will have an effect on the effectiveness of communicating our opinion that is expressed.
We also must appreciate that we will be in various states of mind when listening or reading the opinions expressed by others. Sometimes the mannerism used by another in expressing there opinion may not affect us... but the next time it just might annoy us or more. Even here (ask the Master form), some are annoyed by other slaves/subs responding to posts in this form.
Now since this is a controlled form of expression by collarme and they choose not to enforce this view point that only Masters respond in this group ask a Masters and they are consistently not enforcing in such behavior in other forms on this site. It seems foolish to argue about it one has a right to post or not to post in any specific forms when the ones in control are not restricting these postings.
bella I chuckle that a Masters says "your not a slave becuase your master allows certain freedoms" It is actually a poorly phrased comment on his part. Firstly... key words... "your Master allows" this immediately implies that your Master makes the decision to allow it or not allow it. This decision could be a conscious one or even subconsciously made... but the fact is... this supposed Master acknowledge that your Master allowed it... not that you do the freedom to do it. Secondly, the use of freedom was poorly used... the proper word should of been priviledge...."your not a slave because your Masters allows your certain priviledges"... for in essense that is what he is saying.... but the logic is completely silly on his part. Thirdly, I suspect he does not agree that your Master allows you specific priviledges... likely he himself wouldn't allow these priviledges to his slave, but that doesn't not make you a slave. It just makes you different that how he likes a slave to behave, and he unfairly judged you beyond the facts of the situation.
Frankly, bella... if my girls behaved the way you have on the boards, they would be ripped into harshly. This is not to say that your behaviour is unacceptable or inappropriate... but it is not the manner to which my slaves will behave! My standards are different not better... they are judged by my standard no one elses!
However, we all will make judgements of others on the content of what they say... the mannerisms of how they express it. My standards like everyone is different. I am open to much latitude in the ways another may express themself. I laugh when someone attempts to slight me or ditch me... for it has no effect... I do not give others that power so easily. but none the less... I do appreciate well thought out opinions that are deeply considered and expressed, Even if such an opinion is different than mine. If fact I enjoy reading those posts most of all.... I search from them always... for it is those posts that will cause me to grow beyond who I am...and not those posts that all say what I already agree with.
So,,,, it is not a question of if slaves are allowed an opinion.... It is how they express it! no different than anyone.
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