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RE: F/m Power Exchange - Is it a Given? - 7/16/2008 2:16:34 PM

LadyIce

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I have zero problem with Stacey or her style.
But then I am fairly acceptable of different styles and individual kinks.
If Stacey likes to call herself a bitch,
So what?
She has that right, I see people on here call themselves bitches, sluts and whores all the time.
Stacey has a right to be Stacey.
I commend you on your post.

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RE: F/m Power Exchange - Is it a Given? - 7/16/2008 4:03:59 PM

StaceyTheBitch

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ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

Stacey: Welcome to the forums. For my own part, I apologize if I mischaracterized you and/or was rude to you.

Elan.

Thank you.

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ORIGINAL: LadyIce

If Stacey likes to call herself a bitch...

My friends are the ones who gave me the name "Stacey the Bitch."
It fits so I use it.
I don't have a picture of me all decked out in leather. I only have vanilla pictures like the one I have posted.
All my pictures make me look all sweet. If I try to look mean or serious I just look stupid.
So I decided to use the name my friends jokingly gave me as my profile name so people wouldn't get the wrong idea.
I didn't want people on collarme thinking I was some soft sweet fluffy girl that couldn't possible be a Domme.

It's true I look all sweet
but you'll find I can take the heat
It's true I don't look like a Dominant
but you'll find I can be quite prominent

So if me you wish to attack
beware I may give YOU a smack
So if me you don't like to engage
then ignore me when I'm on stage

Here I am posting on collarme
and the jibs and jabs don't bother me
Still it's nice when some are kind
for your words I do not mind

Stacey is a Bitch you see
Stacey is a pain maybe
but Stacey underneath is really sweet
and for a friend Stacey can't be beat

Stacey

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RE: F/m Power Exchange - Is it a Given? - 7/16/2008 4:07:34 PM

leadership527

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Sweetie? It is NOT all about you. Honest. And once you figure that out, maybe we will start listening to you.

Actually, I find it rather amusing that it IS all about Stacey. She's managed to generate quite a bit of buzz in her 11 days on this site.... including this thread.

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ORIGINAL: StaceyTheBitch
I do wonder why people use the term power exchange so loosely when referring to Domme/ male subs interactions. I find that many times in dealing with men I have all the power to begin with and there is no exchange. I guess many are referring to the fact men are usually bigger and stronger thus they are giving you the ability to control them. That doesn't fly in today's society. There are many ways for a women to counter a mans size and strength.

Gosh, I dont' know, I suppose it depends on what you're looking for. In theory, I have all the power in my marriage. Then again, my wife/slave could crush my heart with two simple words, "Go Away". Once love (or at least some sort of strong and mutual feeling of caring) enters the picture, words like "power" become tenuous to the point of being a mirage overlaying the real truth. On the other hand, for short-term relationships (let's define that as ones expected to go less than 7 years), I can easily see how a woman could parlay her looks (or a man, his money), into some definite power... until it wore thin. Short-term and shallow incentives work for short-term and shallow relationships.

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RE: F/m Power Exchange - Is it a Given? - 7/16/2008 4:22:49 PM

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At the kind request of My dear friend, I will participate here no more.

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RE: F/m Power Exchange - Is it a Given? - 7/16/2008 7:27:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

At the kind request of My dear friend, I will participate here no more.

Likewise.

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RE: F/m Power Exchange - Is it a Given? - 7/16/2008 8:42:20 PM

slvemike4u

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I just love the poetry...okay i have a thing for the picture too

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RE: F/m Power Exchange - Is it a Given? - 7/21/2008 8:16:50 PM

BoiJen

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

That's for sure, LP! (I think I will come to you, though, all we have here for excitement is Boijen, and she's already claimed! )

I actually had the pleasure of meeting boijen and MsK at SELF last month. I have to tell you that I enjoyed their company very much. I always enjoy meeting people from the boards who I have grown to admire. They were both a real delight.

It is all about me...except when it's not. It just so happens that I've been busy again.

I just wanted to say I am not the only one who brings excitement to the area...there are many who contribute (few really cuz I'ma picky boi) to the fun and mischief I have.

PS. LadyPact is fun too!

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