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RE: -=Top 10 BDSM FAQs For Doms & Subs=- - 7/14/2008 12:58:58 PM

batshalom

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I don't get a lot of questions but I do get a lot of "Shalom, daughter of peace - I would love to talk with you" one-liners.

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RE: -=Top 10 BDSM FAQs For Doms & Subs=- - 7/14/2008 3:30:57 PM

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Actually RS, you have a couple on your list that are also on Mine. However, Mine are usually more geared to the term "sensual sadist", which I use quite often. Here are some others.

1. What does it mean when you say you are poly?
To Me, it means that I can love more than one person, and don't expect one person to fill all of My needs.

2. Are you taking on new submissives?
No. It's rare that I take anyone as a submissive until there's been a period where I have had them as a bottom and gotten to know them better as a person. Much like other people "date" before they enter into a committed relationship. You don't meet someone one day and make them your spouse the next.

3. What do you mean when you say "play" or "scene"?
For Me, it doesn't mean sex. It means I'm going to inflict sensations on you until I am satisfied. Usually, it has something to do with a pain related activity.

4. Do you really want to hurt me? (Sorry to Boy George and Culture Club)
Yes, as a matter of fact, I do. I happen to prefer if you like being hurt, but taking pain, just because I want you to, can be fun as well.

5. Why do you say in your profile that you're not interested in people in other places?
Because, other than friendship, there is nothing you can offer Me that I can not get from the bottoms right here in meatlife. Please take note of number 4 above. If you're on the other coast, chances are that My want to express My sadism isn't happening with you, and I would prefer to spend My time pursuing what makes Me happy.

6. Is that really you in the pictures? (This one happens a lot.)
Yes, it is Me. Sometimes, when I'm in a less that favorable mood, I tell people it isn't. Instead, I tell them that I've put up pics of the actress I've hired to play Me at parties.

7. Do you really believe in all that leather/BDSM/lifestyle stuff.
Yes, I do. I'm not saying you have to. I just do what works for Me.

(Since there were a couple that were the same, last but not least....)

8. Why do you do the "Caps" thing?
It has largely to do with the fact that it is a directive that I have given My sub in his written words. When he writes to Me or posts on this site, he has been told to use this style of writing. It is a reminder of his submission to Me. Though not the norm, it is to help reinforce his place in a D/s dynamic. I can not ask it to be important to him, if it is also not important to Me.

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RE: -=Top 10 BDSM FAQs For Doms & Subs=- - 7/14/2008 4:08:31 PM

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I don't consider these a top 10 FAQ, but they are my top ten One Liners, copied as is directly from my mail that I've received in the last couple days:

1)      Do you like black cock
Answer: In answer to the prolific requests asking the same question, "DO YOU LIKE BLACK COCK" I will have to say I don't care what color it is. Unless the package comes with a little more depth and class than that, all it is good for is stock and gumbo.

To all you trolls, Bon Apetite!

2)      I want to see you tonight, get back to me as soon as you receive this message.
Answer: no response from me.
3)      i would love to clean your puss oral after you have sex
Answer: If I had puss after sex....I'd be horrified...
No Puss here...Drugs and Disease free thank you very much.
      (Yes I was being deliberately obtuse on this one.)
4)      My yahoo ID is xxxxxxx – ad me
Answer: No response from me.
5)      I’ve never been jealous of a thumb before
I actually liked this one, thought it was charming.
6)      DAMN YOU SEXY How are you?
I wasn't sure if he was cursing me or complimenting me. Misplaced comma and all.
7)      You seem nice,
Wasn't sure how to take that, since he left the sentence hanging. Was it a compliment? Was he implying I SEEM nice but....? Pfft
8)      Hello submissive,
Umm yeah....
9)      Phone play?
Umm...no
10)   44 dom from xxxxxx seeking a true sub for real time and long term im not here for games or bs im real and serious

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RE: -=Top 10 BDSM FAQs For Doms & Subs=- - 7/14/2008 6:51:43 PM

DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

(evidently many men have not moved beyond their junior high breast infatuation phase).

I'm not moving past it until I want to. I'm a Dom, after all.

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RE: -=Top 10 BDSM FAQs For Doms & Subs=- - 7/14/2008 6:54:17 PM

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i would love to clean your puss oral after you have sex

omg....i got this one yesterday!!!! And to think i thought i was special...i'd already picked out baby names and everything.......not sure i'll be able to go on.

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RE: -=Top 10 BDSM FAQs For Doms & Subs=- - 7/14/2008 7:01:36 PM

DarkSteven

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If it's a boy, "Steven" is a fine nasculine name.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: -=Top 10 BDSM FAQs For Doms & Subs=- - 7/14/2008 7:21:46 PM

lronitulstahp

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Seven is better...Mickey Mantles jersey number
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RE: -=Top 10 BDSM FAQs For Doms & Subs=- - 7/14/2008 9:00:50 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

(evidently many men have not moved beyond their junior high breast infatuation phase).

I'm not moving past it until I want to. I'm a Dom, after all.

Fuck, no.

I mean....really....their great.

Their all warm and squishy and they adequately mold to fit your hand for proper holding.

They are like Silly Putty that gives me an erection, but I can't copy Garfield comics into.

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RE: -=Top 10 BDSM FAQs For Doms & Subs=- - 7/15/2008 4:31:16 AM

summersprite

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Most one liners to me say:

'Great tits'
or.....'Great tits'
or.....'Great tits'

well.....you get the idea. Serves me right for putting a cleavage shot on here I guess - lol.

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RE: -=Top 10 BDSM FAQs For Doms & Subs=- - 7/15/2008 4:33:19 AM

Aileen1968

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Hey...nice tits.

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RE: -=Top 10 BDSM FAQs For Doms & Subs=- - 7/15/2008 5:53:14 AM

ResidentSadist

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quote:

ORIGINAL: summersprite
Most one liners to me say:

'Great tits'
or.....'Great tits'
or.....'Great tits'

well.....you get the idea. Serves me right for putting a cleavage shot on here I guess - lol.

Hell... that cleavage shot even makes me wanna' stop and say... nice puppies!

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RE: -=Top 10 BDSM FAQs For Doms & Subs=- - 7/15/2008 10:16:06 AM

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nobody ever emails me with the 'nice tits' comment *sigh*

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RE: -=Top 10 BDSM FAQs For Doms & Subs=- - 7/15/2008 10:17:10 AM

abcbsex

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

nobody ever emails me with the 'nice tits' comment *sigh*

well now that you said it, I can expect your inbox will be pretty hefty with 'nice tits' comments [:P]

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but it needed to be at least.... four times bigger.

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RE: -=Top 10 BDSM FAQs For Doms & Subs=- - 7/15/2008 10:30:27 AM

leakylee

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yeah, what about the nice udders and oh the so classy, do you lacate?

gotta love the tact!!

do boobs lower the thinking process somedays??

lol

lee

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RE: -=Top 10 BDSM FAQs For Doms & Subs=- - 7/15/2008 11:40:39 AM

ResidentSadist

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop
nobody ever emails me with the 'nice tits' comment *sigh*

Dear Resident Asstart,
Is it because your inbox is overflowing with nice ass comments? Maybe if you would put a pic of your nice tits up instead of that one blurry photo, you would become a Nippletart.

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RE: -=Top 10 BDSM FAQs For Doms & Subs=- - 7/15/2008 6:14:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

Actually an interesting thread but while i was seeking the most frequently asked questions were:

1) Do you like oral?
2) Do you like anal?
3) Are you Bi?
4) Do you have any more pics?
5) What is your yahoo or aol addy?

lmao!

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RE: -=Top 10 BDSM FAQs For Doms & Subs=- - 7/16/2008 2:54:14 AM

ResidentSadist

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ORIGINAL: VioletAshes
I would be interested to hear your thoughts on the definition of a Dominant versus a Master.

OK… I wrote those thoughts down long ago. Reviewing them today, I still subscribe to the intent.

A Dominant is the person who takes the superior position in a negotiated control relationship. Dominants can be either sex: Doms or Dommes.

A slave's Master is a man having control or authority (ownership) of a person that obeys him in a TPE. When referring to a "house" or "family" it means the male head of a household or a man who employs or holds a contract over another or others in his service

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RE: -=Top 10 BDSM FAQs For Doms & Subs=- - 7/16/2008 11:12:06 AM

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most asked, and least responded to questions we get...

1) I know it says "no men," but how about me?
(how about you... fried? boiled? Uhhh, that would be a no, asshat)

2) How old is that photo?
about a year, get over it, I haven't gained 3 lbs, although my hair is a bit shorter

3) Will you meet me without "him"
(sure buttmunch, just as long as you bring along your spouse, sig. other, mother, sister, you know, somebody for him to do the same thing that you want to do with me... remember that no men thing? )

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