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RE: Why don't men like BBW Dommes? - 12/10/2007 4:14:09 PM

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Well, I think this thread has gon on long enough, but just to put my $0.02 in...

THIS sub/switch prefers women who have some extra padding. I chaulk it up to growing up on the paintings of Frank Frazetta. The man loved women who have some curves, and some extra padding. If you don't think "zaftig" women can be sexy as all hell, just bop on over to his site, and really look at some of those women! "Egyptian Princess" especially. Perhaps one of the most copied images of his, so few men I've asked about it even notice that she's more than a bit on the chubby side. ;)

It was such a nice surprise to find that the women of my prefered body type are perhaps more sensual than their grayhound/airdale counterparts.

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RE: Why don't men like BBW Dommes? - 12/10/2007 4:19:41 PM

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Frazetta is great, as is Boris Vallejo and Olivia DeBerardinis. I love those images as well as those of the Impressionists.

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RE: Why don't men like BBW Dommes? - 12/10/2007 4:19:42 PM

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I have met so many great subs with hopes of getting to know them and the min I say I am a BBW poof they stop responding. Can't even send a messaging saying "Thanks but no thanks I'm not interested."

Almost makes a Domme say to hell with it all and just forget about it and go back to the vanilla lifestyle.

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I see a BBW who is big and BEAUTIFUL. I see a woman who has much to give and is dying to give it. Keep the faith. There are many who see the real person and not the skin they are in.
Self love is one of life's hardest lessons and one most people never learn.

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RE: Why don't men like BBW Dommes? - 12/10/2007 4:29:46 PM

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What I do not understand is why some of these so called 'subs' troll profiles and contact ones who say they are BBW and they become rude obnoxious and call the BBW Dommes bowling balls, porkers, lard ass, etc.. why do that bother to contact us KNOWING we are BBW. It just shows me that they are neither intelligent, submissive or real.. just losers looking for attention any way they can get it!

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RE: Why don't men like BBW Dommes? - 12/10/2007 4:43:04 PM

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quote:

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Miriah

I have met so many great subs with hopes of getting to know them and the min I say I am a BBW poof they stop responding. Can't even send a messaging saying "Thanks but no thanks I'm not interested."

Almost makes a Domme say to hell with it all and just forget about it and go back to the vanilla lifestyle.

Miriah

Look in the mirror. What do you see? Let me tell you what I see without even seeing you:
I see a BBW who is big and BEAUTIFUL. I see a woman who has much to give and is dying to give it. Keep the faith. There are many who see the real person and not the skin they are in.
Self love is one of life's hardest lessons and one most people never learn.

"A woman is never attractive to me if she doesn't have enough ass to set off a rat trap."--mistress pav

Really like the quote mistress pav! Well, if it's not one thing, it's another. I'm thick, juicy and bootylicious, but I'm not an "instant freak" (just add submissive (slave) who will pay for the hotel room). You win some, you lose some. I will continue to be extremely selective in whom I even chat with from this site, much less reply to their wild e-mails about how sexy a "goddess" I am, and how much they want to worship Me....Hah! I laugh everytime I read those lil pipsqeaks lies!

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RE: Why don't men like BBW Dommes? - 12/10/2007 5:43:15 PM

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Some men don't. Some men are also Christian right-wing weirdos.
I ask you, surely a greater size body means more weight (no offence intended) to throw around those puny subs with...
Am i right kids?

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RE: Why don't men like BBW Dommes? - 12/10/2007 5:50:41 PM

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You almost make the cut *mimkyodar*! Now if you were just 10 years older, 2 inches taller and weighed at least 200 lbs, I wouldn't pose a threat (figuratively speaking )to you or the lil' guys that like wide hips!

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RE: Why don't men like BBW Dommes? - 12/10/2007 5:53:14 PM

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I am a BBW and proud of it. To me BBW stands for Bountiful
Badass Woman. I am sexy and kinkier than kink.
Men who can not handle me do not deserve my notice.
Women who are full-figured should rule this planet
as we have more love to give and this world needs nothing
else added to it but love. Mistress Red

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RE: Why don't men like BBW Dommes? - 12/10/2007 5:55:09 PM

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Two inches taller? I'm already like 6 foot - 5'11...ish i havent measured height in a while.
I will agree about my need for weight though. YOu know how they say there's an obesity epidemic? I feel discriminated againt now. I want more fat!
I'm male, white, middle class, agnostic, and skinny. I can't pull any discrimation leverage.

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RE: Why don't men like BBW Dommes? - 12/10/2007 5:59:07 PM

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That's the way God made you! Learn to deal with it and love yourself for it. I LOVE EVERY JIGGLE, OUNCE AND BOUNCE GOD BLESSED ME WITH!!!

No offense to you though, I wouldn't give you an ounce of sweat for more weight! LOL!

I'm sure you'll meet your match here!

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RE: Why don't men like BBW Dommes? - 12/10/2007 6:03:49 PM

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Fingers crossed. Gotta live in hope.
I think the main thing is that people today can't equate big with beautiful.
And some big girls feel compelled to be the skinny things they see on telly.

There's this big girl who crushed on me back in school, she wore like corsets and stuff. If anything it made everyone unimpressed.
For eeveryones info, i didnt follow through because i found her personality annoying. Honest to God, i biffed my head against a metal column, out of sheer frustration just talking to her. Had nothing to do with her weight.

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RE: Why don't men like BBW Dommes? - 12/10/2007 7:53:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyChef

That's the way God made you! Learn to deal with it and love yourself for it. I LOVE EVERY JIGGLE, OUNCE AND BOUNCE GOD BLESSED ME WITH!!!

No offense to you though, I wouldn't give you an ounce of sweat for more weight! LOL!

I'm sure you'll meet your match here!

Just like that rap song (and I can't remember who sings it or the name) that says, "Every curve on my body got a story to tell."
And also someone's signature that went something like: "The naked body shows what we have survived."

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RE: Why don't men like BBW Dommes? - 12/11/2007 9:30:05 AM

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I know this subby prefers a BBW domme to one that's thin. There is just something so sexy about the curves, extra padding, and the way their clothes fit. What can I say? I like a little jiggle on the belly and thighs and a luscious bubble butt. I like being pinned under one and feeling her weight holding me down. Their skin is usually so soft, too. So to all the BBW dommes out there, you have plenty of admirers, including this subby.

Some people would consider Mistress a BBW, but to me She is just perfect. I just cannot wait for the day I can wrap my arms around Her and Her soft, luscious curves and place a kiss to Her thick, pouty lips. I'll be proud as a peacock to be seen with Her. She is beautiful in so many ways...plus, She has thighs I can't wait to feel wrap around my head and a hiney that I just wanna leave bite marks on!

***Ooops, that didn't sound very subby, did it?*** LOL

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RE: Why don't men like BBW Dommes? - 12/11/2007 11:47:54 AM

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Why don't they like skinny dommes?

Why don't they like fluffy ones?

Or ones who are too tall, too short-or who stick spinal tap needles through testicles? Maybe it's about what they like?

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RE: Why don't men like BBW Dommes? - 12/11/2007 12:24:09 PM

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A sub once told me that he wouldn't serve a large woman for a specific reason. His rationale was, why should he submit to Dommes who couldn't even control themselves. If a woman can't control her eating habits, and put in the effort to maintain her own weight in a healthy manner, then it didn't make sense for him to relinquish his control, himself, to her...

...I thought I'd throw it out there. I think it does have a little merit. What do you all think?

Yes, it has a little merit. But you get a big demerit for reviving this voluminous thread after 6 months...

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RE: Why don't men like BBW Dommes? - 12/11/2007 2:13:47 PM

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rubberpet has taught me to embrass my curves. After all I do turn heads on a regular basis. I've proven I can do anything my skinny friends could do and more. I'm more flexi than they are. Plus I'm soft and squishy, trust me its a plus.

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RE: Why don't men like BBW Dommes? - 12/11/2007 5:49:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressSybella

A sub once told me that he wouldn't serve a large woman for a specific reason. His rationale was, why should he submit to Dommes who couldn't even control themselves. If a woman can't control her eating habits, and put in the effort to maintain her own weight in a healthy manner, then it didn't make sense for him to relinquish his control, himself, to her...

...I thought I'd throw it out there. I think it does have a little merit. What do you all think?

What's eating have to do with it?
That's like saying that i lack self control because i don't eat enough - it's my super fast metabolism. That sub was wrong, in my opinion. But then again, why should anyone listen to me, for i know nothing. (That's a Monkees quote, fyi)

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RE: Why don't men like BBW Dommes? - 12/11/2007 7:15:46 PM

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No offense to any one person, but we are fast becoming a nation of seriously obese people. It is such an epidemic that we are now either pretending to, or we are actually becoming proud of how fat we are. I am sure some people have medical problems, etc, but honestly, a generation ago, we were not this fat. Most of us gain weight because we eat too much and move too little. Period. It is our lifestyle habits, not nature of god who put all this excess flab on our bodies. It's not healthy and it is not pretty. Having said all that, I need to knock three or four flabby inches off of my own beltline.

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RE: Why don't men like BBW Dommes? - 12/11/2007 7:18:33 PM

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Yeah and we are going to take over the world and kill all skinny people too. This is an old thread let it die.

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RE: Why don't men like BBW Dommes? - 12/11/2007 7:36:04 PM

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If we keep going the way we are, there aren't going to be any skinny people. At least not in the industrialized countries.

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