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RE: What helps You sleep? - 8/3/2008 5:53:27 AM   
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Melatonin, and that's pretty much it. I've tried lots of things over the years. Only thing that reliably works is the melatonin though. Benadryl makes me very very very hyper, never been quite sure why. Just that it does. Once my doctor tried remeron for the off-label drowsiness, I was not a fan of that to say the least. Didn't really end up sleeping any more at all. But it did make me feel weird. Never really found a pattern in my sleep habits, even after keeping a journal for a good 6 months. So my doctor basically just labeled it chronic sleep dysfunction.

First time I ever took it a friend gave it to me, with the advice "Don't make any plans". I took two. This was not bright. 24 hours later I woke up feeling FANTASTIC! The whole thing bothered me though and I didn't take it again until like 5 years later, and just dealt with my sleep habits. Started taking it again, and it works like a charm. However I do not take it every night, and try to use it still as little as possible as it is possible to avoid developing an addiction to it. Also for some it can be rough on the stomach. But when I absolutely positively need to conk myself out and get some rest, it's a godsend.

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RE: What helps You sleep? - 8/3/2008 6:40:56 AM   
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There are some excellent websites exclusively on this topic. I haven't been on them for a while, but if you're interested, let me know and I'll look up the ones that I thought were best.

One question: do you have trouble falling asleep to begin with, staying asleep, or both? Some people can't get to sleep, and others fall asleep easily, but keep on waking up all night. The causes and solutions are sometimes similar, but they can be very different.

Many people here have given good advice. There are a lot of widely accepted "do's and don'ts", and it's good to start by covering the basics. But after that, a lot of people still have problems. Very strenuous physical activity during the day (ending at least a few hours before bedtime) that really tires me out is what results in the best sleep for me. Orgasm helps, but I wonder if that's different for males and females.

Finally, (this can be unpleasant, so save it for a last resort) if all else fails, try reading an organic chemistry textbook. Worked almost every time when I was in college.

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RE: What helps You sleep? - 8/3/2008 7:18:27 PM   
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Reading. I can't sleep if I don't, and if I can't sleep anyway I read all night so at least my body gets some rest.

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RE: What helps You sleep? - 8/3/2008 11:33:09 PM   
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I have found that keeping my bedroom clean and uncluttered helps. I also use only very diffused light in there when I am getting ready to sleep. Aromatherapy can help quite a bit and it has the added bonus of making the space smell great. I saw that a couple of people have stated that magnesium supplements may help. I know that if your magnesium levels are too low, that will make anxiety worse. These have all been suggested to me by a couple of doctors when I was having insomnia and was unwilling to take medication for it.

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RE: What helps You sleep? - 8/4/2008 10:55:51 PM   
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I didn't see whether you have trouble just getting to sleep or staying there...

I have personally suffered from Insomnia since I was a teenager. at the moment, I take ambien to get to sleep, and vaious other medications to stay there. I would suggest however, that you try everything else possible before you go the medication route. Tolerances are a pain in the ass, and if you can get away with meditation or a workout, you will be far better off in the long run.

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RE: What helps You sleep? - 8/21/2008 9:29:19 AM   
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Insomnia: story of my life. Never had a sleep study done tho.

I have both types getting to sleep and staying asleep. ( dr have said they are two different insomnia conditions) Before my usually bedtime would generally land between 4 and 6 am.  Tried about every prescritpion drug out there some kind work some didnt, or would help one end of the insomnia and not take care of the other. Ambien I will never take again, I was one of those Ambien induced sleep walkers, and my kids told me way to may things I did while sleeping on this medication plus after a few hours when it loses effectiveness the cant stay asleep changed.

Medicatons has been changed and changed again, I do have severe panic disorder so my new dr increased the night dose to 2 mg. while I took 1 to .50 three times a day in a maintenance dose. Still woke up since taking  It on a regular basis it doesnt have that knock me out effect.

One thing he did that I have not seen mentioned was have me change my sleeping hours. They say the prime time to get recouprative sleep is from 8-9 pm to 5-6am, thats its the bodies natural hours to be most effective. I found it an intense challenge at first but moved to NYC and my sister is on the same sleep time ordered by her dr.  I have found having a specific bedtime or deadline gives me time to make my brain realise it. Thank god for DVR is all I can say.  The mental health professionals say it also helps to minimize depression and anxiety. Also dont put off taking your medications if you use them till you get tired, take them at the prime effectiveness time ie: the length of time it take to hit but dont overwait and ride it out or you took it for nothing.

Recently due to over stimulated stress causing alot of panic attacks which draws me into a shell that despite all that did seem to be helping under the new sleep hours, went to hell in a handbasket, could get to sleep after my medication which was 2 mg xanax, celexa and xyrtec ( allergy meds which btw have a strong sedative efffect) I was awake off and on throughout the night, tho I did make myself stay ion bed, I had alot of interesting daydreams if you will when your in that sorta tylight sleep where you inbetween, have now started acting and talking back to myself, that I attribute to meds combination. Which I can actually hear myself doing, I do get kicks from the bottom bunk where my sister sleeps tho telling me to STOP IT LOL I have work up with a bruised hand from apparently smacking someone ( which was actually part of the hardwood bed I was sleeping on) with  my back hand, tho with a bit of maso it was a proud bruise as is any LOL

Also when the depression gets to much which is generally triggered from all the panic attacks I find I just dont want to be awake during the day and would sleep the day away which didnt help the night sleep.

So I go to my dr 2 days ago, he takes me off everything but the xanax reduced the dose to 3 1 mg  a day for maintenance to keep attack down more) (...and no I dont over take them more likely to undertake them. They are meds not recreational at all) but not at night of all things. Only thing he left was the zyrtec for my allergies. And in a state of total shock instead of depression medications he has but me on Dexedrine time release for those that dont know that in essense is speed, So I feel like Im back in the 70's combining uppers and downers to soon to see if it will work, Im hesitant but agreed to try for 2 weeks. He said that the Dexedrine actually sometimes helps depression. He is a highly respected dr in New York and never gone this way but I will try......btw I was still up till 2am last night for the first time in months UGH and resorted to a horded xanax to finally get me the I think I can sleep stage.

Those whith chronic insomnia, I give all my best wishes to in finding something that works, for me its been a bouncing ball since my early 20's.  I dont know if having gone into total menopause early after 10 years of periomepause works in the mix but I will be sure and ask in two weeks.

In other words Im just a big mess, which for so long now seems quite normal.

Here to sleep when it comes.

ps please dont mind spelling ect, my mind and fingers refuse to listen to each other and even reading over still miss things, new computer which doesnt have an auto spell check, so spelling nazi's please be kind.

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RE: What helps You sleep? - 8/24/2008 10:57:50 AM   
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helps you sleep hmmmm. Orgasm. I'm serious check out some medical reasearch. All sorts of good things. And if youare into orgasm denial well then that's the price you pay



I would agree with this, I've tried herbal pills, all sorts, housework.  But simple climaxing, works and whilst I don't normally fall asleep during sexual activity, if I am having sex with a view to going off to sleep after, or masturbating, it does work, and with a smile on my face...


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RE: What helps You sleep? - 8/29/2008 10:49:57 PM   
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Benedryl - it may not be natural, but it helps me sleep and it is not habit forming. 

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RE: What helps You sleep? - 9/4/2008 6:50:05 PM   
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whisky and grass and a good wank worked for loads of rock stars
(im guessing on the wank)
not that im advocating illegal activity 
not that masturbation is (lol)


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RE: What helps You sleep? - 9/5/2008 6:09:47 AM   
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a good, hard, beat and fuck session, or smoking a joint usually does the trick.

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RE: What helps You sleep? - 9/8/2008 1:54:33 AM   
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my anti-depressant does wonders at helping me sleep- I was taking Effexor but now I take Celexa.....also, Valarian root helps you sleep well.

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RE: What helps You sleep? - 9/9/2008 5:08:37 PM   
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try lavender spray that helps. keep a steady sleep cycle dont go to bed at different hours. take time to destress yourself with a form of exercise, dont use the computer or tv before bed, the light will keep you up. orgasm does help.

if non of this works try MELATONIN. It is a wonderful sleep aid for those nights when no matter how much you orgasm you just cant sleep!

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RE: What helps You sleep? - 9/9/2008 5:10:34 PM   
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try lavender spray that helps. keep a steady sleep cycle dont go to bed at different hours. take time to destress yourself with a form of exercise, dont use the computer or tv before bed, the light will keep you up. orgasm does help.

if non of this works try MELATONIN. It is a wonderful sleep aid for those nights when no matter how much you orgasm you just cant sleep!



Do not do this exercise at night. It will wind you up. i sleep better with the white noise of a fan.

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RE: What helps You sleep? - 9/9/2008 5:11:58 PM   
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a good, hard, beat and fuck session, or smoking a joint usually does the trick.


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RE: What helps You sleep? - 9/9/2008 5:55:27 PM   
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I'm so glad I found this thread, cause I've been having seriously terrifying nightmares for the last few days. Going to go the all-natural method.

I have used Ambien in the past, and it worked. I can't take it anymore though. I went sleep-driving on it and crashed a car.


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