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RE: Submissives who lie to impress you or be compatible... - 8/19/2008 4:02:11 PM

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*sigh* I had one that lied to me for 15 years. Eventually, the truth does come out.

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RE: Submissives who lie to impress you or be compatible... - 8/19/2008 5:28:05 PM

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Akasha, it would hypocritical for me, a nick user, to advise anyone about what they should do. I don't have a black and white view of truth and understand that there are reasons why anyone here is not forthcoming with such information. I am comfortable with not judging others.

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RE: Submissives who lie to impress you or be compatible... - 8/20/2008 4:21:10 PM

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Lying to impress or appear compatible just reeks of desperation. Telling someone they are into something when they are not will only leave the one lied to disappointed when the truth comes out. Bad way to start off any type of relationship.

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RE: Submissives who lie to impress you or be compatible... - 8/20/2008 8:30:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: marsneedswomen
When reading from others that any lie, omission, or white lie, is wrong and then following it with a pseudonym strikes me as hypocritical. People tell white lies and use omission for various reasons and some are justified. The black and white crowd sort of loses a bit of their moral high ground when they don't adhere to their own rhetoric. It's a gray world and a little bit of acknowledgement of this would be good for everyone. Walk it like you write it people.

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Being anonymous is not being deceptive, which is what a lie really is. People here are being straight when they are withholding their real identities to protect their privacy.

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RE: Submissives who lie to impress you or be compatible... - 8/20/2008 8:54:11 PM

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In my experience, people who outright lie about their play interests make terrible submissives.

I had one guy say he was ALLLLLLL about CBT. Turns out he really just wanted to try to worship my ass. He was impossible to focus and a general asshole, and the session was cut short.

The puzzling thing is... there are tons of women out there who would be thrilled to have their asses worshiped. Why bother the women who clearly proclaim their lack of interest in that activity?

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RE: Submissives who lie to impress you or be compatible... - 8/20/2008 9:01:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: Coupleofwhats

The puzzling thing is... there are tons of women out there who would be thrilled to have their asses worshiped. Why bother the women who clearly proclaim their lack of interest in that activity?

Puzzling indeed. I may have to see a few photos of your ass to come to a firm conclusion on this matter.

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RE: Submissives who lie to impress you or be compatible... - 8/20/2008 9:56:53 PM

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Do you give submissives a second chance if they have lied to you - not about their marital status or anything like that, but fibs about their desires?

Akasha

I would say that's a bold and risk taking male. A dumb risk though.

He should get a strike not so much for the lie, but for the mere stupidity.

Eventually the truth comes out.

Those are two big strikes. One more could engender a permanent out.

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