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RE: The ability to let that which does not matter truly... - 8/25/2008 4:47:37 PM   
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I reiterate - capitals at the beginning of sentences, and paragraphs would make your posts way more easier to read. You lost me after the first paragraph, and you may actually have something to say - but i won't be reading it because its too hard to read.

Ahh - the profound surity of youth that what they have to say has such value.    Well, actually, it well might have value, but if no-one reads it then it doesn't do anyone any good!

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RE: The ability to let that which does not matter truly... - 8/25/2008 4:59:43 PM   
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i know of one person that is soooooooooo much of a control freak that he not only doesn't let anything slide, he's going to die trying to save the world...
as for me, i let a lot of things slide; it's what keeps me sane

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RE: The ability to let that which does not matter truly... - 8/25/2008 6:07:02 PM   
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 nor can I be a leader to all those who need guidance or a dominant to all the submissives who are lacking one.

i quit reading after that line. i've corrected enough English 101 papers to know what the rest would be. i'm with celticlord on this one ...  the wild hairy monkey sex is what's really important, lol.
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RE: The ability to let that which does not matter truly... - 8/25/2008 6:12:10 PM   
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anybody have the cliff's notes version?

OP.. really, as a few people have said...  paragraphs!!  

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RE: The ability to let that which does not matter truly... - 8/25/2008 6:28:38 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: oblige

Some people have a philosphical/ spiritual bent


Anyone who has read my posts knows I have a philosophical and spiritual bent.

Just not one for the pretentious.

Edited to Add : Or Messiah complexs...

< Message edited by MadRabbit -- 8/25/2008 6:54:36 PM >


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RE: The ability to let that which does not matter truly... - 8/26/2008 12:47:44 AM   
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I have been away for way too long, or could it be that I care way too little, anyway, I just won't even try to read this.  So I guess what I'm saying is that yes, I can let that which does not matter truly slide.

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RE: The ability to let that which does not matter truly... - 8/26/2008 1:05:02 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: phoenix92901

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bstardsbitch

I got bored after the second...erm...paragraph.
Can someone explain please?


Oh good... thought it was just me.

Lol no I don't think so...seems to be the general theme.
In answer to the post though. Yes the things that don't matter, let them go.

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RE: The ability to let that which does not matter truly... - 8/26/2008 9:43:37 PM   
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I think he is explaining that from the time of our youth, we are taught to believe what those older, "wiser", tell us.  Not to doubt, not to delve into something not shown to us.  And that, what we really need to remember is not to let the words of those who shun us affect us, not to doubt our desires, that which gives us pleasure, but to open our arms to it.  Embrace it.  A LARGE number of us involved in the "lifestyle" have gone through some pretty rough experiences in our time, and some have pushed BDSM out of their lives, because either they were hurt, or shunned because of it.  The key is not to give up on that which makes us happy, gives us pleasure, fullfills us.  I'm a big reader so I get into long posts all the time.  

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RE: The ability to let that which does not matter truly... - 8/27/2008 5:58:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: AdrianAllen
we are told how to love how to live how to fuck and think.

I missed that memo. Now, what if I've been doing it all wrong???

quote:


we are never able to find true balance or happiness in our lives.
we are never able to see our own value release ourselves from our anxieties or take pleasure in our humanity.
all that which you carry that slows your life brings you sadness and makes you tired and ashamed.

Assuming quite a lot about "we" unless "we" means you and the poet friend?
quote:


anal sex is spiritual,  

That, or it's just sex up the butt..  may be a perspective thing.

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RE: The ability to let that which does not matter truly... - 8/27/2008 6:32:08 AM   
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I skimmed through the OP and then read the responses. That made me wonder if the OP was really worthy of all the "snark". Soooo....I went back and read the OP....and then I read it again. (See, I really AM a masochist). On my second read through I realized that I recognize this. It's a distant memory for me though as I thought that LSD went out of style a whole bunch of years ago. What a trip dude!

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RE: The ability to let that which does not matter truly... - 8/27/2008 6:38:57 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

quote:

My primary reason for remaining active in the lifestyle is helping people.

I'm in it for the wild hairy monkey sex myself......




ooo...oooo...does this mean i can quit waxing??? whew!

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RE: The ability to let that which does not matter truly... - 9/5/2008 11:48:44 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

quote:

My primary reason for remaining active in the lifestyle is helping people.

I'm in it for the wild hairy monkey sex myself......



So we've got AA's primary reason.

And celticlord's primATEly reason.

= = =

AA:   No, you don't have "a knack for explanation".  You have desire to communicate, a good vocabulary...and a drive to pontificate.  To communicate you need to get people's attention; establish in their mind that the info will interest or be of value to them; proceed to make your points clearly and, one would hope, concisely.

I concur with the "your info won't help if people don't read it" comments.  And with the "briefer & with paragraph breaks" advice.  We have cultural ADD.  I'm a reader, but my eyes glazed & I didn't finish your screed.

I don't know if, after these comments, you followed through on your "will post daily on the same subject" plan.  Daily?  On the same subject?  Heck, even preachers give it a week and pick a different lesson.

Consider a blog.

Your headline caught my eye in the blue scroll box.  I've seen fight club but didn't connect it with your post. 

And to MonkeyOnTuesday: Very cool to have chosen your nic based, I'm supposing, on Penn's radio show / podcast.  Man, I miss that show.  Ah, to hear again...

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RE: The ability to let that which does not matter truly... - 9/5/2008 1:19:23 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mistoferin
....and then I read it again. (See, I really AM a masochist).


Okay, soda came out of my nose when I read that.  Ouch, but funny!  :)

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RE: The ability to let that which does not matter truly... - 9/5/2008 6:35:19 PM   
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Your ability to communicate would be greatly enhanced if you began using paragraphs. As is, the post is too difficult to read, not to mention filled with truisms.

About the poetry, the less said the better.

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