leadership527
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OK, so speaking from the dom side (because, bluntly, I feel just as much of a need for honor and integrity from my wife as I think she has of me), In my opinion, this is a baby and bath water type of problem. The real question is, "how much baby and how much bath water are we talking about?" I've been with my wife for 13 years. There are a LOT of really good and compelling reasons to not send her away casually. She's put a LOT of chips in the pot and can afford a mistake or two or ten... even doozies. Depending on the magnitude of damage done to my trust, there might need to be a puling apart temporarily while that is repaired. For instance, I might well decide that our current level of trust is insufficient to support our current authority dynamic and so minimize that dynamic or eliminate it entirely. But that's a temporary corrective action, not giving up entirely.
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