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What makes you submit completely? - 9/20/2008 9:39:55 PM

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What is the one thing that makes you submit no matter what?

(you know what I mean. It's the thing that gets you everytime and once it's involved you can't back out even if you tried. your jelly in the knees and blind to all else. Fighting against it is hopeless and you know it.)

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 9/20/2008 9:48:46 PM

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For me?

Nothing.

Even if the dominant employs an action that will immediately put me into submissiveness I will still retain my faculties. I don't think the idea of submitting is fun if it happens easily (for me, or the dominant).

That said, however, in a scene there are some things that will usually shut me up and make me do as he says, unless I'm feeling particularly snarky. Just one word is my favorite... a command. "Down"

Hearing a dominant say that drives me instantly to a place where their pleasure is paramount, and I can't make my mouth stop watering. I still know what I'm doing, though, I can stop if I have to or if the dominant pushes the limits too far. It isn't license for him to use me as nothing that matters.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 9/20/2008 9:59:58 PM

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For me?

Nothing.

Even if the dominant employs an action that will immediately put me into submissiveness I will still retain my faculties. I don't think the idea of submitting is fun if it happens easily (for me, or the dominant).

That said, however, in a scene there are some things that will usually shut me up and make me do as he says, unless I'm feeling particularly snarky. Just one word is my favorite... a command. "Down"

Hearing a dominant say that drives me instantly to a place where their pleasure is paramount, and I can't make my mouth stop watering. I still know what I'm doing, though, I can stop if I have to or if the dominant pushes the limits too far. It isn't license for him to use me as nothing that matters.

Beautifully said, Aravain. I work very similarly. All I have to hear is the quiet voice of my Master telling me to kneel. But that doesn't mean my brain leaves the building.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 9/20/2008 10:07:00 PM

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My sense that it is right for me to do so. If it's there, then it happens. If it's not, then it doesn't. No matter what else.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 9/21/2008 3:13:01 AM

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For this servant it is 'big breasts'. Please forgive me for being so shallow but it is my strongest fetish. A Woman who is well endowed and spirited can drive me to my knees in a heartbeat. "I'ts Whats Up Front That Counts" says it all for me.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 9/21/2008 5:05:30 AM

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This question confuses me. Granted, I am not with either of them 24/7, but even on the phone or in emails, they are the dominant and I’m the submissive.
What “makes” me submissive is that we have an agreement and I willingly abide by it.
Now if you are asking about things they do or say that make me feel all gooey and glad I am the submissive, there are too many to count.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 9/21/2008 5:17:16 AM

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It's the "Submit" button located just below her collarbone.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 9/21/2008 5:32:07 AM

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What is the one thing that makes you submit no matter what?

It's not as if there's one word or a look that's going to cause me to step out of my comfort zone to obey/submit no matter what. It's about how far along the progression is. In some ways, it's in the hand's of the Dominant, since my desire to please is always linked to the state of mind he's got me in.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 9/21/2008 5:36:07 AM

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The one thing that makes me submit????

I am his.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 9/21/2008 5:36:29 AM

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It's the "Submit" button located just below her collarbone.

Where do I get one of those? And does it hurt to have it put in???

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 9/21/2008 6:13:22 AM

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That would depend greatly on with whom I was submitting to, and the context if it is just for play,for my own Master, also the bond between myself and the top/Dom. Different people have different effects on me.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 9/21/2008 6:19:59 AM

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The one thing that makes me submit????

I am his.

Same for me.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 9/21/2008 6:22:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: catize

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

It's the "Submit" button located just below her collarbone.

Where do I get one of those? And does it hurt to have it put in???

Isn't that sort of part of the kink?

I am wondering if the OP does not mean rather that as a sub, what makes you let go and really drop in to the sub headspace where you are totally there in your submissiveness?

I am new at it all, but I am starting to "drop in" to that place easier with only the physical presence of Milady. When we first got together, it took Her climbing into my lap and taking my throat in Her teeth and biting hard to drop me in. -THAT- was a freaky fun experience - one second uber awkward geek boy completely overthinking everything that is happening - next second totally zoned in trembling subbie boy completely focused on Her.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 9/21/2008 6:24:16 AM

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A raised hand threatening to hit me works wonders.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 9/21/2008 6:26:05 AM

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What is the one thing that makes you submit no matter what?

i haven't found that yet...but it would have to be a doozy! Maybe i'm faulty in some way.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 9/21/2008 6:31:17 AM

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Isn't that sort of part of the kink?

Well I was hoping the answer would be ''yeah, hurts like a bitch" !!!

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 9/21/2008 6:55:34 AM

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Love.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 9/21/2008 8:47:21 AM

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Are you specifying no matter who used it? Or just with one partner?

Because there isn't anything that would work with everyone. But what he does that gets me viscerally everytime is bite my neck. Not hard enough to draw blood or leave marks, but his teeth in my neck always gets me.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 9/21/2008 9:54:59 AM

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LOL I know what does it for me. But no freakin way would I post that bit of knowlege on a public site.
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ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

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What is the one thing that makes you submit no matter what?

i haven't found that yet...but it would have to be a doozy! Maybe i'm faulty in some way.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 9/21/2008 10:27:14 AM

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I agree that I submit completely because I'm His. That's always a given. But if I'm all fiesty and joking around or distracted or whatever, all He has to do is use a certain tone of voice when He says my name. It's like a switch gets flipped and I know to stop whatever I'm doing and drop. And I don't mean physically, although I usually do that too, but it brings me back (so to speak) and puts me back in my place. I love it.

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